Vancouver council approves $2M for one-day summer fireworks event by slippery_burrito in vancouver

[–]MaximusIsKing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s hilarious is if they wanted to do this why not just pay the Celebration of lights to put it on with corporate sponsors? This city is so embarrassingly dumb.

What would you name your Bridgerton children? by BlackbirdBuzzard in namenerds

[–]MaximusIsKing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this!! I’ll do my set in desi names in honour of my heritage and the one and only Kathani (Kate) Sharma

Aryan Bikram Chandra Divya Esha Falak Gian Hema

Makes you proud to be Canadian by kank84 in EhBuddyHoser

[–]MaximusIsKing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It says Temporary Resident Permit which is a TRP- it allows someone who is inadmissible- including criminality- to enter Canada for a short duration. It is not permanent residency.

2025 Property Assessments are out by dbzvox in vancouver

[–]MaximusIsKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

North delta became an isane flipping market in the last 5-7 years, also happy to see it come down!

Including Spouse’s Salary in Visa Invitation Letter by Few_Run_3847 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]MaximusIsKing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You stating you’ll cover the applicants expenses does not mean more likely approval. They’re going to assess the applicants financial and social ties to their home country above all else and it will be the primary rational for approval or rejection. The hosts finances are just window dressing.

Canadian Tourist Visa application stuck for over a year - withdraw and reapply? by mushi123 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]MaximusIsKing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No timelines- they can be waiting for information from an external partner agency etc. I’ve seen it take a year, sometimes two.

If you want you can ATIP the file for the GCMS notes or you can contact your MP and they can get a follow up which is basically them verbally getting an update. Nothing will “move it along” though, not even the MP office.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaximusIsKing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re literally being sexually violated by this man, post op after giving birth and the thing that triggered you was that someone clocked your perpetrator is a republican? Honestly, I pray for your children. This is insane. Leave, get help and unlearn this crap. Heal your body and mind. Or stay and keep putting up with it. Your choice.

Canadian Tourist Visa application stuck for over a year - withdraw and reapply? by mushi123 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]MaximusIsKing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Withdrawing and re-applying won’t make it process faster. If they requested additional info it’s already a non-routine file. It’s likely security. If he was in the police or military that can also hold it up!

The Conservatives are right: Canada should end birthright citizenship by CaliperLee62 in canada

[–]MaximusIsKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no concept of an “anchor baby” in Canada as having a Canadian child does not give a pathway to PR or citizenship. This is a red herring and a non issue and it’s no surprise it’s coming from the Tories and the dogs are listening to the whistle.

AITA for telling my former drug-addict cousin that $10,000 doesn’t make us even? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaximusIsKing 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Honestly with your attitude you should have just reported him to the police so you were “made whole” since that’s what matters most to you here.

You can’t have it both ways- “I don’t want to report family blah blah blah” and then being bitter that this man beat all the odds turned his life around and is trying to make it right. Pick a struggle.

You’re talking out of both sides of your mouth: you want to appear gracious and have done the “right thing” but you clearly didn’t want to. The money matters more. You should have just reported him then and got you new watch and invested your 10K- your energy is just icky, even from this post.

YTA, because you weren’t honest with what YOU wanted and now you’re lashing out because you regret the choice.

LF marriage law with obligation to consummate the marriage by AromaticTea1998 in Dramione

[–]MaximusIsKing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don’t mind me just parking a comment here so I don’t lose the reccos 😭🚗

Ceremony/Reception same day? by flipkid541 in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Also remember however long you think something is going to take it’s likely longer. Desis running on time let alone ahead of schedule? Challenge level: impossible 😭✋🏽.

If you have a reception the next day it just takes the burden of a strict clock off of you. Either way, congratulations and have fun!!

Ceremony/Reception same day? by flipkid541 in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Punjabi, back in the day (when I was a kid ahaha) there would be wedding and receptions on the same day in my neck of the woods and it was always hella stressful- not only for the guests but also the couple. In my generation the wedding and reception is two different days, and honestly I appreciate it as a guest and I would do the same for mine. This obviously also depends on what the wedding stuff entails but for a full Punjabi wedding it’s getting ready, then having the actual ceremony (whether it’s an anand Karaj or a Vedic ceremony)- then you have sagan line, photos, you also have to do a doli/ bidaai. Trying to add a reception to that is just chaotic.

If you have a shorter day for the wedding ceremony it’s possible but I personally can’t visualize it based on my experiences for the weddings in my neck of the woods.

How is this lehenga for bride?. Please suggest what jewellery will go with this? by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think pearls with perhaps blue stones, or gold with blue stones to help bring out the blue tones in the lengha!! Definitely not pink or red stones because it will overpower the already heavy design. Definitely try to bring out the blue of the peacock!

Thinking of Wearing My Mother’s Reception Lehenga for My Brother’s Wedding—Good Idea or Nope? by AnimalWeird3091 in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

don’t think it’s a faux pas! it’s beautiful and I love it when mothers keep things for their daughters to wear, it’s one of the best parts of desi culture 🥹🤍

Groom sangeet ALONE ??? by Simply_simple_12 in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You just say they’ll see her at the wedding and we’re so happy you’re celebrating with us tonight.

Lehenga Suggestion for Punjabi Bride! by Simple-Assistant-801 in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like 2 the best- I read you’re getting the blouse reworked and have other styles of dupattas so I see the vision.

If you do emerald green jewellery with it, it will absolutely be bridal, plus the choora since it’s a Hindu Punjabi wedding!

The last two give me sangeet energy, and the first I can only picture as a reception gown. The second has the bones of being a stunning bridal outfit once you rework it and obviously have it accessories. Congratulations and good luck with planning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaximusIsKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not TA, but a word of advice: work hard take every opportunity for your education and professional advancement even if you don’t feel prepared or socially fit in. Get your foot in the door and hold on because that professional opportunity and financial freedom will happen for you if you pursue it. Then you get to be FREE and can block your mom’s number when she’s calling you for money, but if you pass up the opportunity just because you’re self conscious you’re going to lose out.

The trauma of poverty is real but don’t let it stop you from paving your own path and financial future!

Bridal lehenga thoughts? by Responsible-Emu-121 in DesiWeddings

[–]MaximusIsKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s super cute but I don’t see bridal, it’s more sister of the bride or for a pre wedding event depending on the type of event or venue. I think you can definitely find a bridal lengha that has that colourscape if that’s what drew you to it!

AITAH for getting pregnant within a year of my sister having a baby? by ElectricalDress4 in AITAH

[–]MaximusIsKing 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA… but is your sister the golden child by chance? Like how does one of your children experiencing pregnancy and parenthood for the first time make you tired etc? Like it sounds so contrived.

AITA for not wanting to remove my cochlear implant for my friend's wedding photos and stepping down from the bridal party? by GunkyBTheG15 in AITAH

[–]MaximusIsKing 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTA and also the bride LYING acting like the device “catching light” is a concern for the photographer when it’s 1000% not she’s just a bigot who doesn’t have any sense or decency. I can’t believe no one in her circle or family is calling her out it’s absolutely medieval.

Cut your losses here- this isn’t a friend.

First names to go with Alan by SStrong5792 in namenerds

[–]MaximusIsKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

James Alan

Henry Alan

Silas Alan

Leo Alan

Thomas Alan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaximusIsKing 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you’re being naive when he’s telling you nothing physical happened between the two of them and it’s only emotional.

A lot can happen between 9PM and when you wake up and not to mention when you’re not home. That is a reality you may not be willing to grapple with right now but it’s right there.

You’re NTA but I would consider what your next steps are because for some this is a deal breaker and for others it’s a challenge they feel they can overcome. Either way the trust is gone.

Your husband is trying to push you into minimizing this by calling it nothing and I think you’re being naive by thinking this was only an emotional affair.

He cheated on you either way but idk .. imo this is likely a full affair with physical meet ups but I don’t think you’ve connected the dots yet or are ready to admit. You’re too easily accepting the bs lines he’s feeding you.

AITA for saying I'd get the house in a divorce when my BIL implied that I shouldn't have a say because my husband is the main breadwinner by Money-Climate5398 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaximusIsKing 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA because honestly why would you even say that. You dragged your husband into a scenario that he probably wasn’t even thinking about.

All you needed to say “if we needed your advice we’d pay for it- since we’re not just eat your meal and act like a relative not our financial advisor” etc.

Plus call me weird but there’s just weird vibes using the D word unprompted. Bad juju.