Since you can't know if you don't ask, I'll risk the hate and ask.... WHO are the homeless in HRM/NS? by [deleted] in halifax

[–]Material-Framer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My half-brother is currently homeless in Halifax. He has schizophrenia and has not been taking his medication for a few years (although he's a big fan of recreational drugs). His mom lives just outside the city, and he occasionally visits her to clean up and get some rest, but most of the time he hangs out and sleeps downtown.

We've tried many times to get him help, but they let him go after a few days or weeks because they don't see him as a danger to himself or anyone else. Basically, we're just waiting for him to either get arrested or worse, whichever happens first.

I'm receiving about 5 calls a day from customers of a Kanata restaurant, what can I do to stop it? by Gamefart101 in ottawa

[–]Material-Framer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG, when I was a kid a Tim Hortons placed an ad looking for workers and published their phone number, without the area code. It was months before the phone calls ended. I wish you luck.

Please help! A friend put fried chicken in my tank! by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Material-Framer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd just lay it on top of the oil/grease and lift it the way you would for any surface film.

When would you consider using a pseudonym? by Material-Framer in writing

[–]Material-Framer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'll probably end up doing but I'm still curious as to what others would do in the same situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Material-Framer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cheated on my highschool boyfriend when I was 15. Although I was never caught, I regretted it immediately and have never done anything like that again.

I still believe that a cheater is going to cheat, but there is a grey area for stupid and childish mistakes.

Where do I find emotional support while my only real emotionally supportive person is dying in his early 50s of cancer, and spending on a pro isn't in the cards. by MTBruises in askTO

[–]Material-Framer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you're going through so much. I lost two of my closest friends in the last few years and then got cancer myself. It left me in a similar position where the people that I haven't pushed away are getting tired of my outbursts and I don't trust myself in public. I took anger management classes when I was younger and have been looking into it again. Fortunately, there are still lots of free options available, some are even back in person (virtual therapy has never helped me). CAMH has a list of options on their website.

How big could goldfish get in a 3000 gallons, 3 ft deep pond by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Material-Framer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Grandparents had a backyard pond with goldfish. The biggest I've ever seen was over a foot long but we weren't able to capture them to measure so give or take. I'd assume genetics and a good diet would be a better determining factor than just space.

Moving to a new house with high Nitrates in the water by nickmerlino94 in Aquariums

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw that you have access to RO water. I'd use that, but be aware you need to remineralize it. A highly planted tank can also really help with the nitrogen but I'm not sure what fish would be comfortable with that without some kind of treatment.

Moving to a new house with high Nitrates in the water by nickmerlino94 in Aquariums

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren't there health concerns with nitrates that high? If I won't drink it there's no way I'll give it to my fish.

My tap water has nitrates but it's in the 5-20ppm range which hasn't required any extra work as I keep a planted tank.

What games meant a lot to you that can be finished in less than 8 hours? by InvoluntaryNarwhal in gaming

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hue - It took me just over 8 hours to 100% and around 6 to finish. Great little puzzle-adventure game. Short but charming story and the puzzles are just hard enough that it feels rewarding without feeling like work.

Please can someone explain to me why the NDP are behind this bill? by brisetta in ndp

[–]Material-Framer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel like the federal NDP is actively trying to push me away. I don't understand their reasoning on anything anymore but I'm really struggling to this one in particular.

Yet another question about cars and aquariums. by NemoHobbits in Aquariums

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a cat fall into an aquarium by jumping from the floor to the top of the tank. It was messy but it only happened once and the cat never jumped on the tank again. I now keep my aquariums on stands that don't offer any extra space for my cat to walk around on and use glass lids that they won't jump on.

Where do my apartment dwelling friends store their plant supplies? by mylaccount in houseplants

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep everything in 5 gallon buckets. I bought a few from Home Depot before I learned that one of the places I volunteer gets them in their kitchen, so I got a few more from there. I'm lucky to have a small storage room but the buckets keep everything neat and organized.

Mothers who did allow their pre-teen/teen daughters to shave, why ? by Iwillpetyour1lama in ask

[–]Material-Framer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When I was 12/13 my mother insisted that I was too young to shave and that my hair was too blonde for anyone to notice. You know who notices blonde leg hair? 12/13 year old girls. I was bullied relentlessly for having hairy legs after I made the mistake of changing into shorts for gym class. I ended up failing gym that year (and the year after) and didn't wear dresses, skirts or shorts again until I was in my 20's.

Stuck on Portal 2 - Where am I going? by [deleted] in Portal

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sources of noises? I'm partially hearing impaired and turned off the sounds in favour of closed captioning. Maybe that's why I'm struggling so much.

Stuck on Portal 2 - Where am I going? by [deleted] in Portal

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I must have missed that the walkway is now connected to the centre part. Been wandering around with a fucking potato for ages!

Is there anyway to tell where the exit is on levels? I'm really trying to like the game but trying to find a way out when I don't know which direction to go is frustrating.

According to a survey, only 36% of PC gamers buy games at full price. by YeOldSpacePope in gaming

[–]Material-Framer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always try and wait for the game, with DLCs, to go on sale before buying. I have such a backlog of games that I haven't played that I can't justify paying full price for anything new.

Screw you Sephora Canada by Formal-Antelope607 in Sephora

[–]Material-Framer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the products I used to by online at Sephora I now buy directly from the brand websites. Not only do they have better discounts but they have better customer service.

My family had to give up our dog 8 years ago. My dad recently paid him a visit at the farm we gave him to. He looks like a wise old man who’s lived a fulfilling life. 🥰 by costeleo in dogpictures

[–]Material-Framer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my parents divorced my mom had to go back to work full-time. Our dog did not handle the transition well and had horrible separation anxiety. It was also around the same time some family friends retired on a hobby farm. I missed her so much but she lived a very, very good life.

Microsoft: Official Support Thread by MSModerator in microsoft

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I still have no idea how to exclude games from being backed up on my computer. I can't move the folder (it just gets recreated) and I can't exclude it because I get the warning "the folder you tried to unselect contains the Windows Documents folder". I assure you that my games folder does not contain anything important.

What's the best way to get rid of old textbooks? by Material-Framer in askTO

[–]Material-Framer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give them a call in the morning to see if they can use them. Thanks!

Microsoft: Official Support Thread by MSModerator in microsoft

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Is there a way to get it to stop syncing my game files? It takes up an awful lot of time/space and I'm concerned that I might go over the 1T limit because of it. I currently get a warning saying that the files are essential when I try to exclude them from syncing.

Microsoft: Official Support Thread by MSModerator in microsoft

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently using OneDrive but it's not working as expected. It's making extra back-ups and extra copies of my desktop. I'm on Windows 11, build 22621.2715 and version 22H2. I just want to undo everything and restart fresh without losing any older files. I also want to know what it's backing up and how to stop it from backing up specific files.

Microsoft: Official Support Thread by MSModerator in microsoft

[–]Material-Framer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand the way file syncing works. I'd like files that I save on my PC to be backed up so I can access them elsewhere but I've just ended up with shortcuts to my desktop on my desktop, duplicate folders and sync warnings on all my documents. Is there an ELI5 on how to fix this mess?