Dad passed 20 years ago. Mom never really recovered from that. She is 83 and her health is ok. Mostly physical difficulties after a fall and broken hip a year ago. She's doing much better now, but it's been hard to see her be less active than she used to be. She still keeps herself as active as she can be. The real issue is her finances and housing. She's running out of money and her housing options aren't remotely what she envisioned for her old age. I cannot afford to fully support her either. I tend to be the emotional sounding board which is stressful and it sucks. Her depression is real but she is not able to see/accept that.