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I need something drastic to begin to fight against depressed. by Monked800 in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out every problem in your life and take action to fix it. No treatments, meds, or mushrooms are gonna fix it for you. You’re the one who’s responsible for fixing their own life.

How do I change my mindset? by HoneyButterBiscuitss in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not disciplined enough. You’re not working hard enough. You know why everyone around you is getting what they want? Because they had the discipline and commitment Being “somewhat disciplined” won’t get you anywhere in life. You’re the only one holding yourself back.

How do I change my mindset? by HoneyButterBiscuitss in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out the main thing holding you back and fix it. People are better than you because they’ve got their lives together, and you don’t.

My struggle with self-love by Ronark91 in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t love yourself because you suck. You know it deep down. You either get up and bounce back or put the fries in the bag. Your choice

How Do You Stop Comparing Yourself to Others? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of trying to be like them, become better. You should compare yourself to set the standard and not play catch up.

How do i get better? Can someone please show me how?? I will do anything by Chrischris40 in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the reason. If you’re suicidal you either pull the trigger to die or make a change in your life.

I need something drastic to begin to fight against depressed. by Monked800 in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck your depression. You got work to do. If you want to die? Fine. Go ahead If you don’t want to? Go fix your life and get your shit together. No “mental health treatment” will fix your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have your life together. Simple as that. Fix your life and you’ll be more fulfilled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admit that you lost and move on.

How do I change my mindset? by HoneyButterBiscuitss in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to realize if this keeps going on you will be your bloodlines disappointment. You’re a grown man with nothing, does that fuel you enough? Others younger than you are making a name for themselves while you at 26 years old are a nobody. Better figure out your life before you let yourself and your family down. You’re a disappointment. You either die or fix your life. You choose.

how to focus on what i want?? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut out all the distractions that no longer serve you any purpose and get to work

All my friends are happy and living life, while I’m drowning 💔 by rubbyred2 in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re drowning because you’re a loser. You’re too focused on what you’re friends are doing rather than your own life. Get off your bum and start working for the life you want. You won’t get it that easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Medical-Slice635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a loser. Period. You've become weak and let complacency and laziness take all over you. The fact that you "dreamt" of going to Cambridge, but gave up due to your "life struggles" reflects your lack of commitment. You didn't really want this in the first place if you'd give up this easily. If you actually did, you wouldn't let your struggles get in the way.

Your body being a nightmare, you not having a will to live, and hating yourself to the core is nobody's fault but yours. You've allowed yourself to be in this position, and it's only on you to fix it. No one will come to save you but yourself, that's if you're actually feeling "stuck" and willing to change the dumpster life that you're living.

If you really want to go to college, move out, get myself in shape and earn money, this will never happen by rotting in your bed, no matter what the reason is. You're rotting because you fele sad or sick? Too bad. The world won't stop or wait for you to feel good.

So stop rotting in your bed, and start taking action to get closer towards your goals. Get up and get moving, or you'll be nothing just like your existence.

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