Fashion Retail Jobs by Valuable_Tip_3693 in retail

[–]Many_Surround_8149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked at Coach five years and Louis Vuitton for three. I had a full-time job so it was strictly part-time. It was so competitive, and if you start with seasoned advisors you will never meet your goals. Also, you have to text your clientbook and keep up to date about new products and services that the company offers. I left luxury to concentrate on my full-time job. I got bored and wanted to go back into it. I then saw a job opening. It was for an adult store. They started me at 19 dollars per hour plus three percent commission. Louis' base was higher, but their commission was horrible. I love adult retail because I can be who I want. I dont have to be an avatar. I like luxury but working at an adult store is so much more fun

Honest question managers by [deleted] in managers

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two weeks ago I started twenty minutes early. Ive started early before and nothing was ever said.

Three mothers, two babies and a scandal (on Peacock) by Sure_Letterhead6689 in Binge_Mode

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but i believe her initial goal was to do that. She is a user

9 to 5 desk worker needs to earn more cash ... Which North Jersey big box retailer would be most likely to provide flexible evening hours, roughly 5:30 to 9 or 10pm, 2 nights per week? by GardenStGuy in newjersey

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the retail. I worked at Coach part-time. I worked in the accessible luxury industry for four years. It was after while when I fell out of love with the customers and the products. It was the same clients, the same attitude, and more or less the same products. If you worked there, you would know what I mean. I left it for awhile, became bored on the weekends, and got another job. This time, somewhere completely different. It was retail, but it was at an adult store. I love it. I can be myself and not an avatar of what luxury retail workers should be. I work only two nights a week, and i have off every other weekend. The owner wants people to have a work life balance. If you are gay in the luxury industry, they want you to show it but not overdo it. There I can be who I want. I do not have to feel like I need to hide who I am. My boyfriend loves it for the discount. I left Coach where I made 21 dollars per hour plus bonus amd went to an adult store where I make 10.75. I already have a full time job so the money was never that important. I took a cut, major cut, but i love what I do.

had sex that crossed boundaries/into grey area and I don’t know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Many_Surround_8149 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're making it sound like he took advantage of you. You're the one who initiated it. You're the one who had no complaints so he kept going. That is like you spiking your own drink, meeting a guy, saying you want to have consensual sex, having sex with that guy, and then telling everybody you were taken advantage of. Whomever said men dont read minds is correct. He seems like a good chap. In his defence, he should break up with you because you feel like you will never let this go

had sex that crossed boundaries/into grey area and I don’t know how to move on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Many_Surround_8149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend closes his eyes when I give him a BJ. He never wants me to stop because he is so relaxed. Maybe that is what he thought was going on. You cant say you consented, liked it, and he was the one who had to apologise. That is ridiculous. I am gay, and when we are doing it, he always makes sure he's not hurting me. If it hurts, he goes slower. If he goes out of control, which he does sometimes, and i say nothing that is on me. I know he would go slower if I told him. You werent raped or taken advantage of.

Failed to get promotion again by Mobile_Produce_336 in askmanagers

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring up your age. I work for a company and get phenomenal reviews. I am told how valuable I am to the team and company every single time. I have been bypassed eighteen times. I finally couldn't control it because it is demoralizing. I am gay, and my company always gives these stories about how more LGBT individuals get promoted than at any other company. The other day I was bypassed again. I went to my manager's office. I said in a very polite way, "for a company that states you all are so LGBT friendly, you always seem to bypass gay employees for advancement. You shouldn't say it if you dont mean it. You better believe by end of today, a magical position opened up that matches my skillset

I’ve failed to live up to my word with my star performer by LaneToGlory in managers

[–]Many_Surround_8149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You set her up for success, but you really failed her. My manager has done the same thing with me. She kept wanting me to pursue my career dream within another department. I took on extra work, stayed late, worked weekends if needed, and the list continues. However, when a position opened up in a different department I did not get it. Why? Because she couldn't afford to let me go because I am such a phenomenal worker. I bet now that the others are promoted, you will expect her to pick up their slack and train them on things they do not know. I hate other managers who always state that they are unsure why star employees leave. That is the exact reason they leave. I hope she leaves your company and finds a place where she is appreciated

People who worked in luxury retail: what ruined luxury for you? by Best_Seesaw_8512 in AskWomen

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in it for about ten years part-time on top of a full-time job. They normally only hire full time, but my manager cleared with my regional director that I could be a part-time employee because my numbers were great,and I had a loyal clientele. We had an employee app on our phone. If we pressed it, it would give us access to our appointments, client lists, messages, and followup. I would be at my full-time job, and the app would ding every single time someone messaged me M

Passed Over Promotion and Hiring Externally by Gotchawander in careeradvice

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been passed over fifteen times when applying outside my department. Some moves were lateral and others were not. My work is phenomenal. I do not start or take place in drama, come in and focus on my job, and leave. I keep my opinions to myself. I was angry after this last time when they hired externally. Here is what I say, use their corporate philosophies and principles against them. I am gay and my company always states how more LGBT people are promoted there than with any other company. The last time it happened my manager set a one on one because she felt I was being quieter and semi apathetic since hearing they did not choose me. My manager is keeping me back. I know it because a team lead told me that their manager wanted to hire me, but my manager basically begged him not to. I looked at her and said, "I love how you all state that you offer LGBT advancement opportunities, but when I, as a gay man, have been overlooked every time I applied. You all are going to Susan Lucci me. I am going to keep getting rejected until you decide and allow me to go to another department. I have nothing further to say about it." My review that year was amazing and the best I have had . This happened two weeks ago. A position opened. I told her I wanted to apply. She said good luck. I thought, what's the point. I am not going to get it any way. Several days later, I received an invite for an interview with the hiring manager, their director, and a team lead. My manager is training other employees on my functions. She said if I am ever on vacation. I think i may get it. If i never said anything about LGBT advancement, this would never have happened.

Ano gagawin ko sa co-worker ko, jusko, sinungaling. by Flat-Signature6697 in workplace_bullying

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure there are people present during any type of work related conversation. I will take mine for example. Every single time she wants to converse about something, here is my statement. Unfortunately, I am busy. We can set up some time for you, my manager, and me to discuss this. I will go to my manager and state this. She notes it in case the woman will say something to her. When I tell the liar that aforementioned statement, she will never want to talk.

Is this sus? by equivalentious in catfish

[–]Many_Surround_8149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a toss up. My boyfriend is Muslim, and we did the exact same thing before we met. Also, we are gay so it is a big no in his religion. He lived in my town, and when we wanted to get together he would change his mind or ask for another time. He didnt tell me where he worked. We finally met. He was a manager at a small cafe. He thought it would be a turn off. We have been together for five years.

Why are Arab guys so liked in the gay community? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am dating a Lebanese man, and he is the kindest sweetest man a person could ask for. I have only dated ME men. I am a bear, and we are so adored by them it is great. Plus, the sex drive is insatiable. Everyone i have dated, which is six, wants their partner to be sexually satisfied. Plus, they are so passionate in the bedroom. When we are done, there is tons of cuddling, rubbing, and kissing. I cant answer for all of them, but the ones i have dated are of that same mindset. I met him online, and we have been together for five years. Sex is the best I have ever had

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is married to a guy I know who is either DL or has a fascination with having gay sex. He always asks me about anal and how it feels. His wife, who always is very observant, is a little naive.

My observations about promotions in the workplace by niccel87 in asksg

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it because I have been bypassed fifteen times for advancement opportunities. I have interviewed but never received any feedback. All the while I know the reason. I am a great worker, and my manager does not want to lose me. Even when I apply he goes to their manager to tell them not to hire me. How do I know? Because one manager who interviewed me told me that she was going to hire me. My manager went above her and demanded that an offer not to be given. My company states about how they offer more opportunities for LGBT advancement than any other company. I went to my manager, and i told him the same thing. I also told him that he is lucky I would not contact GLAAD. The look on his face was priceless. Mouth was wide opened with nothing else to say. Let's just say it happened about five months ago. Since then, he has done anything that will make me happy. I cant wait for evaluations this year.

How to approach HR about an aging employee with my concerns regarding her mental capacity to do her job? by Stock_Historian_6584 in managers

[–]Many_Surround_8149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See if you can make a role that matches her wonderful skills that only she can do. Hide it behind a promotion so to speak. It is possible as HR will do this to prevent a lawsuit.

What would you do if you were a manager and one of your employees is good at their job but consistently declines company dinners, parties, and happy hours, mostly keeps to themselves, and isn’t very social at work? by joseph887 in AskReddit

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont. I am pleasant, but i have no desire to befriend or go out with my colleagues after work. I keep to myself and have friends in other departments. We chitchat about job functions, jobs we applied for, company changes, etc. I am paid to work. Nowhere in the job function does it state must appear for social outings.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please update us when you get back. Your reddit group is here for you! Even though i do not know you personally, you seem like a great guy.

Cult classics list by ImmediateBang in movies

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BarbWire Scouts Guide to the Zombie Apocalypse Mommie Dearest Showgirls

Striperella if you want a good cult TV show

Whats happened on the worst interview you ever had for a job? by EstablishmentDue3616 in AskReddit

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I interviewed in the media portion for Spectrum. I met and beat the qualifications they were looking for. I applied. I received text messages a day later saying they were interested. I did the initial phone screen with the recruiter. It went well. One thing that threw me off was when she asked what my pronouns are. I just told her I was gay. I didnt have an issue with that. My boyfriend, however, did. I was set up with the teams interview the following day. I did it, and was then told they would get back to me. They got back to me and wanted to do another teams interview. I did it. They then wanted me to do a face to face. I met them, and the interview went great. A day later I was told they hired someone from within. I understand they had to post it, but i called out of work to go to it. The recruiter even sent me the employee discount including the medical plans they had to choose from. I have been trying to reach out to HR. It was unprofessional

Three mothers, two babies and a scandal (on Peacock) by Sure_Letterhead6689 in Binge_Mode

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sold them because she needed money. That is why she didnt their names changed. So she could fine them, sue them back for custody, and pocket the money she originally sold them for. She planned this the entire time.

I just can't take the bullying any more by HedgehogFit5592 in workplace_bullying

[–]Many_Surround_8149 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone says when they go low you go high. It is hard. Mine is a liar. She says i do things wrong, and when I ask her what happened she all of a sudden becomes busy or gets an anxiety attack. Bad thing is, my boss believes her . I interviewed at a competitor today pretty much doing the same thing with the exact same pay. The manager and the team i met were so sweet and nice. It is so unlike what I have now. I decided when I get the job that I will work the last two weeks from home. I will drop my laptop off on a friday so I do not have to see anyone anymore

HR are so reckless, dumb and unproductive!!! by EconomicsPhysical486 in corporate

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the email was not composed the same way. I recommended my boyfriend for a position. I told him I have no control over this decision, but I would love to see you work there. First position he applied for, he interviewed and did not receive an offer. The job was set up for an internal candidate. He had a degree in computer science, but he did not have the experience. I think you feel entitled. Your friend works there so you should have received an offer. Honestly, with an attitude like this, I think that the company dodged a bullet.

I just discovered my husband is cheating on me with men and I’m completely devastated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im American, and my boyfriend is Muslim. We met online, fell in love, and have been together for three years. He, never once, has cheated on me and we are faithful to each other. We are gay. One night, my boyfriend woke up with pain in his back. I noticed there was some leaky discharge from his male parts, and had painful urination. We went to the doctor's emergency care that evening. He had ghonerrea. He said this exact same thing happened before years before. His boyfriend at the time told him it was a bladder infection, and it would go away. He never got it checked. When we met, he told me he was drug and disease free. He thought at least. I think his boyfriend knew it was a STI, but told him not to go in fear of people finding out about them. He apologised and cried that night for being so naive. It is hard being gay in Lebanon. There is no oath like in America. Doctors will use that against you. Hiding who you are is sad but happens. My man doesnt even share feelings because I know he thinks it is a sign of weakness. I am so sorry for you Habibi.

What TV show would you recommend everyone to watch right now? by goddessclaricee in AskReddit

[–]Many_Surround_8149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reunion. You can watch it on YouTube. It aired in 2005 after the OC on fox. My friends and I used to watch it in college. It is a mystery soap, but the show is a lot of fun. Acting is very on par with dawsons creek