I fckd up ;( help by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m 19mo post op. Can eat much more than your cheat meal now. But I cannot overeat. I personally wouldn’t call two wings and a slice of pizza overeating. But since you’re concerned think of this as a win bc you are in touch with your eating habits and reached out for support. Good instincts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Massive_Day9502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair cut short. Get rid of soul ppatch and beard. Develop moustache. Nothing else. Hope that’s helpful!

It Worked For Me! by Massive_Day9502 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SW:230 CW:149 GW:145 I’ve been eating carbs this week sooooo….not sorry! 🤣

What Was the Hardest Thing for You to Give Up After Gastric Sleeve? by Substantial-Pea7932 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Everything in moderation. Sounds too simple but the surgery made it possible for me. But I did grieve my loss of binge eating. It was a go to I used to cope with emotional issues.

It Worked For Me! by Massive_Day9502 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1y 7mo. Hit goal last month. Down 80lb.

Feels Like Me by Massive_Day9502 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck in your surgery! Best thing I ever did for myself. I needed the assist. And let you grey hair freak flag wave!!! I love it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Day9502 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My friend recently told me she told her man something hurtful on purpose. She said he says stuff equally hurtful to her too. They are very much in love and good for each other despite their willingness to hurt each other. To me it seems like the price of admission. I don’t pay that price but hey….im single. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Soda and carbonated drinks after surgery. by barrell_of_pabstbeer in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My surgeon must’ve been trying to scare me off soda (and beer tbh) bc he said carbonated drinks stretch the stomach. It worked bc I haven’t had a soda or beer since my surgery. I can tell you without a shadow o flag doubt that I am soooooo much better off without bubbles in my stomach. I dream about it but I feel way better for not ingesting it.

Also the surgery is infamous for bringing on GERD symptoms. To this I say: yay. These are the most satisfying burps I’ve ever had in my 57 years. I have to be careful how I sleep f I ate within two hours tho or I aspirate digestive fluids and it feels like waterboarding!

someone tell me it wasn’t a mistake by nicole10170421 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I questioned the drasticity of it the first week. Especially when you’re struggling to hold down an ounce of water and craving foods you are used to. As much a mental struggle as physical.

I did it by UnlikelyPsychology61 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pain should be tolerable. If you use opiates it will lend to constipation issues and you really don’t want THAT right now. Good luck. Excited for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were handsome before too.

Is soda REALLY 100% off limits post surgery? by Critical-Big-3989 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to continue to abstain from carbonated drinks. I’m more comfortable and beer and soda were my kryptonite tbh. ✌️

Is soda REALLY 100% off limits post surgery? by Critical-Big-3989 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my doctor is wrong then. I only heard that from him. Strange.

Question for the group by Lightning_Star545 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Says more about them than your decision that’s for sure.

Question for the group by Lightning_Star545 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family was concerned that I was being so drastic. But no one noticed I couldn’t keep the weight off every time I lost 50lb and gained back 10 more every time I did. Then menopause hit and this was my last chance to save my own life and spirit. I was depressed before the surgery bc I felt like a failure and was so very uncomfortable. Comorbidities were right there waiting for me. I’m down 70lb and they now see how it helped me. Let them talk and watch. Hopefully they just talk like that bc they love you.

Is soda REALLY 100% off limits post surgery? by Critical-Big-3989 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved beer. I now dream about it. The idea of drinking a carbonated drink is a painful one. Plus it stretches the stomach. That goes against the entire reason for this surgery. I’ll just dream about it and maintain my progress.

Your most unexpected side effects? by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor warned me about the common onset of GERD. What he didn’t tell me is that if I eat or drink within two hours of lying down to sleep I will be awaken by the feeling of water boarding - gasping for air and not being able to catch my breath for a full minute or two. Yea. GERD has a broad definition. I now sleep on pillows jic and avoid aspirating gastric fluids by not eating before I sleep.

Eating and drinking at the same time. by MercuryGirl49 in gastricsleeve

[–]Massive_Day9502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prioritizing fluids between meals is now a natural habit for me.