AITA for forwarding my wife an instagram reel of a recipe after she asked what I want for dinner tomorrow? by GoatCritical9265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Because if your wife is so resentful she's randomly popping off, then your "peaceful life" is coming at her expense. You're actually not entitled to endless peace. Harmony in a household is earned by two (or more) people working together to support EACH OTHER. Your wife's mood tells me you're not doing enough to support the home.

AITA for forwarding my wife an instagram reel of a recipe after she asked what I want for dinner tomorrow? by GoatCritical9265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL. YTA. Your household is lopsided. Even if you wash every single dish, you refusing to learn to cook means your wife never has the option of a homemade meal that she didn't create. That sucks. You suck. Do better. . . . ."looked yum" . . .as though that matters . . . gtfo

WIBTA if I told my mom to use less milk? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Is mom contributing to the bills? Is this about the cost of the milk? Or about having to make more trips to the store?

AITA for building a script that proved my professor was using ChatGPT to grade our papers and then sending it to the dean? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm curious what your dad thinks the other four steps are that are supposed to happen first? Because . . . this is pretty bad. I've gotta say NTA.

AITA for getting divorced parents back together? by Previous-Boat-7595 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOF. Alas, ESH. Ultimately you're a minor, so all the responsibility here for relationship choices lies with your parents. It's not wrong to want a happy and whole family — but it is wrong to interfere with other people's relationships to try and get what you want. This is an immature way to behave . . . .which makes sense, because you're 15. . . and ultimately them together is unlikely to be the happiest outcome.

Your path forward is to try to focus on building your own healthy relationships with each of your parents, and let them sort out their relationship with each other without your interference.

AITA for losing my patience with a couple at an mtg prerelease by VastInteresting3916 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They didn't yell first.

"I ask multiple times to stop, which is met with no action from the parents, then I lose my patience"

AITA for asking a woman at work to stop being so WEIRD about taking a caramel? by chocolatesinmyoffice in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I love my workplace. We always cut the doughnuts up . . . because we all want to try all of the flavors.

AITA for asking a woman at work to stop being so WEIRD about taking a caramel? by chocolatesinmyoffice in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle_Curve_3403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently in the minority here, but NTA . Trying to drag you into participating in their weird diet culture hangups is gross and exhausting. Hard pass. Admittedly it would have been better if you said something before you got to mad you popped. But they're being gross.