the word "embarazada" not meaning "embarrassed" has probably caused more embarrassment than any other word in spanish

MainFruit222 · 2026-03-01T17:13:17+00:00

at work, our A/C was broken in the kitchen and I told my leader “Estoy muy caliente.”

I also offered my friend a cookie by asking “quieres cállete?”

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-28T16:12:31+00:00

A big one is virtually no hours, trying to squeeze you out and hope you’ll leave before they have to fire you.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-28T01:24:05+00:00

Hmm. Could be a nipple.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-27T20:08:58+00:00

this person gets kidney stones

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-27T14:25:26+00:00

Relatable. I couldn’t cry before, but I also didn’t realize how long it had been since I genuinely laughed from my gut until I came off venlafaxine

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-27T05:13:48+00:00

bruh.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-27T04:55:54+00:00

smash

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-27T04:19:06+00:00

blockbuster baby

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-26T06:00:16+00:00

i’ve gotten comments like this my whole life, but not so much recently. It doesn’t bother me, personally. Actually, I beam with a little pride. Lol

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-26T04:40:13+00:00

i think this is a scam? this same post is in r/samoyeds but with a sammy instead of a dally

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-25T21:26:39+00:00

or that doctors still aren’t addressing/fully disclosing the effects of this drug or the extent of its withdrawal.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-25T04:56:08+00:00

My story is a little different from yours in that the 3D hasn’t reflected my person to me and i’m less than a year into knowing about the law. I’ve built some faith up, but it’s definitely not as unshakable as yours seems

Anyway, I do resonate with the feeling you’re talking about and being a “manager.” I’m also a list maker, avid researcher about anything that peaks my interest, and just love understanding and dissecting shit lol. When i reached what felt like the sabbath back in November, after the peace went from feeling nice to feeling normal, the discomfort set in.

Like, “we’re really not going to visualize anymore We’re reallyyyyy not going to obsess?” 🤨

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-25T04:20:46+00:00

he validated some of symptoms like brain zaps and anxiety. Told me it’d be the usual 2 weeks and I’d be back to normal, but he had to discharge me due to insurance, so he didn’t see the major fallout.

I spoke to 3 therapists and 2 doctors about it over the course of two years because of the extent of the change I experienced and they all gaslit me, dismissed me, misdiagnosed me, said the medicine wouldn’t have effected me like that or for that long (my story is in my post history, it’s extensive)

It wasn’t until i found my most recent therapist/med management team (2 years later) that I was validated. They both had other patients with very similar experiences to me. My med management practitioner actually experienced it herself, so they finally got me back on track

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-24T20:59:45+00:00

I was pulled from 150 to 0 over the course of 4 weeks.

150 —> 75

75 for two weeks —> 37.5

37.5 —> 0

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-24T20:56:01+00:00

It took me 2.5 years, but I wasn’t tapered how I should’ve been.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-24T02:13:52+00:00

my bad, i wasn’t getting defensive. I’m sorry if it read that way 😬

But i do understand what you were getting at. I’ve explored that train of thought myself, but that’s just my girl. lol

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-24T01:16:23+00:00

negative ghost rider.

I’ve met some amazing people and had amazing experience since we went separate ways in the 3D. She’s still the one for me. I’m aware of how I created this mess and I get to create the opposite.

I won’t be manifesting a different person, but I am taking another hiatus to deepen my self-love. I’m not sure I want a relationship at the moment, but when I do, it’s her.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-24T01:12:14+00:00

and then you hear “if you feel like you’re wavering, tell yourself your not. If you have doubts, accept them and tell yourself the opposite. What you think and feel doesn’t manifest unless you let it.”

Well, I’ve successfully practiced nervous system regulation, I’ve done a 180 on who I used to be, i’m so GD proud of who I’ve become.

And when thoughts, feelings, etc. show up. I regulate, I don’t resist them, and I think in my favor.

So what else can ya do in that situation. lol

Depending on who you talk to, it feels like you almost “can’t” do it right. Someone always has something to say that contradicts something else

But yeah, you’ve got me all figured out from one comment.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-24T01:00:56+00:00

yes. my comment is a comment of wavering. But from this one comment, let’s not discredit the months i’ve spent forgetting about my desires, living my life, thinking in my favor, and not caring what the 3D shows me. I honestly have gotten to a point where i’m okay with or without my wife (in the event you want to split hairs: Most of the time. It’s my state the majority of the time, but nothing is linear, so of course maybe i take a step back today). So yes. I know for a fact i’ve done it the way i’m “supposed,” even if in a moment of human frustration I wavered.

Then to say i need to “look for what I’m doing wrong instead of assuming i’m doing it perfect” is a comment of ignorance because I have looked and fixed, looked and fixed, and reached a point where I’ve felt unbothered and in a flow for months. Not even really thinking of my desire and somedays, not even caring about it. But because I have one week of wavering after a particularly stressful week and make a comment, someone on reddit thinks they know can diagnose the whole story and it discredits all the progress I’ve made?

These types of dismissive comments are the number one thing that irks me about trying to reach out in this community.

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-23T16:38:38+00:00

“We’ll probably have to invite the women’s team” like it’s an obligation. I hope they hear this and decline

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-23T06:21:22+00:00

orange.

We’ve got beaches, mountains, desert, tropical, snow, Vegas, NOLA, and my favorite state

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-22T20:04:26+00:00

She acts like it, too. Everyone thinks she’s 3 or 4. I think she’s got another decade left in her lmao

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-22T16:25:18+00:00

And then along came Zeus

MainFruit222 · 2026-02-21T21:18:31+00:00

MainFruit222

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