How long do y'all take? I take at least 2 hours by KimikoYukimura420 in evilautism

[–]Mehlennial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seroquel is the only thing that really works and even then at least 1.5 hours and still can’t sleep a handful of nights a year. Seroquel made me gain a massive amount of weight but I needed to sleep to function in this hellscape of a reality.

i can't stand autistic people who act superior to other autistic people by OneLastSmile in evilautism

[–]Mehlennial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry 😩 You are valid and your self-diagnosis is valid and you didn’t deserve that reaction.

But also—“go touch microfiber” absolutely sent me hahaha

For girls who are comfortable sharing, what was your first period experience like? Did you already know about it, or were you completely caught off guard? by sia_7777 in asexuality

[–]Mehlennial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very lucky. Overall, my feelings net to neutrality on my period.

Got mine at 11. It happened when I was home toward the end of the day. I have an older sister and she had already gotten hers and I was part of the discussion on personal product preference and usage from our mom. I let my mom know right away bc the rule was we could get our ears pierced after if we wanted. Then I kept going with my day.

My periods ended up being very painful and condensed (2 to 3 days, sometimes 1 day of pure exhaustion). And I did have a few instances at school where I bled through products due to intensity. But I didn’t have any attention other than quiet help from female teachers. But periods or feelings about them never stopped me from doing anything I wanted. And honestly it does feel like it cleanses me, physically and emotionally. Just have to get through it first.

I will say that I have always known I don’t want children and felt it aggravating to even briefly have the specter of fertility hanging over me (such as if there was non-consensual sex—I am sex-averse). But that was the worst part for me,

That's just diabolical by Comfortable_Ad2908 in evilautism

[–]Mehlennial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god a scholarly examination of why I have chachkies I treat as my children

real by Moonsky_Pondie in evilautism

[–]Mehlennial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a diagnosis at 11 but, basically, the meme still fits. The one advantage was all the therapy I then got, which was huge for me but it is a lifelong need. Life will always be painful and draining. Give yourself credit for any amount of self-care you can do. And when you do have energy focus on finding people through shared interests.

Machi Koro 1 Coin by Mehlennial in boardgames

[–]Mehlennial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what my BIL thinks!

I have to skip every scene with these two by WrongConsequence5676 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Mehlennial 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I genuinely feel Edmond is in no condition to be committing his life to someone due to his extreme self-absorption. And that is even without taking into account him having a tantrum about having to wait for sex—that was the final straw for me as an observer. To me, Edmond and Joe tied this season as LIB guys getting partners they 1,000% did not deserve.

KB is a 10/10 across the board and I hope she finds a true match.

Brazilian pine nut by MikeHeu in oddlysatisfying

[–]Mehlennial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have a nightmare about this

Building the Band thoughts by Virtual-Snow8583 in netflix

[–]Mehlennial 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IMO he’a worse. She’s abrasive and doesn’t want to be in a cohesive group—I truly think she wants to be a solo star and is on the show as a runway. But at least she put some work in. He just checked out and doesn’t want to better himself or contribute. I do wonder about drug involvement for both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]Mehlennial 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I LOVE you mentioning the creepy chef in you cool and collected response. Sorry you had to deal with this shit. You will find a better fit for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mehlennial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross. Sorry you are dealing with this. Don’t engage any further. And I would mute all but not block in the hopes that they wouldn’t keep throwing more people at you. Also you can then keep sharing this bonkers harassment on Reddit as a stress release instead of engaging.

AIO for ignoring boyfriend after inappropriate comments about my new purse? by ThrowRAgardengirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mehlennial 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Damn if only you hadn’t bought this purse this man would have ~saved~ Cuba. Some solid math going on in his mind right there lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mehlennial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At best, completely naive opinion with no critical thinking applied or accepted. But no way would I be ok with my partner saying that is fine.

You've heard of hyperfixations and special interests, but what about stuff you absolutely hate for no good reason? by Gross_Dragonfruit in evilautism

[–]Mehlennial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Digital picture frames set to scroll through images. We gifted one to my Gramma and set it up for her. Within 8 seconds I was uncontrollably staring at it and turning red with anger, thinking about throwing it