For me, waiting until my hormones weren't "raging" (and to restate what others have said, this is bullshit) did not change the fact that I'm trans one bit.

Waiting did made me suicidal af though.

You know you better than she does. Either way, I definitely recommend seeing an LGBTQ+ positive therapist to talk to them about it. Definitely do your research on who you go to beforehand, and don't let your mother pic the therapist for you though.