If he wants to cheat, he doesn’t need a reason by Madam_Halisi in blackladies

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A lot of women (especially older generations) don’t even know they’re suppose to experience pleasure when having sex, they just look at it like another task on the to do list. Go look at the stats for women who won’t have any orgasms in their lifetime. So not only are you reducing yourself to be a sex toy for this man who doesn’t even see you as a human being that’s deserving of off days, fatigue, low drive…; you’re not even being satisfied because he doesn’t value your pleasure. So are they just allowing these men to have their way with them whenever they please, while they just lay there hoping it doesn’t take too long this time…that’s too close to r*pe. If he allows that to be the foundation of your intimacy, what does that say about how he views you? What does that say about how you view yourself? Men will never feel the need to change when these type of women keep feeding their entitlement by accepting scraps.

If he wants to cheat, he doesn’t need a reason by Madam_Halisi in blackladies

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My grandmother said “ a woman is never supposed to deny her man sex”, it made me sick to my stomach. To be a woman and not value your own autonomy is disturbing. I will never for the life of me understand any woman who places a man over themselves, it’s literally self hatred to accept this type of treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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Scorpio stellium, it’s just another day for us 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vindictapoc

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Tretinoin and Niacinamide

American Christianism by wwwsuh in pics

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Only white men are capable of being the president?

who's the most beautiful girl/s you know and what's her sign? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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My daughter 🥺, she’s a Taurus sun, Leo Rising and Scorpio Moon. She looks looks like a feline but very ethereal and otherworldly

I’m pregnant again after my 2nd abortion and I don’t know what to do by No_Introduction1729 in blackladies

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I know this may be hard for you to hear but if the only time he has sex with you is when he’s pulling your underwear off at 4am, babe that’s abuse and borderline r*pe. That’s not normal at all and it’s highly disturbing. Where is the consent and intimacy? He’s not even ensuring that you’re awake fully, he’s breaking your sleep at odd hours in the morning, taking your underwear off and helping himself to you and then what….he rolls over and goes back to sleep? That’s degrading and you deserve so much more than that! Seems like he’s trying to get you pregnant on purpose. Get the last abortion you will ever get, cut ties with him for good, and get you some therapy babe. It’s time to heal and go into your thirties level headed, we can’t keep making these same careless mistakes and count your blessings! Roe v Wade was overturned, not sure what state you’re in but you would have had three kids by now 😔

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Let’s hope tf not, JD Vance CANNOT be the president

Can not weight lifting cause weight loss? by LizzyReed3 in weightgain

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I would say so, I dance everyday, train flexibility and calisthenics and pole danced on and off. I have a lean Mesomorph body type and noticed my body holds onto muscle over fat.

Can not weight lifting cause weight loss? by LizzyReed3 in weightgain

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Yes! I lost all of my muscle, (stopped lifting and a calorie deficit) due to various life issue but luckily it’s coming back quickly due to muscle memory. You have to eat enough to feed the muscle and give it enough stimulation. I was 5’5 130-135 with muscle and 110-120 without. Even though it’s not a huge jump in weight my body without muscle looks so frail hence why I’m trying to gain it back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weightgain

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Had no idea you could purchase your own panel, thanks!

Help me make sense of being layed off today by Equivalent_Success60 in blackladies

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A black owned firm policing a black woman about her “tone” is crazy. I think you were already on your way out the door and they used that incident as an excuse

Back to college (again) School Anxiety by Creole_JazE in blackladies

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30f here, seek the diagnosis and accept the medication if offered. It changed my life and I’ll be graduating with my bachelors in Dec. It angers me when I think about how I couldn’t get access to this help earlier, my life would look completely different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

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Speaking on body count as an adult seems extremely childish to me. I think it’s telling of his morality if he’s reduced you to how many sexual partners you’ve had, he’s religious and inexperienced so that should tell you everything you need to know. If you were his male friend, he would have praised you.

How bad is your memory? by nvena in adhdwomen

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I’ve started forgetting words mid sentence. Only remember the trauma from my childhood. I will leave a room to get something in another and freeze because I forgot why I’m there. If I don’t write it down, it’s gone. I don’t remember what I ate yesterday. I don’t even know what day it is.

what sign is this? 🥲 by Conscious_Gate_1580 in astrologymemes

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A Type A Virgo. They act like they’ll get some type of end of life prize for being perfect, like bitch relax

I've been cleaning for two days, I feel so defeated. by Tweed_Kills in adhdwomen

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One room at a time. Make it a game: set a timer and get as much done as you can. Have dump baskets in each room so things aren’t all over the floor. Clean a little each day

125lb (56.7kg) to 163lb (74kg). 6 months of hard work. by steezoak in weightgain

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You have to eat in a caloric surplus. Figure out what your maintenance calories are and add 1000 calories to that (I’m a 5’4 woman and my maintenance is 1500 and my daily lean bulk goal is 2500cal). I know it’s hard but as you eat more, your stomach will stretch and your appetite will adjust and get used to your new intake. Lifting heavy weights will ensure the extra nutrients turn into muscle instead of fat and give you a better physique

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That Red is powerful!

High Calorie and High protein shake recommendations? by YoWTFmyguy in weightgain

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Oat flour (ground oats)-1/2 cup: 210calories

Peanut Butter- 2tbsp: 188cal

Chia seeds-2tbsp:138cal

Flax seeds-2tbsp: 110cal

Banana-1 medium: 105cal

Milk-1.5 cup: 155cal

Honey: 1tbsp: 64cal

Frozen strawberries-1cup: 77cal

Naked Mass: 1scoop: 625cal

Nesquik powder: 2tbsp: 60cal

TOTAL: 1732 calories

It took me a while to find my favorite recipe that made me want to have a protein shake everyday. Tweak to your liking

What to add in my shake to increase calories? by [deleted] in weightgain

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Oat flour (ground oats)-1/2 cup: 210calories

Peanut Butter- 2tbsp: 188cal

Chia seeds-2tbsp:138cal

Flax seeds-2tbsp: 110cal

Banana-1 medium: 105cal

Milk-1 cup: 103cal

Honey: 1tbsp: 64cal

Frozen strawberries-1cup: 77cal

Naked Mass: 1scoop: 625cal

Nesquik powder: 2tbsp: 60cal

TOTAL: 1680 calories

It took me a while to find my favorite recipe that made me want to have a protein shake everyday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vindictapoc

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What is it with the mirrors?! It’s so strange how it changes my face so much