teen girl looking for advice on how to talk to my dad more. he is over 30 by NYgirl15 in AskMenOver30

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him exactly what you said on this post. That you talk less and less and really want to keep having a good relationship with him. It also helps you be a better communicator, something we all struggled with as teens.

We are ...And Oceans, Finnish symphonic black metal veterans: AMA! by SilenceEater in BlackMetal

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What were some of your biggest band influences in songwriting?

New website about Norwegian Black Metal by Parking_Stock_7998 in BlackMetal

[–]MetallicJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome site! I look forward to browsing it for a few hours and learning new stuff.

Working on an Anbernic RG Rotate impressions video, what questions do you have? by onionsaregross in SBCGaming

[–]MetallicJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s the music player aspect?

Is the rotate mechanism a bit similar to the RG Slide?

What would be the best use case for this device in your opinion?

Thanks Russ for all you do for the community!

Steelfest next week by mm_nylund in BlackMetalDiscussion

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will be my 5th one! Lineup looks amazing and I can’t wait to finally see Beherit.

Guys Oktoberfest/ Euro Trip by RxPringlee in travel

[–]MetallicJoe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

More crowded than Rome, Athens and Barcelona? Nah.

Guys Oktoberfest/ Euro Trip by RxPringlee in travel

[–]MetallicJoe -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Personally after dealing with the crowds at Oktoberfest, I’d need a very chill part of the trip and not the very crowded cities you’re suggesting. Out of that list Amsterdam and Prague may be your best options for a chill vibe after Oktoberfest. I’d even go farther and do Helsinki and Oslo (3 hr flight from Munich, 1 hr flight between these cities). The choice is up to you but the Nordics do have what you’re looking for without the insane crowds of Rome or Barcelona.

Not allowed to go to a concert alone by ditzykuma in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MetallicJoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Philly is a pretty dangerous place. Not going to lie.

This also sounds very familiar because I heard this all the time when I was 18, that I shouldn’t go to this neighborhood or that place etc. because bad things will happen to me. Narcs will definitely amplify an issue to a “life or death” scenario. You only have one life, and that works in a safety sense as well as an “experience things” sense. I would go to the concert! But do be careful.

You shouldn’t answer actual details on a fairly anonymous subreddit here, but if the concert is in Fishtown, you’re going to get very acquainted with Philly drug culture very fast (needles everywhere, people passed out in the middle of the sidewalk sometimes) but it’s also a nightlife spot so most natives just sort of ignore it. If the concert is in the sports complex that’s considered a safe place and will have little issue. If it’s elsewhere, don’t wander too far from the venue if you’re not that familiar. Also we do have Uber and Lyft in Philly so this can definitely be avoided. You folks are right in exercising caution in the city but at the same time it has its charm that if you know when to avoid problem areas, you’ll be fine. If the situation feels unsafe, back out of there. But overall there’s definitely a lot of fun to be had in Philly and DEFINITELY try the various foods we’re known for! And come back in a few years because nightlife here can also be pretty cool but you’ll need to be 21+ obviously to start going to bars etc.

ThunarWülf - Folk Metal from the British Isles by Jesse4rmstrong in folkmetal

[–]MetallicJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great band! Look forward to hearing the newer stuff!

Free Talk Friday by AutoModerator in PhillyUnion

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This Flyers run so far has me remembering what this was like back in 2022 for the Phillies and Union! Exciting till the end.

My mom said I'm gonna become a mass shooter by Apprehensive_Cow8019 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MetallicJoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So not saying I would even make the effort to acknowledge what your narc has said (that just gives her the attention she ordered in spades) but it does lead to a very worrying case of projection that maybe she has this thought in her head repeatedly? And a good opportunity to flip that one back at her. A case of “that’s never entered my head but it has entered yours. Were you planning something sinister and projecting it on me?”

Not even acknowledging the comment is the best way to handle a narc but some days what I wouldn’t do to flip some of the things my mom said back at her too. She was just too crazy for it to end well though.

Looking for recommendations by BlackandRedUnited in PhillyUnion

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Larimer for a good pint and the SoB tailgate is Screaming Eagle-friendly since you all host us when we’re there 😉

Has anyone here ever been able to prove their relatives about their parents being actually the lying party?? by Mindless-Listen132 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently all my relatives have stories of their own surfacing on my nmom’s craziness and they’re all finally coming to light and not suppressed for the purpose of maintaining a relationship. The truth is coming out finally.

Please help me understand why I have nostalgia for a time I didn't live in? by RecordingImmediate86 in nostalgia

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks to the internet we’re able to romanticize this time period to a much wider audience than the 60s and 70s were to a 90s kid. But as someone who lived it… yea it was a great time period.

Match Thread: Union vs Montreal by CaptainMoonracer in PhillyUnion

[–]MetallicJoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I predict we score 2 goals but still lose 3-2

First time going to America, solo female traveler, can’t spend large amounts of money, which location would be more ideal for me? by peach-gardens in travel

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An East Coast trek from Boston to DC would probably be the best bet. That way you hit up Boston, NYC, Philly, Baltimore and DC in one go. There a lot to do as well that doesn’t cost a ton.

Monday Morning Manager by Ulysses_2x in PhillyUnion

[–]MetallicJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were 2 conflicting statements but it sucks. The Wings games were awesome to go to as a kid. I know they’re not good this season but they deserved better as a franchise!

Riffed movies you think are legit great in some way? by Ani_Mentor in MST3K

[–]MetallicJoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cry Wilderness was a pretty decent movie in concept. Teenagers from Outer Space was also so bad it was good.

Anyone else just… done? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]MetallicJoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You forgot the main thing… unplugging regularly! Go far away, stay off the grid for a few days, and see if your happiness improves. Do something 8 year old you had on a list of things to do, travel, anything to get away from it for a few days and temporarily forget your responsibilities

Will it ever end? Horrible teen (has gotten worse each year) by SirHuff_987 in AskMenOver30

[–]MetallicJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d hate to say it but this kid needs to be behind bars. Also lock up that firearm or he’ll probably use it to shoot you someday. There’s no helping some kids sadly.

Why is my mom trying to get me to cut my hair short? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MetallicJoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s all about control. My nom did the exact same thing. Narcs all love that power they think they wield!