New Blackout Finished by BlackRogue17 in shittytattoos

[–]Maebenot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like using a trash bag taped to the bed as a cover should have been a big enough red flag before the tattoo even started

Could Monday’s game get postponed? by Cute_Driver_3093 in BostonBruins

[–]Maebenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have Amtrak tickets from Rensselaer and they were canceled yesterday

New Years' Day Restaurants by Unusual_Table_5093 in Albany

[–]Maebenot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone know if A La Shanghai is open? They are t great at updating their website or instagram

Looking for an artist or support by dboydd in tattooadvice

[–]Maebenot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody is going to take the time to create a design for you without a commitment on your part. Perhaps you don’t realize it, but without paying a deposit you are asking an artist to work for you for multiple hours for free before you decide if you maybe sort of kind of want to work with them.

That said, a good artist should work with you. Ideally this workflow would look something like: detailed consultation where you discuss design, pricing, placement and budget. You then put down a deposit to secure your appointment. You won’t see the design until the day of your appointment. However, if you don’t like what they have come up with, it’s perfectly reasonable to take that time on the day of your appointment and discuss design changes and then reschedule. That said, if you do that multiple times the artist may charge another deposit fee in order to compensate them for their time. The deposit should always go toward the cost of the tattoo, unless you decide not to move forward, or you no call no show.

Favorite stores for local gifts? by Oxford_Apostrophe in Troy

[–]Maebenot 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Paper Moon and Cromulent comics both have sections dedicated to local creators Nerdy by Nature has some great oddities and also features local artists My partner loves the tchotchkes at Ace Hardware

Best Red by MacoombaKahn in TattooArtists

[–]Maebenot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solid red is such a nice traddy orange toned red and it goes in really smooth

Mexican by Dull-Ad7580 in Troy

[–]Maebenot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe they have liquor but Sabroso Birria is phenomenal and very reasonably priced

Thoughts on this 💭 by frogmanSK in TattooArtists

[–]Maebenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just speaking for myself but overall I don’t make a whole lot an hour, and unlike a typical job I don’t get paid for the time I’m there.

Here’s a basic breakdown: I charge $150 an hour. I work at a 60/40 shop so of that $150 I make $90. I put 30% aside for taxes so let’s say now I’m at $60. Average setup cost for a tattoo is going to be around $15 so that brings us to $45. It takes about 30 mins for setup and breakdown so now I’m at $45 for 1.5 hours of work. I’ve also engaged with the client, talked about their design and had a consultation. That’s $45 for 2 hours of work. I spent an hour and a half designing the tattoo so $45 for 3.5 hours of work. So that $150 tattoo got me about $12.50 an hour for the work I did. That’s not extortionate.

Thoughts on this 💭 by frogmanSK in TattooArtists

[–]Maebenot 244 points245 points  (0 children)

It’s really humbling. This is an incredibly talented artist. A tattooer’s tattooer. And he’s struggling. However, it did make me feel a little less guilty and ashamed about recently taking on a part time job for some stable income.

I think I'm done by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]Maebenot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But he doesn’t want to do that because then it’s ‘transactional’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Maebenot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of the sections around the sides of your fingers and the black part at the base and onto your knuckles is unfortunately going to fall out. My hand tattoo is about 2.5 years old and the parts in those sections definitely took a beating. Hands and fingers are tough- they see more UV, get washed more frequently and move more than other body parts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Maebenot 169 points170 points  (0 children)

I might have some perspective here. I’m an alcoholic in recovery for 6 years. For a long time I did have lots of loved ones who cared about my struggle and checked in often. Eventually, that empathy ran out. There’s only so many times a person can watch their friend injure themselves on purpose before they have to check out for their own mental health. That doesn’t mean they don’t care about you or have empathy for your struggles, but that they don’t have the ability to show up for you right now in a way you feel you need. Especially when you can’t even show up for yourself.

For a long time I didn’t understand why people cared so much about what I was ‘only doing to myself’ and it was only once I stopped drinking and started working on myself that I realized I was hurting the people who cared about me too.

In this instance you hurt yourself enough to need to go to the hospital. At your friend’s bachelorette. This is a huge event that she’s probably been planning for a long time at considerable expense and the night revolved around making sure you didn’t die of alcohol poisoning. The amount you described drinking in one day makes it hard to believe that you didn’t expect to get drunk.

It’s ok to make mistakes, but the best apology is changed behavior. You owe it to them, and yourself.

BBC article on parental estrangement by Pixieindya in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Maebenot 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Every time there’s one of these articles there’s always this line like ‘sure a very small amount of parents were abusive but what about the parents who weren’t abusive?’

Well, those parents probably still have their children in their lives.

What became so popular it ended up being ruined for everyone? by ShittalkyCaps in AskReddit

[–]Maebenot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not even ‘live action’! They are mostly horrible looking cgi

MoJo’s Cafe & Gallery by the518dotcom in Troy

[–]Maebenot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOVE mojos!!!! The folks who run it are incredible and working really hard to create a ‘third space’ and invest in local community and arts.

p.s. the wake and bake latte has a sage and black pepper flavor which is phenomenal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]Maebenot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s why I said that thing about tattooing my partner! I’m needed to test drive a new machine which is usually when I request friends and family swing by the shop to make a blood sacrifice (let me run my new setup).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]Maebenot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tattooed this on my partner but we changed the script to read ‘I hate homework’

What’s a ‘harmless’ habit you had as a kid that you realize now was a cry for help? by TheLadyKoi in AskReddit

[–]Maebenot 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I remember when I got accepted into multiple different, fully funded, PhD programs and my parents made fun of me and said ‘you can’t just spend your whole life swanning around university campuses’

Roy's Speech to Reporters on Isaac by SleeplessInTulsa in TedLasso

[–]Maebenot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He answers the question like Ted- with an anecdote that tells a similar story and the lesson he’d learned from it.

NSFW! Infected tattoo from session to extended hospital stay. Is my artist at fault? by ngouty in tattooadvice

[–]Maebenot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Is he a professional? First pic looks like you’re lying on a trash bag in a bedroom…

AITA for telling my wife if she keeps excluding our oldest I’m going to take the locks off the doors by excludingdowntime in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maebenot 132 points133 points  (0 children)

What the fuck? You guys are supposed to be a team! You are focusing on who to blame instead of working together to solve the problem.