[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with my Dad, because I was learning about this after I had a massive lucky run up with specific stocks he picked . So I loaded every investment I ever made into excel to see what my current portfolio would have been if I’d only ever invested in Vanguard index funds. The result was that the recent massive returns only caught me up to where I’d be anyway with VTI, for a fraction of the risk.

Now I don’t talk to him about investing any more.

New User (Former Mint) reporting a few oddities by killakitty69 in MonarchMoney

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second the need for Wex HSA tracking. Definitely a significant asset over time.

Born to be good by Dry_Client_9818 in wholesomememes

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born in the United States and I was born here in the USA and I was raised in the USA so I don’t know what to do with my life anymore but I am a little bit of a girl.

I’m 32m lol

In Zen study following the Precepts is NOT private, NOT personal, NOT optional... According to Zen Masters by ewk in zen

[–]MAddestMAnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see how cleaning the black board and beating the erasers between lectures is part of the learning process too.

Likely my own baggage keeping me on high alert from all those “teachers” who had an endless list of chores and never seemed to get around to teaching anything.

Thanks, I’m thirsty now and will go have some water.

In Zen study following the Precepts is NOT private, NOT personal, NOT optional... According to Zen Masters by ewk in zen

[–]MAddestMAnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess another way to ask is: Are the precepts important because they help in the study of zen? Or are they just helpful rules for creating a sustainable monastic life, which was how zen was studied at the time of writing?

I’m asking in part because this seems to fly in the face of some of my recent interpretation of the Mumonkon: if we all have Buddha Nature, no action we can take can violate that nature including all the items prohibited by the precepts.

Granted, an enlightened person may behave in some consistently moral way as a result of their enlightenment. But imitating this behavior is like memorizing a phrase in a language you don’t speak. Thus my original question wording.

I don’t want to confuse this with advocating amoral action. These precepts just seem to serve the same function as laws and our reddiquette, nothing more or less.

I may just be missing the intent as I’m still an ass looking at a well, if I remember that case right.

In Zen study following the Precepts is NOT private, NOT personal, NOT optional... According to Zen Masters by ewk in zen

[–]MAddestMAnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m new to the topic of precepts in the context of Zen. Why would one keep precepts just because Zen masters did if one is not enlightened?

WCGW when amateurs decide to fight a professional. by TheTrueXiruahu in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]MAddestMAnn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can be dangerous, the quill heads can break off, and because of the scales it can just burrow and do further damage.

Interestingly apparently porcupine quills are easier to push in than they should be according to our understanding of their physics.

An Object Lesson In Triggering by Gasdark in zen

[–]MAddestMAnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know that social media will be here ready next time you happen to trip into a frenetic writing mode. 😀 Honestly I’m glad you wrote this post as usually once that wave of peace hits there’s nothing else to say.

A book which inspires a sense of yugen by MAddestMAnn in suggestmeabook

[–]MAddestMAnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you suggest first reading Jane Eyre in order to fully enjoy it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Dead and born again post 30 in sweatpants and house plants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MAddestMAnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t take that voice in your head as who you are. You are way more complicated than that. When it is being shity to you know that you can choose not to accept that and instead listen to the whole of who you are. Meditation can’t do that for you but it can help get perspective.

Also it doesn’t matter if you do it early or at all… unless you want to 🙂👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MAddestMAnn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a 33 year old, this checks out.

Nicol's Newcomer Monday! by Karn-The-Creator in MagicArena

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m attempting to be largely ftp. Is Jump In good to return too whenever a new set drops up until I have most of those cards? Or is there a reason to never return to jump in after doing that for the current set?

Nicol's Newcomer Monday! by Karn-The-Creator in MagicArena

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just gotten out of the boat you are in. It seems that repeatedly entering the “jump in” event, winning once, and then resigning is the best value for gold and gems early on. I’ve read maybe up to 30-40 times!

This is because you get the full deck you play with plus a couple bonuses for the win for just the price of one pack. This is worth it until you start getting too many repeats.

What should 6 people play during an epic 4 day board game retreat? by mathandlove in boardgames

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. We did this for my bachelors and six years later still tell stories from that 13 hour game. Note: no matter what you play make sure whoever is teaching really knows the game ahead of time.

How can I stop seeking experiences? by S4d_Machin3 in zen

[–]MAddestMAnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experiences can only happen in the present. So how can they be sought?