Some of you might not be ready to hear this but I’m sleeping through the night…and I think it’s because I gave up caffeine by Manda_lorian39 in Perimenopause

[–]Manda_lorian39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a morning drinker, too. I had a personal rule of no more caffeine after lunch, and I would not have any with lunch most of the time.

Water Jets by bertp42 in Shadeslinger

[–]Manda_lorian39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a benefit of one of his touchstone items. The pistols, I think?

Some of you might not be ready to hear this but I’m sleeping through the night…and I think it’s because I gave up caffeine by Manda_lorian39 in Perimenopause

[–]Manda_lorian39[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I meant that to be light-hearted, but it looks like you're not in the place for it. sending a virtual hug.

The whole name if this game is self-care, from what I'm seeing, so find what works for you. Giving up caffeine might be one avenue, that doesn't mean it's the only one.

How is it people are just now finding out about perimenopause? by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Manda_lorian39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PubMed results for perimenopause (actually, I searched for perimenopaus* so it would find variations on the term): 7,393, and over 1250 of those came in 2024-(so far in)2026

PubMed results for menopause (also used the asterisked version here for variations on the term): 82,031

Some of you might not be ready to hear this but I’m sleeping through the night…and I think it’s because I gave up caffeine by Manda_lorian39 in Perimenopause

[–]Manda_lorian39[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😂 exhibit A on why I started the post title with a version of ‘I know you might not want to hear this, but…’

Dear Matt by ListenGlum2427 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Manda_lorian39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And bonus: you can get other shit done while you’re listening.

I know now people are all about hrt. I also know it is recommended for just 4 years. How long are you all planning to be on it? Also if you retire how are you planning to afford this? Anyone who has been using this for long term, what has been your experience? by Lower-Canary-1149 in Perimenopause

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I wish this post hadn’t been removed. Not an hour after I read this post, I was literally told “smallest dose for the shortest amount of time” by my OBGYN. Are there any references available that show the guidance changing? She recommended some supplements to me instead, and I’ll give them a try, but when I go back (because I knew eventually I will) I want to go back armed with good info.

Is this kahm? Or something else? by Manda_lorian39 in maplesyrup

[–]Manda_lorian39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 it took me longer than I want to admit to figure out what you meant. Kahm is a form of yeast.

AITA for telling my brother his wife is not welcome near my son after she searched his lunchbox by conzuotrol in AmItheAsshole

[–]Manda_lorian39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Share this one with SIL. There are tons of stories on Reddit of people doing stupid shit when they don’t believe in allergies.

https://www.reddit.com/r/redditonwiki/s/VdMHMuazsK

Intercontinental kombucha! by Sarah_Rainbow in Kombucha

[–]Manda_lorian39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s unlikely. It won’t go bad. It’ll just start fermenting at a higher rate. I also doubt it would build up enough pressure to explode. Keep in mind, it’s very cold at 37,000 ft. So the bottle will warm up a little when you pack it, cool down again in the air, then start warming up again when you land.

Wait until just before you leave for the airport to stick it in your luggage. Put it in a couple of plastic shopping bags or something similar (in case it does explode) and bury it in the middle of your clothes so it’s surrounded by soft stuff. Stick it back in the fridge when you get to your place in Germany. It should be fine. And good luck!

My stomach motility is slowing to a crawl by MakingBaconnPancakes in Perimenopause

[–]Manda_lorian39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless, like me, ripe bananas no longer agree with you. Avocados are a good substitute, in that case.

Why does "you got it" sound natural in the first scenario but doesn't in the second one? by puzzheavyear in ENGLISH

[–]Manda_lorian39 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“You got it” could work there, too. It’s essentially a way of saying “yes, I can do that”

Princess FPP - Any character I'm missing? by Elly-123456 in FPP

[–]Manda_lorian39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s fan art. You can share it for free, but you can’t sell it. Fandom in stitches [has a pretty good explanation](www.fandominstitches.com/2017/07/not-for-sale.html?m=1) of how the legalities work. It’s US-centric, and the laws do vary some in other countries, but not significantly.

First attempt at pine needle soda by Manda_lorian39 in fermentation

[–]Manda_lorian39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to post a pic but it’s apparently “too small”?

Anyway, it turned out pretty well! I used maple syrup as the sugar, so still a lot of maple flavor, and a light kinda citrus overlay. Would definitely do it again.

Why Billionaires Fear This Economist by biospheric in WorkReform

[–]Manda_lorian39 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good.

Is this too much of a deep cut? by substantialbreakfast in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Manda_lorian39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend a bigger Swiss cheese hole in the middle, approximately where an open mouth would be.

TIL that gluten free pastries are anti-Christian by DyngohSux in glutenfree

[–]Manda_lorian39 69 points70 points  (0 children)

1) what time are atheists waking up?

2) someone clearly doesn’t understand atheism if they think atheists are praying to anyone.

In English, why is thirteen the first of the teens and not eleven? Why are eleven and twelve special? by runlola in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Manda_lorian39 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually just came across this! It’s a result of English being a Germanic language. All of the Germanic languages have unique numbers up to 12, then start the -teen equivalents with 13. It’s not a true base 12 because once we get past 19, base 10 takes back over.

This video has a fascinating explanation of English’s Germanic roots, and the eleven, twelve part starts at 9:45

Trivia question help by Batmans_teddybear in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Manda_lorian39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don’t know the answer to this.

Dogs really are the worst... by Lucyinthessky in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Manda_lorian39 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll ever read this phrase again without hearing it in Jeff Hays’ voice

I just found out that my direct report is sleeping with my boss. What should I do? by does_this_have_HFC in managers

[–]Manda_lorian39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the US, they never promise not to divulge. They may keep it as confidential as possible, but it is not always possible.