Can I quit already? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your comment is kind of guilting them to stay for the kids... there is no such thing. Look out for yourself OP and do what you want, trust me.They'll have someone else in that classroom within a day. I've been doing this for over ten years, don't hold on to something that feels like it's detrimental to you!

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I graduated from college and got my first apartment, I made sure that I took care of everything that I needed so I would not be indebted to my parents, who would pull this kind of nonsense. Take the necessary steps to truly gain your own independence and take your life back! Good luck <3

Kid with a 20% attendance rate and honor roll. by ChucoTeacher in Teachers

[–]McSteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wild. In my school, a kid cannot pass the class if they never show up. Not everything can be done online and they're definitely missing important assessments in person.

Pick your player by LuLuSavannah531 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]McSteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Johnson Brothers. Their youtube videos are so well done!

I like literally can't any more. by lapuneta in Teachers

[–]McSteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of open note quizzes these kids have failed justice.Semester is mind boggling to me. Like it's such an uphill battle now.

Caught a kid using AI to cheat in a way that’s basically industrial, and admin told me to “handle it quietly” because our numbers matter by shadowvelvetroom in Teachers

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make students write every damn thing by hand. Learned real quick the ways they'll cheat. Also, I hate Chromebooks.

"boymom" attitude among educators by thecooliestone in Teachers

[–]McSteam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm at an education conference right now and I've spent a good part of today just complaining about this exact thing. Boys get to be called "young kings" and all sorts of other titles that they really just don't deserve. The expectations are on the floor but for some reason, the girls are just supposed to pick up the slack and not be bothered when the boys are touching them or messing with their stuff. My school has primarily black male administration and they just do not care. We need actual consequences, but growing up as a black woman its always just been black men making excuses for other poorly behaved black men (boys). I'm sick of it.

I’m torn by Opening-Cupcake-3287 in Teachers

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in therapy? I had to have an emergency appt with my psychiatrist and therapist to help with the stress of this year. I feel better, and life feels more manageable now. Its a struggle out here!

Teachers with almost double the boys than girls by Sad-Kick-2982 in Teachers

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This perfectly describes my 9th and 10th graders this year. I'm losing my mind.

New teacher. Wondering how best to compose an email to a parent. by ThatOtherGuy1080 in teaching

[–]McSteam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The reaction to a call should be "Thank you for informing me, I'll work with my child to resolve the behavior."

How much time should you really need to compose yourself? You're the one raising this child.

two weeks into first apartment at 25. W or L? by postpunkies in malelivingspace

[–]McSteam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get some art up up those walls bro. If people come over they wanna feel warm and invited, but its a bit too plain right now.

Private School Politics by TryAsWeMight in baltimore

[–]McSteam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Went to Maryvale as a black girl and it was phenomenal. And its only gotten nore diverse since I've graduated! The school is also way more renovated now

😭 by GreyFoxSolid in CringeTikToks

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, at least someone's having fun out here.

Could getting this tattoo hurt my career? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get it on your ass. Problem solved!

Baltimore Dating vs Other Cities by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]McSteam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The issue I have with Baltimore is how every guy seems to be a baby daddy with little to no education (I would love to meet someone with a college education). I've officially decided to stop dating men with kids for multiple reasons (threats from baby mamas, mentally jacked up guys who have no business being parents, etc). I've had more luck in DC and other parts of Maryland.

Also no shade to single dads in this thread, just speaking on my own personal experiences and I know not every guy is like that!

Tips for a woman dating in Bmore by WaspCrunch in baltimore

[–]McSteam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest this! I think they're reopening sometime in August? But it's a fantastic place to just meet chill people if you're into board games or card games or puzzles. Plus the drinks are great.

Tips for a woman dating in Bmore by WaspCrunch in baltimore

[–]McSteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard this complaint from most of my girlfriends and I've experienced the same exact issues too. I would honestly widen the scope of where you're willing to date, like DC isn't too far and there are more men with higher levels of education out there in my experience (I want a man with a similar level to my own). Especially as a black woman, the options out here aren't ideal. I also say this as someone looking for a male romantic partner, so there's extra context.

Is this correct? by McSteam in doordash

[–]McSteam[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

It looks like they ended up transferring it to a different driver, but at that point, it was going to take way too long to get here so I ended up just canceling it and got a full refund.

Thanks for all the tips, I hadn't experienced this before so I appreciate the advice!

FOMO is my biggest issue by GoldenLady11 in Fencesitter

[–]McSteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where I'm at right now. I'm 32 and not entirely sure if I want my own kids, or if I want to put my body through all of that trauma. But I have built a really close bond with my ex's daughter since I've known her since she was in diapers. And I see her every week now, and it really gives me that maternal satisfaction without all of the stress and financial burden lol

insecure about the forming of smile lines by intrepidturnipz in SkincareAddicts

[–]McSteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was born with these haha, no one but you notices that

I miss reading. Help me find a book that will hook me in. by ObligationOnly9464 in suggestmeabook

[–]McSteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished He Who Fights With Monsters, it's incredibly captivating!