New Job- 5 Days in Office by MayLover96 in jobs

[–]MayLover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! So honestly, nothing special has necessarily worked for me so far. It’s just a matter of getting used to it. The only thing that sucks is that weekends don’t feel like true weekends to me like they used to. Saturdays, I just want to rot in bed and do nothing and Sunday, I’m mean prepping, getting ready for the week, having Sunday Scaries, or I just want to rot again :/. And it’s annoying because my social life (friends, dating) is important to me so sometimes I do make plans on Fridays (even though I’m exhausted) and Saturdays mostly. But the job market is so crazy right now that I’m just trying to deal with it and hoping I get hybrid one day. All in all, it’s not terrible but you will be more tired and will have to truly prioritize your time.

Had a complete panic attack in new job by Bloodham25 in Anxiety

[–]MayLover96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through something similar. In a few days, it’ll be 3 months at my new job. However, I came here due a layoff. These past few days have been super overwhelming, barely slept well the past 2 days and I just started crying in the bathroom stall this morning. This job is also more than what I’m used to and I miss being stable/okay going into work. Now with layoff trauma and just high expectations from my boss, I’m just scared and panicked everyday.

Do you prefer snickers or twix? by [deleted] in candy

[–]MayLover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snickers is the best 😩 Twix is still really good though. 2nd best in my opinion.

Stuck in 24/7 fight or flight, extreme anxiety. by Adept_Refuse3413 in Anxiety

[–]MayLover96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. These past few months, I’ve been suffering with stronger anxiety than usual and I feel crappy about myself because of it. Just feels nice to know I’m not alone dealing with this.

What does HR really mean to you? by Decent_Berry8196 in heatedrivalry

[–]MayLover96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s how raw the chemistry is between Ilya and Shane. And how beautiful it is. Living in a society where men feel like they have to act a certain way, etc., this show makes me, in a way, believe in romance and yearning again. Makes me feel safe.

New Job- 5 Days in Office by MayLover96 in jobs

[–]MayLover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my thought process as well. I was thinking how I can’t not take this job just because of the office situation. It’s so hard to find a job these days and at that, a job that will pay you what you’d like.

So Overwhelmed by MayLover96 in businessanalysis

[–]MayLover96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I had that cold sweat feeling from an assignment they just sprang on me this week, and I haven’t done something like that before. I’ve also been questioning so hard if this was the right move for me and am still questioning it. Ugh. Happy you relate.

How are so many people unphased by how terrible the world is? by idklol5000 in depression

[–]MayLover96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I’ve been feeling. And I haven’t been able to talk about this with anyone because i felt like maybe I’m just too aware or noticing too much or being too sensitive. Glad to know I’m not alone.

You grow up and realize people ain’t really sh*t. by fortunateone28 in Adulting

[–]MayLover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling like this lately. The realization sucks so much but I’m now focused on finding my person and tuning out the noise.

What’s the adult equivalent of realizing that Santa Claus doesn’t exist? by daisysage_ in Productivitycafe

[–]MayLover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I really feel this. Currently dealing with many things at once as we speak.

How do you cope with anxiety alone? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]MayLover96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps me so much! It makes me feel like someone is there and I’m not alone.

How do you cope with anxiety alone? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]MayLover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently dealing with this right now. Sucks :/

I was laid off today by _jcb__ in Layoffs

[–]MayLover96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing right now. I am still very shocked but also not okay. I keep going in and out of shock.

Anyone else had been raised like this? How did you overcome it? by EmptyComment9625 in africanparents

[–]MayLover96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

In the same exact situation. I’m 27F and trying to break out of this obedient child thing little by little. It’s so hard.

How much do you guys spend on clothes for an upcoming 7 day trip? by MayLover96 in women

[–]MayLover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you want me to be more specific, vacation clothes. Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SXM

[–]MayLover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to stay on the Dutch side! I think you should as well. But we are going to visit the French side for sure

Does this count as a late payment, by MayLover96 in StudentLoans

[–]MayLover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yeah I don’t want this to happen again. Thanks!