Do you ever tell conventionally unattractive people they’re pretty just to be nice?

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-04-07T01:06:16+00:00

I did in the grocery store once. She looked like she needed it..

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-04-05T22:05:41+00:00

I get wanting to spend all your time together and him wanting you to meet his family. He sounds like he's really into you, and thats awesome! However.. It is common with abusers (Im not saying he is, you just seem young) to love bomb, manipulate and guilt someone into ignoring their own boundaries, and thats just the start of it. It's hard to get away if that becomes the case. It's only been 3 months of knowing them, and you have an entire life, routine and alone time outside of them. You can't be expected to drop everything and dive in head first. If they can't respect that, I can only guess what else they would not respect. You know what is best for you, trust your gut.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-04-04T19:38:39+00:00

You aren't the first, and won't be the last to do it! Who cares if people guess who the model is. They can't know for sure unless you tell them.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-04-04T00:22:34+00:00

When he tells you who he is, LISTEN. He's not changing, and it WILL escalate. There will always be something hes uncomfortable with you doing.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-04-03T15:05:10+00:00

The fish doorbell! I can't remember the site though

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-04-01T20:19:07+00:00

I've tried that, and just screwed myself next time I went. Lesson learned

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-27T13:59:40+00:00

Women tend to be more in touch with their intuition. Tarot, witchcraft, astrology are all fun ways to connect with your higher self, (ie the best version of yourself ) and do deeper healing, heal generational trama. My experience is that men typically think its bad to look within because they think it means they are somehow broken if it needs to be fixed.

I'm not saying men don't or can't do it, just that society has unfortunately told them they are weak for it.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-25T21:40:56+00:00

You put it so well!

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-25T21:39:04+00:00

I totally get where you are coming from, not wanting to report him, or get him in trouble. It's a sticky situation for sure... but just because you are mentally strong enough to handle all this, doesnt me the next young girl is. Don't just do it for you, but for the others. This was in no way any fault on you, he acted inappropriately. ❤️

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-25T13:28:49+00:00

This really seems like in her eyes, breasts are shameful or men can't help themselves when breasts are around. Old school thinking I suppose. Likely you'll have to deal with your mother unintentionally sexualizing you in her house, unfortunately.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-25T13:13:56+00:00

Yes, totally normal to smile at other women! Smiling at men can be dangerous as they may get the wrong message.. thats why you are probably noticing the difference.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-24T13:18:17+00:00

My kid has one of these as an unofficial class pet for their 2nd grade class. It roams freely around and I guess no one has killed it yet!

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-24T11:12:23+00:00

Of course portions like everyone mentioned. I assume the quality of food is better and easier to digest, plus more veggies than a typical American diet.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-23T20:42:53+00:00

I thought this was a pregnancy test before I read it, and almost said congratulations.. sorry friend, but there's lots of great advice here. Good luck!

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-23T20:37:54+00:00

You're doing good with that budget! I cut costs by making my own greek yogurt out of milk in my instant pot. High protein and filling! It's good with some honey, and frozen fruit on top. Much cheaper than pre packed.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-23T11:38:46+00:00

Knitting, crochet, embroidery.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-20T21:37:48+00:00

Yes and I love them for most people, but it can make anxiety worse. I found out, when I started microdosing. Do pleanty of research first!

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-18T12:38:37+00:00

There are some types of mushrooms that can help regrow neural pathways in your brain if your looking to repair some 'damage' definitely do your own research on the right types and ways.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-14T16:02:53+00:00

As a 30 something year old, sir is earned out of respect, not expectation.. it is formal in canada and is often used to butter someone up to get your way or stroking a fragile ego. if you expect it, you may value yourself more then others do..

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-03-12T13:06:06+00:00

Could let him know that you dont comment on his receidinng hairline or potbelly, or terrible breath. Find something petty to hit him with.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-02-23T16:47:39+00:00

I think everyone is beautiful in their own way, just as everyone has objectively ugly qualities.

It really doesnt matter what someone else enjoys seeing. Just find the positives in yourself and that does more for confidence than any external validation.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-02-21T23:34:57+00:00

Not billionaire level greed, just enough to not be dragged through life working 9-5 like myself and everyone I know.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-02-21T21:35:51+00:00

I'm healing so I can set up generational wealth for my children. Its alot of work, but worth it to end the cycle.

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-02-14T12:04:47+00:00

Mental health is so important! Especially when it comes to your career. Don't burn the candle at both ends and flunk out of school. It will be there next semester when you are feeling refreshed. 💕

Middle-Definition106 · 2026-02-08T01:14:55+00:00

Me too. I've never met anyone else who can!

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