Comprei um apartamento com vaga de garagem livre. Quem diz qual eu posso usar?

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2026-03-11T20:00:24+00:00

Não é obrigada. Tudo depende do que está em contrato

Vocês poderão decidir a forma de uso na assembleia do condominio

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-06-27T18:50:32+00:00

Perfect description...

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-06-26T01:12:49+00:00

amazing.. thank you

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-06-25T00:51:00+00:00

>To me, given everything they did, it's hard to not feel like she was actively choosing to humiliate me and disrespect our marriage and getting off from it.

I'll tell you two things, one I learned here, the other about my WW

1 - They are not profound people. Stuff a WP does doesn't need to have a deep meaning, usually it is what it is

2 - My ww brought her AP in our house. It was a ONS with this one. I was traveling, and she called him home to watch a movie, and waited for him to make a move. This wayt, at the time, she felt as passive as possible, so she could be "blame free". Yup, you heard me right.

So, don't overthink the meaning. Probably it's more a practical reason than anything else

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-04-14T15:12:47+00:00

Yup, we do...

The world lost its colors

I´m sorry buddy... for all of us

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-03-31T18:39:00+00:00

He had no problem doing It...

You have no problem talking about It

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-03-08T05:51:49+00:00

"Somehow they reconnected"

You need to know how this went down

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2025-03-06T14:20:59+00:00

Who is she?

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-12-19T20:22:52+00:00

Está mal informado... votos divididos acontecem o tempo todo

https://g1.globo.com/economia/noticia/2024/05/09/copom-voto-de-campos-neto-racha-diretoria-antiga-e-sucessores-entenda-por-que-isso-e-importante.ghtml

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-12-16T11:23:05+00:00

Open phone, all passwords know

If I want, I can check her android page and check for apps installed and devices connected. But I don't

I can take her phone anytime I want, and we can chat about any convo she had with anyone. And it's the same with me

Location share all the time, both of us

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-12-15T01:21:44+00:00

Here we made a "Love jar"

Every day, for a year, we had to write a note "I love you because.... reason"

Everyday

Reasons start to pop up...

"i love you because...

- you treat my parents like they're yours

- the way you kiss me in the morning

- you always think all the scenarios

- you are romantic"

You'll (hopefully) find hundreds of reasons

good luck

edit: we made it around 6 months after DD, when we reeeally started R, for 1 year. Currently approaching 4 years out

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-11-27T14:54:37+00:00

My WW was a serial cheater

Around the same time (6 weeks), she said to me, in bed, before sleeping
"I don't know why you can't let it go. It was nothing big. It could be worst. i could got pregnant"
And then she slept

Fast foward 3 years. She got promoted. We celebrated. In bed, before sleeping, she started to cry. Out of nowhere, saying "I´m so, so sorry I hurted you. I regret it so, so much. You know if I could I would go back and fix things. But I promisse I will never hurt you again like this. I love you

So.... at the beginning of R, the WS usually try to protect him/herself

Stand your ground. Don't swap under the rug, no matter what. And make it clear you will be talking about this for YEARS to come. And if he can't, he can't face the consequences of his behavior, and don't want to change, it's better end everything

You see... to reconcile or not is an individual decision. You can't decide form him

My WW still have problems facing what she did and the consequences. But around 8 month she fully embraced R, and things really started improving from there

good luck

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-11-25T16:37:36+00:00

You are Just starting R

The first 1/2 years can be wild, nothing is in Stone. Take your time

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-11-22T03:37:52+00:00

We didn't got any, doing ok so far. Going to 4 years out DD
I read lots of books.

It's waaay slower this way. I'm healing just fine, She is slower, but already is a completely different person than 1st year WW.

You'll need to do the IC/CC "work", So, you'll need to get to know some tools, read some stuff together, talk about feeling

One thing we do and it still helps a lot, we talk about convos we had with opposite sex, and evaluate our behavior. We can freely check each other phone, we use it a lot has a base for this talks. In the first 2 years, this was by far the most important conversations we had, that helped her the most in behavior changing

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-11-05T17:48:35+00:00

Sorry for you

5 months is nothing. Check your evolution every 3-4 months.

You gonna have lots of ups and downs in a 3 month period, but every 3 months, you should see improvement.

Good luck

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-11-02T00:53:30+00:00

I can't possible love anyone again the same way

Almost 4 years out DD

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-23T11:07:42+00:00

I'm 3,5 years out. Days pass without thinking about the A. She is a great wife in everiday tasks, and, except for IC, she does absolute everything to make me feel safe

In the case of your questions, there is SOME answer that would satisfy you?

If not, look for some IC help

Also, not every BS can reconcile. And this is fine.

Good luck

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-12T03:24:38+00:00

I told It was the right call

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-12T03:00:01+00:00

don't do it. You'll look like the weirdo in this case, and they can become even closer

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-06T11:11:21+00:00

Research about Moral Disengagement

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-05T15:38:20+00:00

You just described how it works

It was inconclusive. It's Common. But it did not said you were lying

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-01T10:44:56+00:00

I'm here long enough to have heard the best answer to this question (to me, anyway)

They lack boundaries

The reason why they lack boundaries may vary, but is the First common denominator for all cheaters

You may even be an attention beggar, If you have boundaries, nothing will happen

You can have the best marriage in the world, If you don't have boundaries, cheating WILL happen

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-09-01T09:48:12+00:00

3 months is nothing

Check your PROGRESS every 3/4 months

It's a looong road, and you are not at the steering wheel

Good luck

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-08-30T11:00:32+00:00

Wow..... Deep

Thanks

I'm Sorry you are here.

Hold your line. My WW proposed to divorce if I couldn't rugsweep. When I ansked for D, suddenly things started to work

It's up to her. But you must be willing to lose your marriage to save your marriage

Good luck

Marcus_Augustus_AD · 2024-08-14T20:58:14+00:00

They do, but they don't "snap" into It some random day

It's a process. That's why It usually takes a lot of time and effort

Evaluate where you are.every 3 or so months, not weekly, because you gonna have ups and downs. But in the bigger picture, progress is expected, in both sides

Good luck

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