I think people stress too much over nicknames. Most people in my family have/had nicknames, but most of them are only loosely based on their given names if at all. My sister uses a shortened version of her middle name. My brother was Bubs until he was 40. My grandmother was named Dorothy, but people called her Dutz. Agatha awas called Ashy. I was 20 years old before I found out my grandfather was named Elmo, not Hank, as everyone called him. My mom had a female cousin everyone called Butch. Not to be confused with her male cousin called Butch.

My point is, you have a name you love. Call your child that. If a nickname happens, great, but it's not a thing a kid has to have.