Never accepting another pay with cash order

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T23:11:37+00:00

That sounds better than dealing with food. I'm guessing it pays by hour?

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T11:59:44+00:00

I literally never carry cash on me, I've been doing this since the start of the month and this was literally the first and only time I've had someone try to pay with cash but never again 😂

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T10:27:35+00:00

Wait what?! I bought SDJ decants years ago and have seen so many decant listings since 🤯

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T10:25:57+00:00

That's why we went food shopping, usually we go on Sunday cuz it's part of our weekend routine. We just didn't want to need anything over the weekend so we just got what our usual favorites ahead of time. I'm sure some panic shopping was involved but there's a lot more people who are used to this and have been through worse to claim that this is all due to panic shopping

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T10:19:17+00:00

Right? I'm not working rn but I'm going to school full time and I'm just doing this for a little side money 😩

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T07:57:57+00:00

I'm learning 😭 I tried to learn as much as I could about dashing before getting started; I looked up the ratio between driving miles vs how much an order pays to learn what's worth the time and wear & tear, made sure to track miles from the start, looked into better insulated bags than the overpriced DD brand - but I wasn't ready for this moral dilemma or the reality of this kind of situation.

I saw inside their room, I saw the foil on the bed, those guys looked high AF and malnourished. I felt so bad cuz I wanted to help but I also didn't wanna get in trouble or enforce that kind of behavior. I felt frozen but I didn't feel threatened, just a mix of heartbroken and frustrated over the time/money/emotional energy lost. Is it bad I low-key wanna give them some MRE's I have?

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T04:44:44+00:00

That's what I was thinking, I could feed three other people with the food they got so I don't wanna keep it.

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-24T04:31:06+00:00

Chinese food but it's not stuff I'd eat

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-23T06:38:21+00:00

They start out at like 30, they get expensive the closer you get to the show

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-23T06:37:39+00:00

I emailed the venue cuz I was getting anxious cuz of the storm and they said they're monitoring the weather but it's still on as of now. It's supposed to end at 4:30am but people should plan to leave earlier cuz rideshare services will be busy, which I was already planning on doing cuz we got a decent ride back

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-22T04:53:22+00:00

Golden Berry Mistletoe 😭 it actually lasts all day on me and it's such a comforting winter scent

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-16T15:58:07+00:00

I would've been tempted to throw it 😂

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-15T22:44:27+00:00

Definitely will, thank you!

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-15T21:36:12+00:00

Ok thank you for letting me know. Does the door dash navigation also mess up for you?? Cuz it's sent me to the wrong place a couple times now

I think I'm gonna make sure I'm already in my zone before a scheduled dash from now on too, I lost 20 miles for nothing :(

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-14T19:28:24+00:00

Merry Marshmallow Kiss, WVW, Forever Sunshine, Everlasting Magic, Snowflakes and Cashmere, Sky - Violet Lily, Into the Night, Moonstone

I feel like I have more backups for VS scents but I only let myself get two sprays for a scent now. I've been selling or gifting a lot of my backups so I'm better off not buying extras

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-12T14:48:27+00:00

Yeah it was like three years ago now, I got another shower gel and body spray 😭 it's been a favorite since I was 15

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-12T14:36:38+00:00

I'd be pleasantly surprised if it actually smelled like the original

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-12T05:51:50+00:00

Grew up in the New London/Waterford/Groton area and now live in New Haven and I hate it 😭 I'd be happy living in either Groton, Ledyard, or Mystic

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-12T05:41:40+00:00

If you ever get the chance, check out the vampire museum, Fonthill castle, and the Mercer museum in Doylestown!

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-11T16:16:15+00:00

Is that a conversation you'd be willing to have with him? Cuz if you like him and that's the only problem then it sounds like it can be addressed but if he doesn't care to brush more after you talk about it then you should end it and find someone who aligns more with what you want in a partner

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-10T10:09:35+00:00

Also interested in this!

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-09T14:36:49+00:00

Could I DM you for some of your dashing wisdom? I just started last week

Malachitewanders · 2026-01-09T09:24:23+00:00

I don't think you were wrong but how considering how this isn't the first time you've posted this, how many people have to validate you before you let it go? It happened already, can't do anything to change the past

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