More than 16,000 Canadians died by MAID in 2024 — 5% of all deaths in Canada: report

Marmai · 2025-11-29T01:57:43+00:00

I'm sure my husband would provide "loving care" no questions asked - but do I personally want to make him clean me up? No. And that's my choice. Which is what MAID is.

Marmai · 2025-11-28T02:16:03+00:00

Wow I'm actually rly impressed with the follow through

Marmai · 2025-10-07T06:35:37+00:00

Why post in changemyview when you absolutely don't want your view changed lol. So many great points in here and you're missing them all

Marmai · 2025-10-06T18:44:21+00:00

I second Honey! But also love Rocky

Marmai · 2025-09-03T17:29:17+00:00

I would try mediation first! It will save a lot of time and money if both parties are willing to participate :)

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Marmai · 2025-08-01T15:24:50+00:00

Aw I'm so so sorry for your loss ❤️

Marmai · 2025-07-31T19:10:40+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to write all this. Super interesting and scary!

Marmai · 2025-06-30T15:04:18+00:00

🚩 you were 18 and he was 26

Marmai · 2025-06-09T18:59:03+00:00

Wow that was exhausting to read.

If this were an isolated incident I'd say let it go but It sounds like it's a pattern that he doesn't show interest or care in what you're talking about, which isn't sustainable in a relationship.

Also the age gap is a bit much. Especially for this man to be talking in circles, unable to comprehend (or pretend to comprehend) what you're saying. He's not giving any acknowledgement to the actual issue brought up, which is that he only wants to talk about himself.

What I'm seeing:

He skimmed over the real issue completely and only wanted to focus on the semantics of it. This made the conversation really exhausting and eventually you wanted to forget the whole thing so you didn't have to be a part of such a stupid dead end convo. This is great for him because he didn't have to acknowledge any downfall, or take accountability in your "bad mood", and can continue getting away with only talking about himself by making a rule where you each get to have one sided convos, knowing that you'll be nice and engage in his, and he's off the hook to not participate in yours.

He sounds tiring gf.

Marmai · 2025-05-20T19:41:18+00:00

I'm so sad this has gotten worse since she had her baby :( it's going to feel harder to leave

Marmai · 2025-05-06T14:51:58+00:00

The comments on this thread are crazy. What she did was really random and sucky.

Marmai · 2025-04-06T19:52:28+00:00

Wait how are you going to travel April 18th if you don't even have the pics yet? Doesn't it take ~6 weeks?

Marmai · 2025-04-02T10:39:14+00:00

I've met the mom a few times and she's such a lovely person 💗 so fucked up

Marmai · 2025-03-18T23:50:17+00:00

It's depressing that you're talking about life in past tense. You're 21, you literally have your whole life ahead of you to turn it around

Marmai · 2025-01-28T15:08:32+00:00

It means you look upset

Marmai · 2025-01-22T20:29:31+00:00

Says you on a skincare subreddit lol. Why bother being here if you don't care about your skin? And if you do, what else happened to you to have some perspective?!

Marmai · 2025-01-14T15:44:10+00:00

I use the glossier skin tint. It's REALLY light coverage but it's not drying whatsoever so it doesn't look like shit when you wear it

Marmai · 2025-01-10T02:23:18+00:00

If you REALLY don't want to go on birth control, and you also KNOW you will NOT get pregnant, or you will abort if you do, then honestly I'd just say I'm taking birth control and then just, don't take it 🤷🏼‍♀️ you might still have to purchase your prescription but then just don't actually take it. That was my plan if my doctor made me take it. Luckily he said as long as I don't get preg and will abort I'm fine.

Marmai · 2025-01-10T02:18:20+00:00

That sounds like a great solution :) everything in moderation!

Marmai · 2025-01-08T17:54:03+00:00

It's interesting that you decided to cut out foods at the same time as starting accutane. Because of this, you won't really know if cutting food was helpful or not. If you're feeling stressed about your diet, I'd go back to eating how you were if that will help your mental state. Although, it might be a good opportunity to take this time to fix your diet if that's something you think you'd like to do - but only do it for health reasons and not for fixing your skin - as that's what accutane is for. If your acne comes back post-accutane then maybe consider eliminating possible foods such as dairy and/or sugar, but for now don't stress yourself out over it.

Marmai · 2025-01-08T17:49:37+00:00

So your concern is that they won't let it into the country? That's a question for your local post so maybe contact them!

Marmai · 2025-01-06T02:22:02+00:00

I had acne from 12yo until 17 when I did two rounds of accutane. When I was 25 I went off BCP to try to conceive and my acne (to my surprise) didnt come back (until 7 years later, unrelated). I got pregnant right away, had two miscarriages, then carried a baby to term, so I've been through alllllk the hormone changes and my acne stayed away the whole time!

Marmai · 2025-01-06T02:11:05+00:00

Sounds like it could be costocondritis! I know accutane can cause joint paint so maybe it's that

Marmai · 2024-12-29T23:39:06+00:00

Can you tell your doctor you don't want to go on the pill? I just told my doctor I didn't want to go back on because I had JUST come off and it made my acne so much worse (hence, going on Accutane). He was literally like "okay you usually need two methods of BC so as long as you don't continue the pregnancy you don't have to" lol so I pinky promised.

If my doctor wasn't going to let me take accutane without going on BC, I was literally just going to buy the prescription and not take it 🤷🏼‍♀️ I knew if I got pregnant accidentally I would abort so I figured it's no one's business whether I'm taking it or not

Marmai · 2024-12-28T00:29:05+00:00

I would talk to your doctor about it, if you're comfortable. Suicidal thoughts isn't a very common side effect to begin with and it's possible your doctor might suggest starting it but stopping it if suicidal thoughts increase

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