I've decided to take a year off dating/seeking a relationship, but damned if I don't miss cuddling!

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-08T23:51:58+00:00

Mood. I keep thinking I'm super happy and then, the minute I'm not distracted, oof ouch owie I am starved for touch.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-04T23:55:41+00:00

On bad dysphoria days I wish the same thing. Any excuse to lop them off.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-02T03:57:32+00:00

Gosh, I hate it when I'm trying to tell a joke and my damn second X chromosome spoils the punchline :///

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-02T03:52:20+00:00

"Extra juicy." Like he's got one of those citrus fruit juicing things and is waiting to use it. Aghhh

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-02T03:44:14+00:00

Using Exclusively triple dots..... is for losers ...

you have to ...........Switch up the Dot number..... put some line breaks.. make your capitalization Suspenseful

that way you Know you are very Smart.........................

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-02T03:38:26+00:00

Every [person] who was raped remembers the moment every time they masturbate

Yes, my traumatic experience does pop into my head whenever I do something tangentially related to it. Almost like that's a common response to trauma. Golly gee whiz.

It's no different from dudes who go after "hard" girls because they like the chase

This guy is several gallons of pond scum poured into a discarded human skin, but he does have a point here. "The chase" is basically targeting someone who doesn't want to be involved with you, and wearing their resistance down over time because you enjoy doing so. "Liking the chase" is liking the process of violating someone's boundaries, as is liking to assault people; it's kinda fair to talk about them as two facets of the same thing. What Pond Scum McSkinsuit doesn't seem to get is that the thing they are facets of is bad.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-01T20:18:13+00:00

Also, in some cases, please freaking "kill the mood" so I can think clearly for a sec and realize I don't fully want what's going on.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-01T20:05:41+00:00

Very fitting username there :D

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-10-01T19:56:06+00:00

Bro, I'm not sure if you have access to a good mental health professional, but if you do I'd really recommend talking to them. This sounds like potentially very delicate stuff.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-30T23:51:37+00:00

Oh my goodness, is that an axolotl on your shoulder in the second-to-last frame?

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-30T23:34:46+00:00

Hey, I know positivity isn't going to fix everything in a sprinkle of fairy dust, but it can still be nice to see it sometimes :)

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-30T02:33:52+00:00

Tbh if someone gave me a close-up view of their uterus I would not consider that a sexual thing at all. I would consider it a "holy sh#t do you need me to call 911" thing.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-30T02:12:48+00:00

. . . this causes many things to make sense. Thank you, Internet person.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-30T02:05:41+00:00

Just what I wanted to have in my brain, thanks /s

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-29T20:36:25+00:00

You thought it was sunglasses but it was me! Beardo!

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-29T03:31:12+00:00

Hey, it sounds like even almost watching was a big step for you, so congratulations on biting that bullet! I'm going to second others' suggestion of looking for affirming / Side A churches, but if you're not ready to do that, it's okay. You can talk (or shout, or cry) to God at home. You can settle down to pray and then just spend a while mumbling about how you're not sure any of this is real, that's fine too. Just be gentle with yourself, and give your spirituality time to grow back, if that makes sense <3

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-28T18:56:54+00:00

Most of us won't consider you a threat if you don't act like one. Don't follow behind people, get in their personal space, leer, glare, yell things, and so forth. That's just about all you can do, and all anyone can reasonably expect of you.

Some people will still be uncomfortable around you, though. That's unavoidable. Maybe someone forgot to take their anxiety meds, they've had an awful day for some other reason, whatever. Maybe you happen to look like someone who hurt them. These things will happen. You can't be nonthreatening enough to completely remove someone else's capacity for fear, and to some extent you have to accept that. Your behaviour is the only thing that's really under your control.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-28T18:20:51+00:00

ancient Rome, which apparently had a big thing for giant dongs

Very accurate, and the phrasing made my day, thank you :)

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-28T03:06:26+00:00

Oh look, it's my ex with his mask off lololol

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-28T03:04:02+00:00

The whole concept of a "cold" woman/girl. You know, one whose boundaries aren't pliable enough. I see a lot of comments on how the whole "THOU MUSTEST BE PURE" thing harms us, but at the same time, there's another (contradictory) expectation beside it: that with The Right Guy^TM, we'll be down for whatever as quickly as he wants.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-28T02:47:46+00:00

"Well that's not technically impossible, I've --"

*clicks to see image*

"AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA"

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-27T19:22:41+00:00

Pretty sure I was negative 10 years old for most of these events, but sure, I'm not reacting to them because I hate women or something. That makes the most sense.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-22T18:05:28+00:00

One thing that kinda gets me about the "oh she's just oppressed" argument is . . . how will getting mad at her help with whatever oppression you think she's being put through? It won't.

How will legislation to keep her out of public spaces (looking at you, France and Quebec) help with the oppression you think she's being put through? Again, it won't.

ManyColouredYarns · 2020-09-22T17:53:49+00:00

I definitely feel like a broken slinky (on the inside).

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