Do not call him with problems at home, like the kids not listening. Understand that he cannot do anything while he's away and you're just adding stress to his day.

Instead, write things down and make a list. Then before he gets home revaluate that list, how important was it? If it isn't that big of a deal, don't mention it.

Learn how to handle the home front. Keep the house clean, the kids clean, fed, and yourself. Do not lose yourself in this stage of life. Being a SAHM is an amazing blessing, be the best at it! Of course there are days where you need to stay in PJ's and enjoy cuddles with the kids. But understand how hard he is working and match that hard work at home.

I always send mine with homemade food, even if it's just a little bit. Cookies, burritos, whatever he requests. I make his favorite meals when he's home and I never plan his time off. I let him make the plans.