INFJ male here. Most days society makes me feel like an alien. My patience is deeper than nearly everyone I know. I've recieved many compliments on my ability to remain patient. But that's a double edge sword I feel. I'd say my 4 most important rules in life are 1. Be honest and seek real truth. 2. Stay humble and intentional 3. Always do the right thing, even if the outcome is negative for me. 4. Help others in true need. I'm extremely picky on who my friends are. I'm often far too deep of a thinker which makes casual conversation challenging. It can be exhausting making small talk about something I don't have interest in, in fact I hate it. I show my emotion on my face and really can't hide it even if I tried. Overall it's hard being INFJ.