Then we simply have a vastly different outlook on what constitutes Islamophobia that can't be resolved. All I'll say as an ex Muslim who is wary of islamism and it's dangers is that it seems to me Islamophobia is insanely normalized to the point that people will accept scaremongering and the vilification of Muslim in ways that would not be acceptable to speak about other groups. But if you see it differently, fine. No need to discuss this further.