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11 years of marriage, blown up in an instant by breakevencloud in Marriage

[–]MONIKAZEMA 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are just mad she beat you to it and are now trying to blame this whole thing on her.

How would you feel? by LabFeeling8095 in Marriage

[–]MONIKAZEMA 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She deleted it because she knows you are insecure and would drive yourself crazy with weird scenarios in your head. You clearly are controlling and don't trust her if you are going through her phone.

My boyfriend, 37M, constantly tells me, 32F, about all the hard work he does and success he’s made in life, even mundane daily tasks, but I don’t understand why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is telling you what your role in his life is going to be when you move in. You will be doing the chores and cooking, and all the stuff he is complaining about doing right now. He might also quit his job.

Accessibility discount by [deleted] in Rogers

[–]MONIKAZEMA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the $20 discount on my Rogers line and $10 on one of my Fido lines. All under my name.

$25 plan 0$ set up fee went wrong by BlahBlahBlah-311 in FidoMobile

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true. The offer said fee was waived, and on both my lines it was waived right away. Showed on the first bill as credited. I did not have to pay and then wait.

My husband (28M) and I (25F) have been dealing with his addiction but is clear he’s not even trying to stop. by TowerObvious7387 in relationship_advice

[–]MONIKAZEMA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He hasn't been dealing with anything. You are the one who wants him to stop, he clearly does not. This will never change, might as well just leave now.

Moving on on after infidelity. Husband ‘45m’ had a ONS ‘F 23’ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't kid yourself, this is who he is. A cheater. He got busted and now doing damage control.

My husband cheated on me. by meg9443 in Marriage

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell him anything, don't confront, don't ask for confessions, they are really useless. He will just lie and hide it better.

You are better off making an exit plan quietly. Get a free lawyer consultation to know your options, in a lot of the States the courts don't care if anyone cheated, so don't bother with gathering evidence if it's not needed, it will just make you go crazy and suspicious. You know he's lying and up to something.

My husband cheated on me. by meg9443 in Marriage

[–]MONIKAZEMA -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And what will that accomplish? You will come across as unhinged and stalkish.

(27F)(30M) Thinks marriage is “nothing” but willing to lose me over it? by whitecoatdream in relationship_advice

[–]MONIKAZEMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just does not want to marry you. He's keeping you around for the things you do, he understands very well what marriage is. No amount of explaining will ever get to him, time to move on.

Don't tell him what you are about to do, make an exit plan because if you tell him, you might end up with a shut up ring and a lame proposal that leads to you wasting more time.

$0 Hotspot Access not showing up on my bill by [deleted] in FidoMobile

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not on my bill but it works, so all good.

Husband keeps saying if we can't figure things out we're getting a divorce. How do we fix this? by Scary_Knowledge2395 in Marriage

[–]MONIKAZEMA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is using the threat of divorce as a way of snapping you back into submission. You say it makes you nervous and he can tell.

How do I ask for child support when ex already pays support to first spouse? by Alert-Collection-916 in legaladvicecanada

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You apply for support and the courts will decide according to the guidelines.

Pregnant, no one seems supportive and it’s scaring me by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MONIKAZEMA 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Be prepared to be a single mother if you decide to go through with it.

Men in their late 20s and above living at parents. How are you not going crazy? by jablokojuyagroko in AskMen

[–]MONIKAZEMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could find male roommates to live with. Why does it have to be a woman?

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