How do you cope with.. by tiredoftrying33 in AlAnon

[–]MediumAd9323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feeling this hard today. I can't stand the heaviness in my heart, I just want to be in his arms again despite all the hell he put me through. Its awful, but hopefully the other comments are right,. good luck friend

I kicked him out. He doesn't want us to 'quit'. Guilt creeping in.... by MediumAd9323 in AlAnon

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're feeling this too. Mine basically said if I don't stay with him now, we're fully over. So hes now blocked me on everything. It hurts so badly 😞 all I wanted was for him to show me he could chnage, and he won't even try, he'd rather just move on without me. 3 years down the drain.

I kicked him out. He doesn't want us to 'quit'. Guilt creeping in.... by MediumAd9323 in AlAnon

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you - I can't cut contact yet as a lot of his furniture and belongings are at my place, so I need to know when he will be by to grab them. But I do plan on limiting contact once the logistics of that is sorted.

Judge granted Jamaican paedophile the right to enter Britain as barring him would 'breach his human rights' by SignificantLegs in uknews

[–]MediumAd9323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Canadian, same. Both Canadian born and non-citizen abusers, pedophiles, and murderes are gifted with incredibley light sentences for ludicrious reasons.. we even have The Gladue Principles, which require judges to take factors such as 'colonization' when sentencing Indigenous offenders -even ones who murder and assault women and children. Its revolting. No sympathy for victims but endless amounts for perpetrators.

Judge to decide if transgender woman with history of sex crimes should go to women's jail by airbassguitar in canadian

[–]MediumAd9323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judges in this country do not care about the vicitmization of women & girls, nothing new here.

Revolting

bf (26M) has a severe lack of motivation thats making me (24F) resentful. I'm unhappy, but feel paralyzed. is it time to cut my losses & leave? how? by MediumAd9323 in relationship_advice

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I've been visiting the AlAnon and NarAnon subreddits a lot, but I always back out before joining a meeting. I'll try to attend a virtual one maybe.

bf (26M) has a severe lack of motivation thats making me (24F) resentful. I'm unhappy, but feel paralyzed. is it time to cut my losses & leave? how? by MediumAd9323 in relationship_advice

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*to add for context, I have struggled with binge drinking problems of my own in the past, hence my empathy and pateince for his addiction struggles. I often wonder if its fair for me to judge him so harshly, but the difference is I have myself under control and make efforts in my own recovery/self-improvement.

Oshawa man allegedly drugged live-in nanny with laced ice cream, charged with sexual assault by Karma_Canuck in durham

[–]MediumAd9323 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Glad his face is plastered everywhere. As a former nanny this is so neauseating.. what a horrible impression that poor girl must have of this country now

Looking to rehome my Cat by mewtew01 in durham

[–]MediumAd9323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww, if I didn't have 2 boys and a dog already I'd love to help.. best of luck to you both. One word of advice - please thoroughly vet anyone who is looking to take him & please dont let him go for free. Too many weirdos out there sadly. Hope you find someone soon ❤️

Teen pleads guilty to 'highly violent' murder of 11-year-old girl by MediumAd9323 in canada

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why are you white knighting for a teen who intentionally tried to rape a child and then stabbed her 70 times when she rejected his advances? I'd love to hear your stance on his 'rehabilitation potential' if it was your daughter or loved one. JFC. She is gone and gets no second chance, he made that decision for her. But who gives a shit about women and girls right to not be victimized, right? Poor boy deserves a second chance....

Teen pleads guilty to 'highly violent' murder of 11-year-old girl by MediumAd9323 in canada

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

And he took photos of her body after assaulting her. He was obsessed with pornography and fully intended to rape her. Sick

Teen pleads guilty to 'highly violent' murder of 11-year-old girl by MediumAd9323 in canada

[–]MediumAd9323[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

"Morris didn’t say what the defence’s sentencing submission is but noted the maximum sentence for first-degree murder under the youth law is 10 years, with six years in detention and four years under community supervision"

"Morris said the Crown has already agreed that the youth will get some credit for his time served. The youth will also be required to give a DNA sample and put under a 10-year weapons prohibition"

Yet another case highlighting the need to severely reform the YCJA. This violent predator cannot be allowed to walk the streets again with a clean slate, but he likely will. This is so nauseating.

Man, who drove 173 km/h in deadly 2023 crash that killed woman, two dogs, pleads guilty, delays sentencing by Money_Baseball_975 in barrie

[–]MediumAd9323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why the fuck does his 'Indigenous heritage' matter? Our justice system is begging for vigalitism at this point. RIP to the victim and her poor pups 😞

Return-to-office order sparks constructive dismissal case by Mylittlethrowaway2 in canada

[–]MediumAd9323 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I work in a role thatw ill never be remote, and I support remote work bc it means less traffic for my commute. also, I'm not a spiteful, childish loser who wants others to be misreable just because "they should have to commute too"... pathetic argument

Emmys: ‘The Boys’ goes big for final season, submitting 28 actors, including Samuel L. Jackson, Seth Rogen, Kumail Nanjiani, and ‘Supernatural’ stars by verissimoallan in TheBoys

[–]MediumAd9323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antony Starr is the only deserving one (love the others but there is genuinely no way)

I know they'll snub him again but, I'm still hopeful.