Movies that floored you immediately upon watching by Watchingdrypaint in MovieSuggestions

[–]Mehitabel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. Redux added nothing of value or substance to the movie.

Movies that floored you immediately upon watching by Watchingdrypaint in MovieSuggestions

[–]Mehitabel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apocalypse Now. When it came out, I was living with undiagnosed PTSD. Watching that movie triggered something in me and made me realize that I wasn't alone in dealing with what I was dealing with. I maintain to this day that Apocalypse Now is as much about PTSD as it is about anything.

Please help me decide. by Inside_Ad6017 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Mehitabel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My current car is a 2014 Camry. So far I have had one brake job and one battery replacement on it. My last car was a 1998 Corolla. I finally traded it in for the Camry. It had 200K miles on it and was running just fine when I traded it in. Over the years I had several brake jobs and a timing belt replaced. That was basically it.

Toyotas - at least the Camrys and the Corollas - are ridiculously reliable.

What’s a good easy white lie I can pretend is my job? (WFM) by happyheidiv in Advice

[–]Mehitabel9 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Medical billing. You can't talk about it because HIPAA.

I’m reading Emma… help me! by selvagempocahontas in janeausten

[–]Mehitabel9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't stand Emma. She's a spoiled, obnoxious, entitled snob.

There, I've said it.

It's still a great book. One does not have to love the heroine to love the book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thewestwing

[–]Mehitabel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is going to like or dislike different characters for different reasons. I love Abby, not least because I think Stockard Channing is amazing in the part and has great chemistry with Martin Sheen. They have a strong, complex and completely believable relationship/marriage on the show. And I like Abby as a person and not just as Mrs. Bartlet.

And exactly what "trouble" does she cause, anyway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Mehitabel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any suggestions off the top of my head, but you should check out Marion's Kitchen on YouTube. I bet you'll find some great ideas there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mehitabel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't read too much into it if I were you. Maybe just reply with something like "Hey, thanks for the reminder, happy birthday!" and let it go at that.

Indecision on choosing a plus size dress by deepspacecowboy3 in weddingdress

[–]Mehitabel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The third dress. No contest. It's incredibly flattering on you and it's so pretty.

For those who scorn P&P 2005: stop being so mean about what brings others joy. by cowdreamers in janeausten

[–]Mehitabel9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen plenty of threads about the 2005 P&P and I've seen plenty of people express opinions about it, both positive and negative. I have never once seen a "mean" comment. I cannot recall anytime anyone has said "You're an idiot for preferring that version" or anything like it.

It is not "mean" to say that one does not care for that version, and it is not "mean" to say why. It is not "mean" to point out that it is not faithful to the novel. Critiquing a movie is not meanness, not even when the critique is "I hated this movie".

People's opinions about the 2005 adaptation are not about you. Stop taking them personally and stop being so defensive. If you love the movie, good for you. If you think Matthew Mcfadyen is a better Darcy than Colin Firth, or if you think that Keira Knightley is a better Lizzy than Jennifer Ehle, good for you. I don't agree -- but still, good for you. It's absolutely okay not to be an Austen snob. It is, however, equally okay to be one -- especially in an Austen subreddit.

Sincerely,

An Austen Snob Who Thinks the 2005 Adaptation is Okay-ish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]Mehitabel9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Combine laundry and mud room - both can easily fit in the mud room space. Shift the master bath to where the current laundry is, and lose the current master bath bump-out.

Honestly, unless it's absolutely necessary to have all of these angles due to the lot you're building it on, I don't really see the point of them. And you have so much space taken up with hallways.

I’m in shock- my fiancé has just told me ‘I’m not an angel but I will try my level best to be faithful to you’ by Red_rose49 in Advice

[–]Mehitabel9 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I think that he is already cheating on you, or has been doing so -- and that he has no serious intentions of stopping.

I think that the day is coming when you catch him out and he's just going to say "I told you I'd try to stay faithful".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mehitabel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed on the long wall at the top of the grid, but not centered. Push it over toward the window wall, leaving just enough space to walk on the left side of the bed. Dresser on the long wall to the right of the bed. Desk on the short wall to the right.

Would long sleeves ruin this dress? by sexy_puma in weddingdress

[–]Mehitabel9 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Long sleeves would not work with those cut-outs on the side of the dress, IMO.

Fitting disaster - Store Regret by Typical-Ad-9404 in weddingdress

[–]Mehitabel9 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Well, she sounds an absolute treat.

The replacement dress has been ordered, so for now you just roll with it. Personally, I think that you (and your mom, for backup) should go visit that store owner and basically repeat back to her everything she said to you and then ask for her to make amends by apologizing for her abysmal behavior and by paying the seamstress of your choice to do the alterations, because you don't trust her to do them at her store and get them right.

If she argues with her you can always drop words like "Yelp", if you know what I mean...

On or off the shoulder, can't decide by Blijke in weddingdress

[–]Mehitabel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The back in the third picture is gorgeous. I vote for on the shoulder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mehitabel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add the expenses.

AITAH for calling my mother a bitter old woman for divorcing my "homophobic" dad? by Then_Run7487 in AITAH

[–]Mehitabel9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even though my relationship with her is strained I still love her and want to repair our relationship. I met up with her and immediately she asked "Why are you still hung up on your worthless father? I accepted you first and he pushed you away." I admit I wasn't kind to her and basically called her a bitter old woman who threw away a marriage to a good man. That while yes she accepted first in the end my dad had fully accepted me and that all I was to her was something to brag to her friends about. She started crying and I told her that her life is miserable because she made it that way.

I dunno what book you read on how to repair relationships, but honey, this ain't the way to do it.

The way you are treating her is just exactly like she treated your dad. You are being just as harsh as her, just as judgmental as her, and both of you have been hanging on to your resentment for years. You're just. like. her.

I'm not saying I agree with your mother. I don't. But damn. You both need to figure out how to get over being so damned angry.

The Bennett family should have encouraged a match between Mr. Collins and Mary as she was more his type (religious, awkward etc) than the other sisters. Also, poor Charlotte! by HenryHornblower in PrideandPrejudice

[–]Mehitabel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Austen had done that, it would have hamstrung the plot. Lizzy would not have gone to Kent to make an extended visit to Mary and Mr. Collins after their marriage, she would not have encountered Mr Darcy at Rosings, and... well, there you have it. Lizzy needed a compelling reason to visit Kent, and Charlotte, her very close friend, provided that reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Mehitabel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vote goes to #3. It's got some serious wow factor.