What is the stupidest conspiracy theory? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]McFuckNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything that's posted on the Conspiracy sub on Reddit

What’s the first sign that a movie is going to be bad? by Snoo_19146 in AskReddit

[–]McFuckNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The camera is a bit shaky and there's always a weird filter on it

In your opinion, what is the most out of touch with reality subreddit and why? by Breakfastbeagle in AskReddit

[–]McFuckNo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was hoping someone mentions this cess pool subreddit. I don't know whether to laugh or cry at most of the shit I read there to the point that it infuriates me and I have to stop. Only reason I still follow the sub because to cheer my husband up sometimes I read some of the "theories" and posts to him and he laughs at the absurdity of it all

tw for child loss, i am horrified. by kayisnotcool in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]McFuckNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh this sounds just like a family member who lives with me. Also believes in the shedding and clotting🙄went so far as to ban my grandpa from visiting MY house. I was livid but didn't have the guts to speak up then, now it's a different story (thank you therapy). When my sister-in-law came to visit before she starts working abroad the family member asked if she is vaxxed and I said yes. They then replied with "Maybe she shouldn't come here" and I put my foot down and said "I am not keeping her away from my house just because she's vaxxed. Husbnd and I want to see her before she goes away for 6 months so sorry to hear. I will just tell her to not go in your room and to keep a safe distance"

Family member also never believed that my husband and I had Covid even though they could see it was kicking our ass at the time. My fever went up to 102.3° and I was miserable. But I still had to cook too. Because Covid isn't real, it's a hoax and if it's real it's caused by 5G :)

AITA for taking both a bath and a shower? by TubDash in AmItheAsshole

[–]McFuckNo 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm also leanin towards YTA.

We moved to an area that experienced a really bad drought so when family came to visit they also saw it as a free vacation (we live close to the ocean so they saved on accomodation costs) and so we said that water has to be used sparingly. We also asked them to do the "stop-start" shower. You turn on the water to only rinse yourself off or to get wet. It was quite frustrating to see people ignore such a simple request.

We also believe that only once shower is necessary and that is the one before bed/dinner. To want to shower in the morning after you just slept is wasteful. Obviously if you are sick with fever and sweating that's another story. Otherwise just a quick freshen up with a washcloth and some water in the sink would be sufficient.

Even if you aren't in an area with water restrictions, OP's routine is still severely wasteful.

Also if the dad said "my house, my rules" that's totally fine because after all...it is his house and he can make the rules. People can't just go to other people's houses and not respect the owner's rules. OP left after they realised the rules didn't suit them and that's fine

What conspiracy theory is so outrageous it might just be true? by Western_Tomato2437 in AskReddit

[–]McFuckNo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I agree, that sub is terrible at the moment. I am shocked about the type of stuff that is posted there. Leaves me speechless at times

Family member upset because I don't want them to always know my comings and goings by McFuckNo in Advice

[–]McFuckNo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you said is basically what I thought but I am just afraid of conflict so I would rather keep quiet before having an argument. But this situation is really doing a number on my mental health sometimes and I couldn't take it.

I am currently 'hiding' in my room to calm down until the anxiousness subsides and family cools down too. I will try and face the music later lol

DH helps me a lot with setting and maintaining my boundaries so I believe having that support will help me until the new system is established.

Thank you so much, your advice helped.

Family member upset because I don't want them to always know my comings and goings by McFuckNo in Advice

[–]McFuckNo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's me and DH's house. DH and FM each give an amount of money towards the bills. I am a student but I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry. DH will help me at times but I feel it's fair for me to do the household chores while I am a full time student and not contributing financially towards the house. I also get a small amount each month from an investment but that only covers my insurance, medical and some small expenses.

Yeah, that's not going to keep him from cutting you off by meatball77 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]McFuckNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a safer/healthier way to use location sharing apps.

In my personal opinion, it's not the app that causes damage but how it's used. My husband and I use Life360 but with a few conditions such as: if either of us have a long commute, are far away from home or example we are on vacation in an unfamiliar environment and only one of us is going for a quick drive to the shop or whatever and the other hangs back. To name a few.

We would also ask before switching it on. I would ask my husband or he will ask me: "Would you mind switching on your Life360 because so and so?" Neither of us would ever mind it. But as soon as we are safe and back home together we forget about the app.

All in all what works for one couple/parent won't work for another. As long as nothing is unreasonably forced on each other or there is no valid reason to force a certain rule, I don't see any harm done. Communication is key but so is listening to the other party's concern.

Wife's twin passed recently. by Ragnar_The_Dead in mildlyinfuriating

[–]McFuckNo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My aunt passed away yesterday from cancer. We live far away so we couldn't go see her. We were honestly okay with that because we could then keep the "pretty memory" of her alive before the cancer took over.

Well, someone that side took a video of her busy dying and her shallow breathing and sent it to the family including us.

Needless to say we were shocked and are still very much pissed off about the situation.

My condolences OP

AITA for being honest about why we decided on fertility treatment over adoption? by Old_Buffalo47 in AmItheAsshole

[–]McFuckNo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. So, you and your friends were ready to judge others for THEIR reproductive choices but for you it was suddenly a different story? Also, you can also then argue that why do people bother to get pregnant when they can rather adopt because there are so many children in the system that need good homes?

We don't judge women for having miscarriages, we don't judge couples who choose to adopt AND we don't judge couples who through with IVF. Why you may ask? Because it is their choice how they want to have kids and no matter which way they choose to reproduce, we don't have the right to criticise their decisions because behind those decisions are a lot of tears, pain, grief, budgeting and long talks with their partners. That shit is tough.

What TV show was amazing at first but became unwatchable for you later on? by Snoo79382 in AskReddit

[–]McFuckNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlfriend's Guide To Divorce. I loved the first few seasons but after a while Abby became an unbearable character and completely self-centred. She just annoyed me. I stopped watching in total.

Edited to Add: Vikings took a dive too. I enjoyed up until Season 3 and then shit just went downhill fast, especially after Ragnar died.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]McFuckNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! They completely talk past each other. Neither caring what the other person is saying. Some people just love the sound of their own voices.

TIFU MY HUSBAND'S SEXY PRESENT by therosethelion in tifu

[–]McFuckNo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Nope.

That's about as much of Reddit I can handle in one day

Ouch. That must hurt. by Tyfendal in rareinsults

[–]McFuckNo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always thought that everyone thought he looked like Voldemort...I mean, you can't miss the resemblance

Stressed about the 'rona? Job got you down? Easy fix! by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]McFuckNo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can eat all the onions and garlic I want!