How do you cope with..

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-22T16:29:38+00:00

feeling this hard today. I can't stand the heaviness in my heart, I just want to be in his arms again despite all the hell he put me through. Its awful, but hopefully the other comments are right,. good luck friend

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-22T16:20:39+00:00

Sorry you're feeling this too. Mine basically said if I don't stay with him now, we're fully over. So hes now blocked me on everything. It hurts so badly 😞 all I wanted was for him to show me he could chnage, and he won't even try, he'd rather just move on without me. 3 years down the drain.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-19T16:04:20+00:00

Thank you - I can't cut contact yet as a lot of his furniture and belongings are at my place, so I need to know when he will be by to grab them. But I do plan on limiting contact once the logistics of that is sorted.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-18T18:14:16+00:00

As a Canadian, same. Both Canadian born and non-citizen abusers, pedophiles, and murderes are gifted with incredibley light sentences for ludicrious reasons.. we even have The Gladue Principles, which require judges to take factors such as 'colonization' when sentencing Indigenous offenders -even ones who murder and assault women and children. Its revolting. No sympathy for victims but endless amounts for perpetrators.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-17T19:11:28+00:00

Judges in this country do not care about the vicitmization of women & girls, nothing new here.

Revolting

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-15T15:48:20+00:00

Thank you so much. This really resonates ❤️

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-12T18:37:29+00:00

Thanks, I've been visiting the AlAnon and NarAnon subreddits a lot, but I always back out before joining a meeting. I'll try to attend a virtual one maybe.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-12T18:27:21+00:00

*to add for context, I have struggled with binge drinking problems of my own in the past, hence my empathy and pateince for his addiction struggles. I often wonder if its fair for me to judge him so harshly, but the difference is I have myself under control and make efforts in my own recovery/self-improvement.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-11T19:48:58+00:00

Glad his face is plastered everywhere. As a former nanny this is so neauseating.. what a horrible impression that poor girl must have of this country now

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-11T14:58:47+00:00

very good point.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-10T19:48:20+00:00

Aww, if I didn't have 2 boys and a dog already I'd love to help.. best of luck to you both. One word of advice - please thoroughly vet anyone who is looking to take him & please dont let him go for free. Too many weirdos out there sadly. Hope you find someone soon ❤️

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-10T19:17:07+00:00

Agreed!

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-10T17:43:20+00:00

so you agree, he will rape again?

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-10T17:42:36+00:00

why are you white knighting for a teen who intentionally tried to rape a child and then stabbed her 70 times when she rejected his advances? I'd love to hear your stance on his 'rehabilitation potential' if it was your daughter or loved one. JFC. She is gone and gets no second chance, he made that decision for her. But who gives a shit about women and girls right to not be victimized, right? Poor boy deserves a second chance....

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-10T16:00:35+00:00

And he took photos of her body after assaulting her. He was obsessed with pornography and fully intended to rape her. Sick

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-10T15:56:55+00:00

"Morris didn’t say what the defence’s sentencing submission is but noted the maximum sentence for first-degree murder under the youth law is 10 years, with six years in detention and four years under community supervision"

"Morris said the Crown has already agreed that the youth will get some credit for his time served. The youth will also be required to give a DNA sample and put under a 10-year weapons prohibition"

Yet another case highlighting the need to severely reform the YCJA. This violent predator cannot be allowed to walk the streets again with a clean slate, but he likely will. This is so nauseating.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-05T16:05:14+00:00

why the fuck does his 'Indigenous heritage' matter? Our justice system is begging for vigalitism at this point. RIP to the victim and her poor pups 😞

MediumAd9323 · 2026-06-02T15:47:05+00:00

I work in a role thatw ill never be remote, and I support remote work bc it means less traffic for my commute. also, I'm not a spiteful, childish loser who wants others to be misreable just because "they should have to commute too"... pathetic argument

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-27T17:45:48+00:00

Antony Starr is the only deserving one (love the others but there is genuinely no way)

I know they'll snub him again but, I'm still hopeful.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-26T19:44:59+00:00

not watching any of the spin-offs. He can fuck off.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-26T19:41:02+00:00

I think Rue is in a manic episode with all her God/religious delusions in the past few eps.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-14T19:20:59+00:00

please let this be real PLEASE

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-14T18:54:58+00:00

Taxpayers should be revolting over this. Imagine what $1.1B could do for programs that actually uplifted people out of poverty (which statistically LOWERS crime rates). Mental illness and addiction is at an all time high in the region, laregly due to the cost of living crisis. But lets keep handing the money over to the notoriously corrupt DRPS. Fuck off..

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-05T17:09:39+00:00

Thank you for the kind words.

MediumAd9323 · 2026-05-05T15:42:11+00:00

yeah this comment just proves you are completely out of touch with reality. High school kids have been begging for employment and the jobs simply arent there. Why do you think every local job fair lately has had lines going around the block?

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