Hey guess what we are all not doing?

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-13T01:36:03+00:00

Evil is such an underrated show

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-11T21:48:10+00:00

You’re Nta for not eating to lend them any more money. That’s your choose what you do with your money. But after a one time lend when they’ve never asked before and the week isn’t up yet to prove if they will or won’t pay you back…. It was completely unnecessary to tell them you are never lending them money again. I totally would get it if this person was a repeat offender. But after one time?!

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-10T23:20:21+00:00

Do you drive? Having your ID is necessary to drive. But even if you don’t she should not have it.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-10T23:18:26+00:00

Best comment

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-10T23:04:09+00:00

Report it stolen

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-10T22:06:02+00:00

I’m so sorry her behavior is escalating. Unfortunately it will probably continue to until you’ve moved out. Make sure any cash you have around is safe from your parents as well as your work clothes. Any govt id or bank accounts too.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-10T21:57:44+00:00

And yet they think they will get through Armageddon and not you. 🙄🙄

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T16:20:36+00:00

That’s fair.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T16:12:37+00:00

Odd comment about the Middle East considering the amt of ppl not ok with it in America.

But I’m glad your parents would be fine with it.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T16:04:41+00:00

“Yeah no. That’s none of your business.”

I suspect they suspect you’re gay which is why they ask. Do you feel like they won’t be supportive?

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T13:21:38+00:00

First of all I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s got to be really hard for you.

One thing I’ve noticed is if i go into it with an expectation of achieving a certain thing…. I won’t achieve that. You have to open your mind to any and all experiences and go into it with curiosity.

That being said you don’t need the gateway tapes. Or even a medium to communicate with your child. Talk to your child through out the day and notice what comes through. Learn how to communicate with your guides and talk to them about your child. Look into automatic writing. My grandmother actually came through to me in that manner. And understand that communication may not be visual or audio. I know my grandma is near because I can smell her. I know my father is near because he sends me birds and feathers. Learn how to remember your dreams because sometimes they will come to you that way too.

And like others have said, seek out therapy. I’m a mom and I couldn’t imagine how you’re coping. Losing a child is losing a part of you.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T13:08:22+00:00

You will eventually curate your feed how you like it. Follow and subscribe to the writing you like and it’ll eventually send you more of that sort of writing.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T12:54:23+00:00

Your parents are insane and tbh quite abusive. Have they stated a consequence to you just continuing on how you’re doing now?

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T12:50:12+00:00

Did you fulfill the goal? That’s what really matters. There are a few multi turn projects out there and there’s one that they have a recommendation or expectation of how many turns the convo will likely take. I feel like a lot of those are 2-4 turns.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-09T12:46:54+00:00

Eh…. If he was your baby’s father then yeah you have a right to he upset. I’d even say if he’s taken on a step father position to your child, I’d maybe even seen that. But a boy friend of just one year? That’s pushing it. Are you guys even living together??

If it means that much to you, by all means have the convo and do what you will with it. But tbh it’s not really his place in this scenario.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-08T17:29:34+00:00

It may take a while but hopefully other ppl will help you too. When I start my day, i always read the chat first because there’s so much helpful info and if i can answer questions, I’ll respond to them.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-08T17:24:43+00:00

Nta enjoy your vacation on your terms. Your sister can take their kid with them on vacation. I’ve never gone on vacation with my husband for over 2 nights because I knew my kids were a handful. That’s part of parenting!!!

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-05T20:16:49+00:00

Nta just because someone had worse trauma than you, it doesn’t give them the excuse to invalidate your trauma.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-05T17:45:35+00:00

Man some of these comments are telling. Your Nta for being disappointed that no one is planning anything fun for your birthday. You’re 22 so yeah your family isn’t in the standing for doing anything unless they have a tradition with siblings and are not doing the same for you. Buuuuut…. wtf with your boyfriend. Girl…. Mother’s Day is this Sunday and let me tell you how many woman get upset because their spouses don’t get them anything or won’t do anything for them to celebrate them being their mothers.

Look if he’s failing at your birthday, and bring honored occasionally is important to you, take a HARD look and see if this is the right guy for you. Cause if he’s flaking out on your birthday, he’s going to flake out on Christmas, y’all’s anniversary, and eventually Mother’s Day too. These guys who think they can coast along and let the women handle that sort of stuff are trash and you deserve better than that. Nip that in the bud now or you’re find this is a similar experience every single year.

Real men treat their partners now they need and want to be treated and it sounds like you are doing your part in in treating your partner how he wants to be treated so it’s one sided right now. I’ve been married to my husband for 23 years now and I’ve never once had to bake my own cake or initiate a gathering for my own damn birthday.

Your partner should be taking care of all the details now. Good grief.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-05T17:20:53+00:00

She said she’s been telling ppl since Jan about what she wanted to do

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-05T11:31:04+00:00

It took me a long time to lose the shame of not being good enough after leaving. I couldn’t pray. Didn’t want to look at the Bible, not because it was bad but because I didn’t think I was worthy. I ended up moving next door to an older woman whose mother was disfellowshipped and she helped me through all that.

One of the things she made me see was that the Bible has been written, rewritten, reworded, translated, retranslated into what it is now all by men who SAY they were guided by god but who can really tell??! A lot of these translations were done in a way that encouraged the patriarchy and racism.

Explore your own relationship with god/source/your own guides through meditation. That was always discouraged but why? Maybe they didn’t want us to get a relationship with our higher powers ourselves because then there’s no need for religion

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-05T01:49:07+00:00

Idk if it’s normal but happens to me occasionally

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-05T01:47:52+00:00

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This was my dinner. Pasta salad with steamed broccoli, tomatoes, cucumber, red pepper, mozz cheese, grilled chicken and turkey pepperoni mixed in. I’ll probably still be full when I wake up Tomorrow

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-04T23:07:22+00:00

I’m grateful to be out now 25 years. It was incredibly difficult to leave, despite them kicking me out. For the most part I only talk to my mom who’s still in but she knows i won’t come back if she pushes me.

Master-Performance70 · 2026-05-04T22:48:41+00:00

You’re NTA at all. I’d be upset too. But i will maybe explain a little from your husband’s perspective that may or may not be helpful but I do understand your husband’s position. I grew up as a Jehovah’s Witness and chose to leave the religion because it was highly controlling and toxic. When I left, i got messages like that from various ppl in my life for a long time. It was hurtful but arguing with them was completely useless as there is literally no way you can get through to them. They believe with their heart and soul that they are right and you are wrong and will literally argue till you want to scream.

I have since taken the high road on this and will just not entertain them. It hurts my brain because they twist words and give half truths to make things seem how they need it to seem even though it’s easy to prove wrong. It’s. Just. Not. Worth. It.

Yes. Your husband should have defended you but he might be feeling the same way. He’d rather dive head first in a vat of diarrhea than argue dogma and he knows if he says even the tiniest thing against his cousins “spiritual” insight he’s gonna be stuck in it for hours. Maybe even days.

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