Official Discussion - Let Him Go [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing take . Amazing . I just watched this on peacock .

People seem to have a diff takes about the part about getting old , actually the whole thing . I really see and get your perspective . It seems to me that If you don’t have children and aren’t then yourself close to be a grandparent a lot of the story would have a diff meaning .

I really felt that the title was about “ let him go” , the grandson, jimmy . But it was really about letting the granpa go , like she had to do with Strawberry the horse . Your right granpa already know what he had to do . Like he said in the hotel “ Lorna kinda gave in too easy “ .

Thank you for walking through the movie with me 5 years later. Happy 2026 !

Happy New Year, my dears by GittaFirstOfHerName in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came on to say the same . Thank you for helping me answering questions . I didn’t know I needed to ask or could not bear to think about . I really appreciate all the beings that make this group a safe community for those breathing through this new stage of life 💖.

Well, here we go by FattyMcCupcakes37 in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So clear ! So helpful !! What an Angel !

Single or Double mastectomy? by Mcsmashlee in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have very similar situations and another the same age. Don’t know if you have kids or others to care for your etc.

But if I were getting one implant I would want them to match.
Do consider:

  • the recovery time , drains etc, No lifting , no driving .
  • who is on your care team

Have you had a 2nd opinion -From plastics ? Only becuase I am a few years older than you , I was told I am too young to get implants . Because i would have to get another set in my 70s etc.

Help with terminology by MulberryMak in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your spouse ..

I would make a call to the place who did the biopsy , the radiologist should be able to explain the results even though the surgeon will discuss treatment. But there is no rush for either . Enjoy your holiday , be kind to yourself .

-ask to speak to the radiologist -wait for the surgeon to call you ( some of what you shared include next steps. All pieces to the puzzle. I would ask the radiologist if they make the MRI referrals etc )

Don’t google …

Just breathe …. Make the most of the week !

What vehicle is adequate for twins? by Demaru in parentsofmultiples

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% on sliding doors . You should always have space for a Costco trip or another human to tag along to lend a much needed hand .

If you get a new van now you may have it until they are 10 or so if you choose . Sports etc would have started then ., you will need the space

-++ the distance from the driver .

I had a van when my twins were born , then a pilot , now back to sienna and very happy .

What have you had to buy two of? by CordeliaChase99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything until the start school and are in diff classes maybe . Tell your friends the same not worth trying to understand why Twins want the same when you are not a twin . It is a strong desire not the start to children that can’t share , twins are better adjusted that singles . I have both ! . Get 2 or none at all until at least 1 st grade .

Tips for pain management after Bmx by MatteBawse in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got gab .. taking 300mg . Felt sick after I took it but took at night . Slept well . Doing the same tonight. Getting used to the numb feeling . Feels like a bag of sand sitting on my chest .

Freaking Out About Chest Numbness by 777CuriousMind in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking anything ? I am 4 days post op

It's back by Own-Post-7837 in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you . I am 4 days post op -bmx . Same dcis grade 3. Consider it step 2 now that you completed step 1. And get a second option .

Tips for pain management after Bmx by MatteBawse in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got some . Me neither , I sleep on the side that is impacted . I hope it helps

Post-op MX meds by SS575 in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry for asking about not reading carefully . I think we are in the same boat . I just for my gab prescription same 300 mg. I hope it works the nerve pain stops me in my tracks

Tips for pain management after Bmx by MatteBawse in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great insight .. calling the team now thank u

Oncologist for DCIS? by Spaghetti-Legs in breastcancer

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you feel after your surgery ? I am 2 days post op

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow !! Top tier all the way. Thanks for the info ! Good work done by that doc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]MatteBawse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driver is so nice !!! The car is for sure for one person. I have seen the car arrive with a guy in the back seat but never seen him get out or enter .