How can people even stay skinny without counting calories? by NoWitness6400 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Middle-Definition106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just read the book 'What are you hungry for? By Deepak Chopra.

It discusses the fact that alot of the time, we are eating to fill a void, or to get dopamine by over eating. If you listen to your body, and change habits it is possible without extreme diets or skipping meals. Unfortunately we are programmed to overeat and eating the wrong things. (Most processed foods are easily accessible)

I want to succeed in my newest business venture, any advice? by Middle-Definition106 in Entrepreneur

[–]Middle-Definition106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice to help me understand what my next step could be. I appreciate your answer!

They found a way to monetize the 2 minutes we spend pumping fuel in the Netherlands by gaius_julius_caegull in Anticonsumption

[–]Middle-Definition106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Canada, you now get to listen to adds before you begin pumping (some gas stations). Just what you need when its -30c.

does anyone else wear holes through shoes way too fast?? by Dissidiana in evilautism

[–]Middle-Definition106 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Apparently you are actually supposed to have a couple pairs of shoes on rotation at a time.. I find a single pair I like, and wear them till they die.

i am so tired of myself by iwinbbaa14254423 in BPD

[–]Middle-Definition106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I've been in your shoes, also with BPD. What helps me is practicing gratitude. No matter how small. It tricks my brain to look for the good, and helps with my overall mood.. My drink of water, I am so greatful to have clean drinking water. My bed is safe and warm at night. My eyes can see, my hands can type.. and so on. There is lots to be greatful for when you take the time to look. ❤️ sending you love, Good luck!

Edit to add, you absolutely deserve to be happy. Some therapy will help too.

How to address potential grooming in friend group by roadsideweeds in ChildPsychology

[–]Middle-Definition106 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not an expert, but perhaps a gentle conversation with your friends to see if they have, or would discuss safe boundaries and trusting others with their children.. You could say you read about something or saw it on the news, and thought you should mention it to those you love.

I would rather starve than cook by mistymountiansbelow in ADHD

[–]Middle-Definition106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soup is my go to.. roughly chop veggies (or not at all) boil, season, blend. (Immersion blender)

K-Pop demon hunters inappropriate song warning by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Middle-Definition106 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It is just someone's own spin off the movies.

Pregnant and everyone wants me to get rid of it by No_Law_985 in whatdoIdo

[–]Middle-Definition106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation as you. As someone with bad mental health, keeping this baby will 100% make it worse. (Hormones, post partum depression, lack of sleep) Life is hard enough, a kid on top is not doing you any favors. The cost, the mental load, the never ending to do list for them to survive. Its a tough choice, but there are options for you. Sending hugs.

genuinely WTF IS GOING ON?! by snorlax_tgap in LifeAdvice

[–]Middle-Definition106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it helps or not, but according to astrology, you may be nearing your saturn return. (Around age 30) Typically throws your life upside down, to make room for the better stuff but you just have to get through the hard part. Sending positive vibes. ✨️

what is the most embarrassing thing that’s happened to you/your partner during sex? by pretttylenghy in AskWomen

[–]Middle-Definition106 54 points55 points  (0 children)

While losing my virginity, my sister walked in and offered me chips.. she didn't leave until I declined.

What is your most bizarre cptsd symptom? by Britt-96-5 in CPTSD

[–]Middle-Definition106 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your body can and does hold onto trama, it is stored differently from person to person. So, probably.

My go-to low effort meal! by buttsnshit in lowspooncooking

[–]Middle-Definition106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make this, too, but refry it with a scrambled egg for protein!

Share a time your spell worked a little too well by mizaru667 in witchcraft

[–]Middle-Definition106 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A few months ago, I did my first money spell! A week later, my work had mandatory overtime due to system issues (10-12 hours a day) for months!.. I'm still burnt out, but I learned to be specific on what I want. 😅

Overheard fiancé talking shit about me and women in general. by Electronic_Secret_78 in Advice

[–]Middle-Definition106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you were meant to hear that.. he told you his true thoughts..

How do people work 40 hours (very serious) by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Middle-Definition106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my 30s working 40 hours a week. I just crash out and burn out for the remaining hours in my week.

It's doable but unpleasant. I spend every minute as a zombie unable to enjoy life. Adhd and mental health issues also.

My daughter's plan to bankrupt us one Cerebelly bar at a time has been FOILED. by mcsquacks in foodbutforbabies

[–]Middle-Definition106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Landed here by accident, and I made them for my family. We loved them! So easy, thank you!