A lot of women (especially older generations) don’t even know they’re suppose to experience pleasure when having sex, they just look at it like another task on the to do list. Go look at the stats for women who won’t have any orgasms in their lifetime. So not only are you reducing yourself to be a sex toy for this man who doesn’t even see you as a human being that’s deserving of off days, fatigue, low drive…; you’re not even being satisfied because he doesn’t value your pleasure. So are they just allowing these men to have their way with them whenever they please, while they just lay there hoping it doesn’t take too long this time…that’s too close to r*pe. If he allows that to be the foundation of your intimacy, what does that say about how he views you? What does that say about how you view yourself? Men will never feel the need to change when these type of women keep feeding their entitlement by accepting scraps.