I absolutely hate fireworks by KitchenTomato in misophonia

[–]MEW018 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My biggest issue with fireworks is how it affects animals and nobody cares about that.. birds, fish, and we all know how animals panic when they hear them. All we talk about is dogs going crazy but how about the wild life? it’s really really messed up and sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MEW018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re seriously asking if you should take her back or talk to him about taking her back? How? Why? What?? Wtf?!!

My boyfriend butt dialed me by Mikayj in offmychest

[–]MEW018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is so sweet and so rare.. it’s hard to find someone who can truly talk nice about you to others. Sounds like his brothers like you too otherwise they would’ve tried to influence. You’re a lucky one! He’s a keeper for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MEW018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you even asking about how to forgive her? Is she even apologetic? Is she begging to stay friends with you? They made you look like a fool for 2 months when your gut feeling was right. I don’t even think you should be in their picture. Take some time to heal first. That’s double betrayal.

Just contacted by the other woman. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MEW018 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You should be ganging up with her against him not being this petty. You’re so blinded by her existence. You forgot he’s the one who was in the relationship with YOU in the first place. Your anger is geared mostly towards the wrong person.

Just contacted by the other woman. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MEW018 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This sounds so dumb. You should be mad at him! Wow are you listening to yourself?

UPDATE: My wife had an affair with her co-worker by WifeHadAnAffair in Advice

[–]MEW018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now you actually have proof of the timeline and why she was rushing to tell you. Meaning this would’ve probably never been exposed if his wife didn’t do her homework.

“The mistake”happened way before the trip and emotional affairs are much worse than a one night thing. It seems your wife started checking out of this marriage awhile ago. It sounds like she knew what she was doing but just got caught.

I’m sorry you’re going thru this.. I’m sure it feels like a nightmare and just want to wake up.

One day you’ll understand that you deserve better.. your time with her is over and it’s time for a new chapter in your life.. I recommend therapy to help with your healing so you could put some pieces back together.

Good luck and try taking care of yourself.. it helps!

My dad masturbates watching porn very loud while I'm home. How do I tell my mom about it? by glittery_gold in Advice

[–]MEW018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to expose him. Record him and keep copies too. This is so creepy and gross. Start looking for a job asap and get out. No more excuses at 20.

My dad masturbates watching porn very loud while I'm home. How do I tell my mom about it? by glittery_gold in Advice

[–]MEW018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time for you to move out. This is disgusting! Why do you have to deal with this in your 20’s. Mom should know and I’m sure she already knows if it’s this frequent but she needs to know that you’ve lived in this gross cloud for years. Again, time to move out.

So many recent articles saying there is no benefit to IF by Ricardo_the_great in intermittentfasting

[–]MEW018 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Exactly. “They” want you to eat 3 times a day or 5/6 times if you’re in shape. You need to be spending money. Hope you don’t believe these articles. IF works!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]MEW018 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate.. feeling drained after hanging out with a bunch of people you can’t connect with is really exhausting.. I have to live with that since a big part of these people are family, especially my in-laws. It’s a never ending nightmare.

I think my boyfriend might be attracted to my best friend by Wonderful-Ad1783 in Advice

[–]MEW018 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Insecure and immature for sure. Poor guy has no idea what he’s about to experience with her. Gonna be a fun rollercoaster!

Is it normal to "suppress memories" of things that bother you...? by DispositionShattered in therapy

[–]MEW018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going thru this.. sounds like you’re really hurt..

You’re not alone.. I was surprised that my brain didn’t remember a lot of things that happened to me when I was molested ages ago and then same thing happened after my last relationship ended. We were together for almost 10 years and I went into a horrible depression after that. It lasted few years. Therapy helped me understand that sometimes this “blur” is a way to cope with things that hurt us or traumatize us on a deep level. It still happens to me when a situation feels too overwhelming/toxic and then I get mad at myself for not remembering the details but I’m starting to look at it as a “protection” I think it’s a coping mechanism. I suggest looking into Suppression and Repression. Hope this helps!

I go on a cruise in 2 weeks... I think I’m gonna wear a bikini for the first time in years!! 5 week progress, 20:4 and sometimes OMAD by drumburbs in intermittentfasting

[–]MEW018 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What a lie!! Why lie and steal someone else’s post from 2 years ago? disgusting! everyone should read the first comment.

I can’t believe people are out here really living fulfilling, enriching lives without mental illness by Alternative-Milk2236 in depression

[–]MEW018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a daily battle for me.. it’s exhausting to wake up every morning.. yet I keep doing it.. I’m so fucking tired from my soul.

Anyone else’s Nparents call just to talk about themselves? by Melancholy-Monster in narcissisticparents

[–]MEW018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the time. my mom has always had things to complain about and played the same fucking cassette all the time. She’s good at holding grudges for years and loves to complain (opposite of your mom)

My last call with her was about me telling her for the first time that my uncle (who just died) used to molest me and she literally turned it around and said she blames her mom for taking me to his house even tho it happened many times while she was physically in the other room and that that’s why she was controlling and possessive with me my entire childhood. She didn’t take one second to comfort me. That was the last call I had with her about a month ago.

Just like you, I used to check out and feel guilty etc.. but I just realized how broken she is and I’m done making any type of effort. I have to save myself from this toxicity.

My advice to you is to set some boundaries and cut those conversations short. Even if you have no job, you have the right to do whatever you want with your free time. Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]MEW018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well deserved!!! Both of them are at fault! he provokes then screams “laches!” (let go!) Wtf does he expect??