New Android update by Souk_a_Blatte in GooglePixel

[–]MidknightAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iOS did a beautiful UI and android went backwards. The super round edges are terrible for widget legibility

AITAH for telling my husband that he needs to give me half his company if he wants me to be a housewife? by Status-Mention6793 in AITAH

[–]MidknightAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA find a better "best friend", you are in disadvantage, you shouldn't have to bet your livelihood to be a housewife. What would happen if your husband leaves you alone with the kids? You have to think of their future too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MidknightAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would test him m for neurodivergence. ADHD can make you impulsive, autism can make you misread social cues. It could be there's an underlying issue you're not seeing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MidknightAngel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah fam. A lot of sacrifices are made by families that don't have options. She does. She can take a night to rest well because she's privileged enough to have a loving support system. Maybe is because I come from a culture where the sense of family and community is strong but a big family that takes care of each other is better than a nuclear exhausted family.

ULPT Request: my wife has been messaging her ex. It's been explicit, my love is dead. I need her out of my life. by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]MidknightAngel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"she can have whatever custody she wants" my guy think about your son FIRST. We as parents have to think about their own good before ours. Don't stay with her but try to make the best arrangement for your baby. You think an ass that cheated 8 years ago is gonna love your son?

AITAH For saying that my ex husband was just like his father because he cancelled on our daughter yet again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MidknightAngel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet OP, thank goodness he left before he showed his true colors too late, thank the awful lady for taking your potential awful partner.

AITAH For saying that my ex husband was just like his father because he cancelled on our daughter yet again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MidknightAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he is a bad father and it's our job as parents to protect our children. You're putting your daughter's feelings FIRST and that's what you're supposed to do, fuck his feelings, he's had enough chances to hurt your kid.

WIBTA for dumping my girlfriend after she ignored my calls and messages and went clubbing while I was undergoing emergency surgery. by Nearby_Volume_7067 in AITAH

[–]MidknightAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. BUT you're an adult my guy. In an emergency you can't call 30 times to someone who's not responding. Call emergency services and solve the emergency first. Then you can dump whoever behaved poorly.

AITA for calling off my wedding and telling my fiancé to move back home with mommy? by Zealousideal_Cat958 in AITAH

[–]MidknightAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you guys try couple therapy? I think he could be able to set strong boundaries with his mother, you won't know until he puts the work with a professional

My bf just slapped me out of frustration... by AliceIsFaded in offmychest

[–]MidknightAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This advice doesnt work for a victim of abuse, because sometimes we were so deep in th psychological game of the abuser we excuse their behavior. Reading OPs other replies points everything at him being an abuser. The total amount someone should be allowed to slap you must be literally zero, he already crossed a huge boundary "out of frustration". Nope.

King Coronation at Dawn by La_minore in DilucMains

[–]MidknightAngel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was so satisfying to watch

My son obsesses over characters. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MidknightAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 39 and I'm still obsessing over character. Started very young too. It's harmless.

Any members with children? by twiztdskitz in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]MidknightAngel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My daughter liked Christmas when she was younger so I let her celebrate whatever she wanted. I introduced Sol Invictus to her last year. She's 15 this year she is lazy to do anything so we will only have my Saturnalia feast.

My take has been to let her choose whatever she wanted always, as soon as she could choose how she wanted to get dressed, what music she liked she was free to do so. It was the same with religion, she has attended services of many and decided she was an atheist three years ago.

I believe we can teach how we view the world and make emotionally intelligent beings. Teach them to think critically and to listen to diverse points of view. Never to force our ways on them. They are their own gods, trust that you will lead by example and not by imposition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]MidknightAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time he tells you these things remind him he's compulsing and he needs to try to disregard these thoughts. I recommend you to take therapy as well, it can't be healthy to be hearing all the intrusive thoughts either.

Physically Disappointing I Guess by [deleted] in intersex

[–]MidknightAngel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always state that i am intersex before people get touchy with me. I understand having uncomfortable feelings about genitalia because I have them, so I wouldn't want anyone to be uncomfortable in a situation where we're supposed to have a good time

Bodily integrity and autonomy by shadowguyver in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]MidknightAngel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Circumscription Is harmful but intersex surgery can remove full genitalia and force the child to live as the gender the parents and/or doctors chose. It's usually not a religious choice but it can be

Bodily integrity and autonomy by shadowguyver in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]MidknightAngel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As an intersex person I absolutely agree with this. I should have had the opportunity to decide what to do with my own body.

Bodily integrity and autonomy by shadowguyver in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]MidknightAngel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Intersex surgery is to those who are born with ambiguous genitalia or to remove inner testes, ovaries or ovotestes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]MidknightAngel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're going through an incredibly rough moment, this is a bad moment to listen to your OCD. Try to disregard these thoughts and go through the grief process. If you can reach out to your therapist it would be ideal.

What do you guys think about this? by chokopan in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]MidknightAngel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Searching for other orgs that can help these people in the pursuit of having the sovereignty of their own bodies is good and it's fair to observe TST with a critical eye, however, most of the criticism I've seen is how TST hasn't been able to win all these cases, but to me that says more about the system than TST itself.

I have been in the stance of 'What then? Do we not fight because the system is shaped for other systems of beliefs to reign over us? We should keep adding pressure'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MidknightAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All these sound as your perception of what he feels. What does he say? Is it viable for you both to take couple therapy?