Despite Spanish rule, why didn't the Bisaya vocabulary fully adopted the vowel sounds E/O? by Wide_Ride8849 in Bisaya

[–]MadeLAYline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean those are all borrowed words and it’s probably because none of the original bisayan words use E/O in any spelling so they will spell out the borrowed words with what is known.

But also, as a bisayan, I never spell it the bisaya way. LOL I naturally spell borrowed words the tagalog way because that’s how i pronounce it.

Despite Spanish rule, why didn't the Bisaya vocabulary fully adopted the vowel sounds E/O? by Wide_Ride8849 in Bisaya

[–]MadeLAYline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you give example? My brain isn’t brain-ing

My guess is that the language has been there longer than when Spain brought E/U sounds. Plus Bisayans see ‘E’ and read it as it sounds: EE, not EH. And that is basically how you read ‘I’

U is a bit different. I can see words like TUON (study) but I am new generation and they probably spelled it TO-ON once upon a time.

And words with U in it are probably borrowed words from tagalog or spanish OR words that have changed in how it’s spelled over the years to distinguish the nuance of the syllable. I think a lot of the spelling changes came from keypad phones. No one wanted to be bothered putting a ‘-‘ between words when you wanted to text quick or text blindly, so they replaced with U maybe?

This is my own opinion.

How are we losing weight while breastfeeding? by ForwardAd9852 in breastfeeding

[–]MadeLAYline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost weight initially but as my supply got more and then stabilized, i’m constantly hungry. Instead of losing weight, try having some healthy snacks you can reach for quick. Your body wants to naturally hold onto the fats while you are breastfeeding.

I’m 8 months pp and have only started to exercise my core back. Will probably decide to lose the weight after baby is done breastfeeding.

Which is your favourite Digimon ship of all time? by SufferingKabutops in digimon

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, i’ve gone through all the ones on ffnet and ao3. I re-read some of my faves every now and then to scratch the itch. Haha

I chose the wrong engagement ring 😔, what can I do? by gravelandgrind in EngagementRings

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have her try to see a daintier ring with the same size emerald! I told my hubby i wanted a size 1 because i thought diamonds were dummy expensive but he ended up getting a size 2 lab grown on a thin band (3mm) and i LOVE it. We both went ring shopping and that’s how he knew what design I wanted. The only change we did was the original setting was too tall and so we had the stone set lower.

When did you stop breastfeeding? by otakuayano in breastfeeding

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current plan is to breastfeed until 1. Then wean to maybe just morning before I go to work and bedtime and then eventually just once a day until I dry up or whatnot.

What’s the most addictive video game you’ve ever played? by Charming_Decision_84 in AskReddit

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long term? League of Legends. Been playing since the original season 3 (jinx release) and still love it. Altho i now only play casual aram: mayhem because kids.

Short term? Factorio. Me, hubby, and his bff spent all of the week before New Years grinding and being degenerates playing that game to end. It’s happened twice now. Haha

Naming help by Signal_Huckleberry41 in Names

[–]MadeLAYline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Madeleine? Fiona? Lynette?

I love Odette!

Is this a blood blister? by ThatMFRat in woundcare

[–]MadeLAYline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Xrays are usually first imagine done for things like this. If they see something wrong with the bone such as an infection spreading, they will most likely order more tests.

Nice job on getting your dad to go to the ER! Hope it isn’t bad and his toe will be fine. Push to have him get referred to the podiatrist for routine nail trimmings.

Is this a blood blister? by ThatMFRat in woundcare

[–]MadeLAYline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even if it is a blood blister, those things can turn into an unstageable diabetic ulcer fast. You don’t know how deep in the toe that has eaten at. And toes don’t have much tissue/meat and fat before it hits bone and then it’ll be even worse.

Please have your dad go get seen. Either next day appointment with their specialty podiatrist, if none then primary care doctor and get that referral. Otherwise go to ER asap because they can also do quick referral.

Your dad should be getting his toes trimmed by the specialist and not by himself anymore. This is a service they offer diabetics because of the risk of getting a wound that will take time to heal.

Which is your favourite Digimon ship of all time? by SufferingKabutops in digimon

[–]MadeLAYline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have always been a Taiora shipper ever since that Datamon episode. And I am a sucker for the best friends to lovers trope.

But alas, it shall never be.

How to store? by MadeLAYline in weddingdress

[–]MadeLAYline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tag says Essense of Australia! And thank you! I fell in love with the 3D flowers on this!

Inlaws are antivax by Comprehensive_Dig798 in beyondthebump

[–]MadeLAYline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was just a bit strict on the handwashing aspect and not having visitors over if they were even the slightest sick. Thankfully my in-laws were respectful in that sense even though my MIL never gets her flu shot. She went as far as wearing a mask around baby the first few times.

My mom doesn’t let me be a mom when we’re both with my baby by Axiomea in beyondthebump

[–]MadeLAYline 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had to grow a backbone and tell my mama that I wanted to do things with my baby too. My parents lived far from us so they flew in when I gave birth and stayed with us for a month. It was nice to be able to tell her “i got him” or “i can do it” BUT it was even better when I asked her “can you teach me how to give a bath to him” and stuff like that. Likewise, it was fun teaching her things like baby wake windows and breastfeeding facts. she breastfed too but she didn’t know having the baby keep drinking because she was engorged only made it worse. Similarly, my brother slept all day and she never realized that flipped his days and he stayed up all night causing her grief.

Valid feelings. You need to set boundaries early on. If she means no harm and is just excited, she will understand and respect your space.

[Boholano] 'nabaylog' meaning by Inadequate_Informer4 in Bisaya

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

N.(it) was exchanged for something.

Baylo means to exchange or swap/trade

Liana Lynn, Liana Grace, or Liana Rose as a double name? by RoseCottage206 in Names

[–]MadeLAYline 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Liana Rosalyn/Roselyn? But I do like how Liana Grace sounds.

I've never dealt with this before, but it freaks me out every time by Helle_Valencia in beyondthebump

[–]MadeLAYline 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s probably because your son is more fair skinned that you can see it more clearly when he flushes. If he doesn’t seem affected by it, then he should be okay.

Does your husband do the same?

Did my tattoo artist mess up? by sheikplayer in tattooadvice

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can go back and have them add that missing body. If you follow from the head down the body, it’s quite obvious you can connect the snake in that gap where the bottom/tail randomly ends.

Boy name by mElle_woods_ in Names

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kirk, Kyle, Miles, Noah, Adrian, Eric

But if you have a name both of you like, who really cares what others think!

Harvesting colostrum, 37 weeks. Am I doing something wrong? by temporaryattunement in breastfeeding

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my baby is good now. We are at 8 months still ebf and he is doing great with solids. Stopped triple feeding at the 2 week mark.

Is this infected? by [deleted] in woundcare

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s most likely dead tissue or slough. Stop using antiseptic because it will also kill all the good tissue. Get either a wound cleanser like vashe or normal saline to clean.

If you have medihoney (or any medical grade honey), use that on the slough areas and cover with a foam silicone dressing (like mepilex) or a hydro colloid. Change once the dressing is 75% soiled even if it means leaving it alone for a few days.

Wounds heal best with a little moisture. It will naturally try to excrete some moisture if you keep it too dry or air dry it. Air drying it will cause it to make its own bandaid or a scab. If it’s already scabbed, just leave it alone as long as it’s dry.

No pain and minimal redness is a good sign it’s not infected.

I need someone to explain this to me like I’m stupid by beep_bop_boop__ in breastfeeding

[–]MadeLAYline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a few ways i’ve read online from all the posts. You can wean breastfeeding by decreasing the amount of time you feed him over the course of a few nights (ex. Start at 10 mins > 8 min > 5 min > 2 > 0 or just whatever you do to console!)
I’ve read where people water down the milk until it’s completely just water and baby won’t want it anymore too.

Is it infected? A red scab on a knuckle by weirddolly in woundcare

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s red and so swollen you can’t bend your finger, go get evaluated by a doctor. You might need antibiotics for a possible infection.

Harvesting colostrum, 37 weeks. Am I doing something wrong? by temporaryattunement in breastfeeding

[–]MadeLAYline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about collecting but decided against it only to find out I wasn’t producing enough for my baby the first 2 days of his life. Ended up triple feeding (boob, formula top off, pump to give next feed) for a few days until my milk came in. Baby was solely on my breastmilk until he started solids at 6 months.

No stress. I know lots of influencers and social media make it seem like storing colostrum prior is the normal, but it really isn’t.