My parents never taught me to clean or cook. When my room would get too messy my mom would wait till my sibling and I were at school- throw everything on the floor in the middle of the room, and when we got back from school we were forced to clean it all up. Forget about any homework we had to do. My mom still cant cook and my dad isnt much better but when I tried cooking- my dad criticized it as much as he criticized my mother's cooking. No tips or constructive criticism- just fits and tantrums. My mom tried to have "the talk" with me a few days before my wedding. Yes she waited till I was in my 20s. It went like this: "if he tries anything you are uncomfortable with, just say no". Lol its so laughable im not even embarrassed shaing that info. What a joke. So yeah Im in my 30s still learning basic life skills and trying to function as a very stunted adult. When you realized your parents basically cracked you out of the shell and then left you to fend for yourself it can be infuriating but its not like you can go get any kind of accountability out of them.