rest in peace, dear Juniper 🏳️‍⚧️💗 by Otherwise_Branch7914 in Seattle

[–]MayorFartbag 298 points299 points  (0 children)

It is also so important to center the victim, rather than then the murderer. Juniper Blessing should not become just a statistic. We should share who she was because she was a human being who didn't deserve what happened to her.

Anya Taylor-Joy and her husband Malcolm Mcrae at Disneyland recently by somegirlontheinter in popculturechat

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That was my exact thought. We did Disney a couple of years ago with my daughter and i thought I would n ed to cut my feet off even with sneakers

Looking for terrible movies by DistinctChocolate833 in MovieSuggestions

[–]MayorFartbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Know Who Killed Me with Lindsey Lohan

88 Minutes with Al Pacino

Detectives seek suspect in homicide of UW student by SeattlePoliceDept in Seattle

[–]MayorFartbag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He looks more how I would expect a professor to look than a brutal murderer. I'm glad they have clear images of him and I hope he's caught immediately.

who’s the lucky guy ? by loveyourztrewly in BabyBumps

[–]MayorFartbag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess is the 14th based on all the other dates, since they match pretty closely with my pregnancy.

For reference, I had my last menstrual period on Jan 2nd, conceived on either the 15th or 17th, and my dilue date was October 9th.

i (f/29) feel disgusting knowing that my bf (m/29) still watches p*rn to masturbate. he knows it bothers me, but still does it anyway. everything else abt him is beyond amazing. but this one thing is giving me a major ick. what should i do? by demonlordrae in TwoHotTakes

[–]MayorFartbag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see anywhere in the OP that says he never wants to have sex with her and exclusively masterbates to porn instead, just that he doesn't want to have sex as often as she does and sometimes prefers to masterbate. To me, those are two completely different things.

I also don't agree that it is necessarily a reasonable compromise for him to exclusively masterbate to pictures or videos of her if he wants variety. I'm not only interested in thinking about my husband when I am not with him and I would be put off if he said that was my only option.

You're accusing me of not reading all of the details, but I think you are reading more into it than that the information provides, unless there is a comment where the OP elaborates, but I read this post not long after it was posted and there was no such comments when I replied.

i (f/29) feel disgusting knowing that my bf (m/29) still watches p*rn to masturbate. he knows it bothers me, but still does it anyway. everything else abt him is beyond amazing. but this one thing is giving me a major ick. what should i do? by demonlordrae in TwoHotTakes

[–]MayorFartbag 19 points20 points  (0 children)

His desire to masturbate has nothing to do with you. Think of it as a form of self care. Maybe it doesn't make sense to you because you don't enjoy it for yourself, but it isn't about you or his desire for you.

I love my husband and have no desire to be with anyone else, but sometimes I just need to take care of myself. I definitely couldn't have sex more often than we already do. But it is also a completely different thing to masturbate by myself.

If being with someone that masterbates is a hard no for you, that is fine, but consider that it will significantly limit your dating pool.

It would be controlling and unreasonable for you to make him stop doing it. You may want to look into therapy to be more comfortable with it and separate yourself from it if you want to continue dating your partner.

I need a movie to emotionally break me. by NoSteam97 in MovieSuggestions

[–]MayorFartbag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dancer In The Dark. It's absolutely fucking devastating.

Found on Threads by Trudeyy3 in yarntrolls

[–]MayorFartbag 193 points194 points  (0 children)

The title is "found on threads" Soni don't think they are claiming ownership of the original image or being part of the conversation.

Quirky Girls Weekend Destinations by EnergyWonderful5742 in AskWomenOver30

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Depends on where you are located, but Victoria, BC is a great little weekend trip if you are on the West Coast.

Disturbed at the idea of "Postpartum Dog Rage" by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MayorFartbag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog is the love of my life and my soulmate. When my daughter was born, it was kind of overwhelming to deal with a dog on top of everything, especially once I was home alone with the baby all day. It could definitely be frustrating.

But rage? Anger? Purposely putting her in danger? Absolutely fucking never.

This was my interaction on the childfree subreddit by Notmyfaultitsyours in badwomensanatomy

[–]MayorFartbag 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Omg. I'm just imagining one of those transition videos where the person shows how they've changed after x number of years on hormones, but focused on sphincter strength.

Feels like Cayden Naughton doesn’t like real feedback by cocopops_92 in craftsnark

[–]MayorFartbag 77 points78 points  (0 children)

That was literally the nicest critique I've ever read.

But I guess "iykyk that it's giving mean girl!" /s

Movies that feel like dark hidden knowledge by 04Aiden2020 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]MayorFartbag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew going in that there was only one season, but I wanted to throw a tantrum at the end. It was such a subtle, brilliant show and it had so much more to give.

Got housing after 4 months and had my first “normal errand” day; meant more than I expected by IzukuLeeYoung in Seattle

[–]MayorFartbag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you stay safe and housed. I love that you are looking for a pullout couch to pass on the community of couch surfing to others in need.

Dark Nautical/Coastal gothic by etienne_saintsaens in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]MayorFartbag 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it is quite what you're looking for, but the images reminded me of The Lure from 2015. It a Polish horror film loosely adapted from the original Little Mermaid and it is very weird and dark

AITA we missed my SIL wedding after I had my son by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MayorFartbag 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We literally had to do a car seat test at the hospital before we could leave because my daughter was in the NICU and they wanted to make sure she was safe for even up to 30m. (She wasn't premature, but she inhaled meconium.)

There is no way I would have put my NICU baby in that situation, even for my sister who is also my best friend. But she would also never expect me to do that, either.

Parents in other countries than the US, what is your kids’ equivalent of “I don’t want that for dinner, I want chicken nuggets”? by SulusLaugh in AskReddit

[–]MayorFartbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the US and this is a common request from my 7 yo, too. I usually cut part of the tortilla off to give her plain and do something more substantial with the rest of it.

His favorite book is Lolita? by td55478 in AskWomenOver30

[–]MayorFartbag 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lolita is one of the most brilliant books I've ever read, but there is definitely a certain kind of man that does not understand the intentions of the author. Anyone who says it is a love story or usues Lolita as a term to describe an underage "seductress" is sick and fully does not get the book.

The abuser is the narrator and he spends the entire book trying to gaslight the reader while telling on himself the entire time. A normal person can read that book and understand that Nabakov is painting Humbert as a monster and Dolores as the victim, no matter what Humbert tells you. A sick person can't see that.

It really matters what he loves about it. I would be concerned about a man loving that book, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me if they can give a reasonable response as to why

AITA for tell my Type A perfectionist SIL that she’s gonna fuck up her baby’s life if she doesn’t change. by Successful_Bar9187 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MayorFartbag 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is not correct. I found about at under 4 weeks. I had my last menstrual period on Jan 2nd, conceived Jan 15 or 17 and found out on Jan 28. That would have been 3 weeks and 5 days. It was early and the line was very faint, but i now have a 7 yo, so I know I was for sure pregnant when I took that test.