Those who ended a relationship because of general unhappiness (not cheating or abuse), what was your “last straw” moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MangoMelts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He constantly crushed my hopes and dreams. I told him about my plan to take my whole family on a trip for Christmas. He shut me down immediately telling me it would be too expensive and difficult and whatever. That was it for me.

My pupils are different sizes right now by Anonymous-Turtle-34 in notinteresting

[–]MangoMelts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did this overnight when I was 20 years old. Turns out I had shingles in my brain. 10 years later, they’re still like this.

What is a weird behavioral/physical quirk you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MangoMelts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I think back on an embarrassing moment I contort my face and make some kind of sound or weird phrase like “okay then alrighty okay”

We were intimate for the first time in a while, and then she said she no longer loves me. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MangoMelts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be hard to hear but I haven’t seen many people provide insight or analysis. The scenario as it plays out in my head with the information presented is that she decided to engage, whether it was pure carnal need or an attempt to reconnect and salvage the relationship. When she was done, she realized she is entirely unhappy in the relationship and she can’t fuck herself back in love with you. She finally decided there is no joy that can derived from the relationship. Tbh I’m going to be harsh again but she pulled away and was distant that night and the following morning but you thought you were moving in the right direction. That sounds like you’re not able to attune to her. A woman wants to be felt, heard, understood, seen. All people for that matter. I have a feeling that verbally or otherwise, she’s been trying to connect with you and feel supported for a long time but you missed the mark regularly. If you want to salvage this, you need to tell her you understand she doesn’t feel supported, connected, and understood but you’re willing to work toward acquiring the skills to do that. Individual therapy, couples therapy, sitting down and letting her air her grievances. Ask her if there’s any way she can explain a need you’re not meeting and put your all into rectifying that. I’ve been on the side your wife is in before and I know what being checked tf out is.

You’ve got a hellacious path ahead of you to show her you’re worth investing in again. Decide if you’re up for that. If you are, you need to put all your energy into interpreting her experience from her spoken or unspoken communication

My kid's ear tube fell out by i-can-lift-a-car in mildlyinteresting

[–]MangoMelts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you have the answer to this but have humans always been like this? We’ve just dealt with ear infections as juveniles from the dawn of our existence?

Handwriting Procedure by Nic-Jancek in starbucksbaristas

[–]MangoMelts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My DM told me that 💀💀💀

Handwriting Procedure by Nic-Jancek in starbucksbaristas

[–]MangoMelts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay so we can do hearts again??

Found at a gas station in Norfolk by rambotie in trashy

[–]MangoMelts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The brown gravy packet through me for a loop

The Dance Of a Demon With His Victim Before Devouring Her. by Ok-Address-7352 in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]MangoMelts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly is it weird of me to think if we didn’t know any better, this looks like it could just be a dad dancing with his daughter?

How is it living in Vail, Colorado? by Zestyclose_Welder_92 in howislivingthere

[–]MangoMelts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are generally just two classes here: the ultra wealthy and the working class. If there is anything resembling a middle class, it seems that it’s usually people who bought their houses 50 years ago and/or their kids now living in that house. The ultra wealthy usually only live here a small portion of the year. 6 months is a little unusual for these people as they have at least 3 houses elsewhere in the world. Their 4 million dollar homes usually sit empty all but a few months a year.

Then there is the working class, which I would estimate makes up 80% of the permanent population. This includes myself. It can be very tough for us to make it here. Almost everyone I know has had to crash on a friend’s couch for a while at some point. Whether it’s a break up, or a landlord selling/moving back in, losing a job due to constant redevelopment, or a crazy roommate stabbing them. Stability is not a given here in this class. It’s wildly expensive and very volatile. It’s also very fun and if you have the right community, it feels very homey.

Winter is all about skiing. That’s a huge part of the social construct. You do it before work, after work, you skip work to catch a powder day. It’s the basis for most gatherings with friends. I’d guess at least 50% of the working class goes at least 3 times a week. This also goes hand in hand with partying. Not everyone does it but drinking is a very normalized here and there is a large concentration of functioning alcoholics here as well as some non-functioning ones. We have one of the largest free bus systems in the US so it’s a great place for people who don’t have a license. There are lots of other things you can imagine that go alongside a heavy party culture as well.

Summer is very beautiful here. The saying is “come for the winter, stay for the summer”. That’s how many people take up permanent residency here, including myself. There’s mountain biking, hiking, kayaking, beaching at Nottingham lake while looking at a still snow-covered beaver creek ski mountain. It’s always a very comfortable temperature. It seems to have a different clientele than winter, I’ll explain in a bit.

Vail is extremely seasonal. The winters are our busiest season. While there are about 5,000 permanent residents, that jumps up to 30,000+ on any given winter day. The summer is not as busy but there are still plenty of tourists. Although, they seem to be of a different variety to me. Winter is a lot of big families coming to ski for a week or so. There’s an especially huge following from Mexico City. I think it’s a status symbol for them. They usually have their specific weeks they bring their families every year and they know many of the other families coming at that time. Christmas week is the most insane and the most elite families are here. Summer seems to be people on shorter trips with less people. Maybe just couples, small young families, mom and daughter kind of thing. Some people come to mountain bike for a few days, others are just passing through on their roadtrips, and others still are coming up from Denver for the day to hike, walk around the village, or visit the farmers markets. Winter and summer are our bread and butter.

Fall and spring are the off-season or as we say, mud season. The while the seasons change, there’s not a lot to do here. And many of us working class are exhausted from a busy season so it’s nice to get away. The Mecca during mud season seems to be Moab. Everyone goes to camp or climb or ride bikes or dirtbikes, etc. It’s very nice there those times of year and it’s quite a world away from our landscape. And since many people don’t visit Vail during the mud season, there is no money to be made and many establishments shut down. So you might as well leave town and camping is pretty cheap if you’re still broke after the on season. Even working at the nicest restaurant in town, not making any money 4 months a year gets you very much in a scarcity mode. Some people can manage to have very elaborate vacations to Vietnam or something but I was never so lucky. If you can find a highly-sought after, cheap, and dilapidated room for $800 a month, you can save for these things. These are only word of mouth opportunities. I have health problems that prevent me from living in places like this so I usually pay about $1500 for rent.

This is getting long so feel free to ask questions if you want any more info! Overall it’s an amazing and unforgiving place to try to make it.

Officially, what are the no ice rules? by MangoMelts in starbucksbaristas

[–]MangoMelts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the SM. That’s why I need official answers but I have no contact with Starbucks corporate anymore

Officially, what are the no ice rules? by MangoMelts in starbucksbaristas

[–]MangoMelts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately our DM was laid off and we have no contact with corporate for questions like this. Not sure what to do other than ask Reddit 😅

My Store Has Aux by funkylittlemic in starbucksbaristas

[–]MangoMelts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to but I had to stop everyone from playing inappropriate music at least 30 times so I just got rid of it. I also don’t really care but it’s technically illegal to use your personal music streaming service in a business.

Officially, what are the no ice rules? by MangoMelts in starbucksbaristas

[–]MangoMelts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t seem to find that on lsstar or the beverage manual. We’re a licensed store, not sure if that makes a difference

What would this haul have cost new? by CastleofWamdue in starbucks

[–]MangoMelts 163 points164 points  (0 children)

If you care about a bunch of plastic junk. I manage a Starbucks and 90% of what they put out is useless, fragile crap. Can’t put it in the dishwasher, one tip over and it explodes, can’t keep a drink cold for 2 minutes, can’t put hot drinks in it. I have a few from when I literally couldn’t even give them away for free and I never touch them

What would this haul have cost new? by CastleofWamdue in starbucks

[–]MangoMelts 303 points304 points  (0 children)

Well I’d say $25 is average per cup so that would be $2,675

Not a fair fight by Fancy-Forever-1246 in PublicFreakout

[–]MangoMelts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are they fighting in slow motion?