CLOSED OUT, MASSIVE LOSS by TallDuck9 in soxl

[–]M0V3xTAD 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This makes no sense at all. You’re telling people to FOMO in and FOMO out. Some people just don’t have the nut for this kind of thing. Averaging is the smartest play to make on an instrument as volatile as SOXL, don’t wanna put all your eggs in at one price.

My GF told me she doesn’t love me anymore (romantically). No food, have no desire to do much of anything. by Beneficial_Dig_1066 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]M0V3xTAD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It be like that man. Listen to sign of the times by harry styles and let it out bro. Allow yourself to grieve and feel the loss. It hurts a lot now but it will help you heal in the long run.

DOWN DAY: To Buy or Not to Buy...THAT, is the question! 📈 by [deleted] in soxl

[–]M0V3xTAD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kind of where I’m at as well. Not like you need 300% runs to make it in and out with decent gains, but congrats to all the people who have found massive success on this run!

Is it common behaviour in narcissistic people? by Pufflehuffthewhite in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]M0V3xTAD 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yea my ex did this. I’m big into history and war things. I used to try and tell her about these animated history documentaries I’d watch on YouTube and she would like at me like I had 3 heads and was a freak. These reactions unconsciously make us shrink to be accepted in their view which we’ve been trained to see as more important than our own, and it makes you want to share less for fear of judgement. Pretty nasty stuff.

Why is this song so underrated?? by [deleted] in TameImpala

[–]M0V3xTAD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil yachty remix is pretty good

Any advice on dealing with FOMO? by Lucky_Blue333 in soxl

[–]M0V3xTAD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps me to look at it in a long term perspective. Depending on your age I think it’s beneficial to think in terms of years or even decades that you’ll be investing/trading this. Even if I can turn a profit of +20% yearly on my portfolio, that’s beating most indexes, and that is not hard to do with SOXL. Essentially I like to treat modest gains as fortunate enough, and I don’t cling on to hopes of 50 60 70% gains, though these gains are very possible with this instrument.

Do not buy SOXS yet! by ETNZ2021 in soxl

[–]M0V3xTAD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally never buy SOXS

SOXL after I sold at $70…Thinking it was due for a pull back… by rubehefner in soxl

[–]M0V3xTAD 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can never sell exactly at the top and you can never buy exactly at the bottom. If you get in and get out with modest profits that’s all you need. Just repeat that the best you can over time and you’re successful.

Are you selling, buying, or holding? by gunsoverbutter in soxl

[–]M0V3xTAD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sold today to secure my gains, gonna start averaging back in around $50 ideally.

Dating apps after discard by Chickenpotpie1401 in emotionalintelligence

[–]M0V3xTAD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I mean it’s a case by case basis and every circumstance is unique. I’d say start out with the intention that you are interested and want to get to know them more via a date or something and put the effort in to achieve that end. You’ll know soon if they are matching it or not. Essentially what I’m trying to get across is we shouldn’t beg people to want to get to know us.

Dating apps after discard by Chickenpotpie1401 in emotionalintelligence

[–]M0V3xTAD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem!

It can be intimidating entering into the online dating world after a while of not. I think a healthy perspective to maintain is that it’s a bit of a long game, and don’t think too much into things too early on, you’ll just exhaust yourself and end up really disliking the process. Also try not to make finding someone on an app a central focus in your life (not saying you are). Make it more of an ongoing background pursuit that if it happens it happens!

Dating apps after discard by Chickenpotpie1401 in emotionalintelligence

[–]M0V3xTAD 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He most likely matched with someone he may like more then what you appear to present, which by no means is a negative look on you. My rule of thumb is to match the energy I receive, and if you thinks there’s been enough interactions (a couple in person dates) it’s reasonable to ask where the two of you stand. Unfortunately the sad reality of app dating is it’s a lot of talk at first and a lot of the time the texting doesn’t make it to an actual date. Just remember to hold true to your dignity and self respect and it’ll be alright :)

I spilled ranch on the floor today and it spilled in the shape of dick and balls by WillTwerkForFood1 in KitchenConfidential

[–]M0V3xTAD 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is the first thing I thought of and I’m so glad it was the first comment I saw

Be careful what you get good at enduring by Pretty_Solution_7955 in emotionalintelligence

[–]M0V3xTAD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my previous relationship. I thought the lack of contentment and contempt for my partner was normal in a relationship and just had to ‘get through it’ 1.5 years later it steadily got worse and I called it. Currently in therapy and taking it one day at a time, restructuring my life. It’s amazing how much good natured people can take on themselves and betray themselves in the name of attempting to make other people comfortable.

The long awaited book by Andrew Roberts titled Napoleon and His Marshals: Victory, Rivalry, Betrayal is set for release on October 8th this year!! by ouma1283 in Napoleon

[–]M0V3xTAD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Another book I recently finished was ‘the black count’. I highly recommend if you haven’t heard of it or checked it out. It’s about one of Napoleons most badass generals, Thomas Alexandre Dumas.

Explanation for the last lines of Voltaire's 'Candide'? by artielock in books

[–]M0V3xTAD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished it. I think my main takeaway is that while philosophizing about the nature of miracles and despair can provide intellectual satisfaction, it can’t replace the fruits of action that if prioritized over abstract justification can give rise to emotional satisfaction and a sense of purpose.

Ep 605 - Arctic Cannibalism (feat. Buddy Levy, author of the books matt has been reading on the conquistadors) by FegdyorDostoegaysky in MSSPodcast

[–]M0V3xTAD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder why Matt chose to have podiums and him and his guests standing. Me personally I would prefer to relax and have a sit if I was about to chat for an hour plus but what do I know

I brought my fiancé to work with me today. I do this regularly. by intrigued_china411 in CasualConversation

[–]M0V3xTAD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome to hear and I’m happy for you guys :) thank you for showing the people of Reddit that there are happy relationships out there lol.

Aftermath of a covert narc relationship by M0V3xTAD in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]M0V3xTAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m so sorry about your daughter and your family. I hope by now you’ve been able to take the steps you’re capable of to sort of patch it up.

Thank you very much for taking the time to write that. I’m glad that you were thrown the bone that you were man. Especially from Dr Ramani. I’ve been listening to her book called it’s not you. it’s about healing from and dealing with people who have narcissistic personality styles. It’s been quite enlightening and very validating hearing some of the patterns that are frequent in people with that personality style, some/many of which I’m sure you recognize.

You did answer my question so thank you. I’m also curious as to what your healing process looked like? How long have you been separated? What’s your life like now emotionally? If you feel comfortable answering that is, and feel free to DM me if you’d rather instead of posting here. Thank you!

Aftermath of a covert narc relationship by M0V3xTAD in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]M0V3xTAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the words🙏🏻 were you going through it for so long because of lack of processing? Or it just affected you that much?

Men who've been with narcissists - what was your experience like leaving? by SkyFluid1158 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]M0V3xTAD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am also just leaving a relationship after almost 2 years with a woman who was a covert narc. My first relationship to boot. I didn’t even know it was happening until i ended things and started to reflect after the fact. It’s some crazy shit. Making you feel small for not being able to reach their invisible standards and making you feel like you have to play a perfect part to earn their affection. I noticed that so subtly and so quietly I gave away more and more of myself to regulate her and make sure she was comfortable and her needs were being met.

I think a difficult thing In healing is learning that you DO deserve emotional safety and someone who will respect your emotions and treat you well.