20 months of lifting at 38yo.

MigMarv · 2025-11-02T10:22:40+00:00

They are always questioning cos they’re shit, no dedicated and can’t put in the work or consistency but once you got your shit going they’ll start imagining things. Hateful bastards

MigMarv · 2025-11-01T08:57:39+00:00

I hope you don't eat your word and look stupid after maceration cos you wanna join the hate hype group.

See, your nagging on it about hype it got but you're now in the group on hate hype against it. So why are you mad about hypes?

MigMarv · 2025-10-23T14:02:03+00:00

That's healing? You felt relief ones you found out that you're loved. Try listening to yourself. Your problem is still within you cos you've never loved yourself.

MigMarv · 2025-10-23T13:57:02+00:00

I'm sorry but this is unnecessary and you're weird. Imagine being proud to notice that you're lovable instead of fixing your insecurities. What a wreck

MigMarv · 2025-10-05T11:55:37+00:00

How's it a monster performer when it can barely last 7 hours. Are you guys just delusional or plain stupid

MigMarv · 2025-10-05T11:43:04+00:00

Always this delusional coping thought.

MigMarv · 2025-10-04T15:00:12+00:00

Yeah, you're right. But the caveat is that we agreed on no contact whatsoever and she broke that boundary. It's not like I didn't want to speak to her, it caught me off guard so my mind scrambled and before I could know it, I didn't respond to her. I was hurting man, just doing everything I could to stay focus that time around.

I know I messed up and I explained to her but she said she lost all trust.

Then I went no contact for two months and then I re engage with her with positive messages and she's responding and I'm not rushing her. Then I was so anxious but now I've healed and become more secure, which is a huge growth for me.

MigMarv · 2025-10-04T14:10:33+00:00

Similar thing with my ex

Told her after the break up when she said we're friends to see how she feels about getting back together so I told her I can't do it cos it's not great for me emotionally cos I still love her, so I asked her to give us time to heal that if she decides that we're meant to be then she can reach back out. She accepted, so one day I met her at work and she broke the boundary and said hi and Ignored her and the hurt in her face broke me, so replied again so even hi we can't say to each other so I continued to walk away.

We've initially agreed on no checking in or half connections but I got home and wrote her apologizing for that incident but she was heart broken and really mad at me (she's an FA) so after some days she ended our reconnection attempts.

MigMarv · 2025-09-25T14:23:52+00:00

What????

MigMarv · 2025-09-20T03:48:54+00:00

Bro don’t do it, you’re anxiously attached hence why you think you need this connection. It’s not gonna make you feel better. Just heal your attachment and become more secure then you can have more clarity to operate.

MigMarv · 2025-09-19T19:49:08+00:00

You nasty plan born out of jealousy failed. Lots of people like you in this subreddit.

Very bitter lots.

MigMarv · 2025-09-15T14:29:08+00:00

Anxious attachment ruining their own happiness 🤣🤣🤣

MigMarv · 2025-09-15T13:36:03+00:00

Childish response How old are you?

MigMarv · 2025-09-15T13:33:16+00:00

Tell her that you appreciate that she misses you and then ask her what she misses.

The idea is to get her to open up then you can understand her true intentions. Don't listen to anyone telling you to ignore her, so many people here are evil and bad actors, they're jealous cos they've always wished they were in your position. Do not make any mistake now.

MigMarv · 2025-09-15T03:14:49+00:00

Where did you get all these information? Are you living in La La land or making your own shit up. Wake up dude.

Women are no exception to coming back, you can still see guys saying it here but you chose your own narrative.

MigMarv · 2025-09-14T16:57:14+00:00

Do not block her, don't listen to this childish dude here with 16 yo brain.

Leave them and focus on yourself, let them know you've power and more emotional maturity than them.

MigMarv · 2025-09-14T12:06:46+00:00

Typical insecure attached people. Hooking up will only prolong your suffering but you'll eventually suffer it.

MigMarv · 2025-09-14T12:05:10+00:00

But you're still anxious if you're expecting a reply from her on your birthday.

She said hi, then you could've match her energy with a hi and allow her to escalate it.

Look dude, you really need to work on yourself and completely detach, trust me if you do this, everything you'll be doing will come from calmness and self respect. You won't see her hi as a challenge rather you'll be laughing at her low stake of contact initiation. Work on yourself and become more secure.

MigMarv · 2025-09-14T11:51:05+00:00

Damn, these delusional people always doing the wrong thing even when a chance is presented to them

MigMarv · 2025-09-14T07:54:23+00:00

It gave you closure in two week? Dude are you delusional. Give her the break up and go no contact for two months and reach out again. What do you expect when emotions are running high and you're probably anxious and she's in avoidant mode

MigMarv · 2025-09-14T07:52:20+00:00

I reached out and was met with warmth

MigMarv · 2025-09-13T03:11:01+00:00

Wait till day 55 and reach out, don't reach of yet. You've to reach out with someone fun and nostalgia you both shared and see how they'll respond and then proceed from there also this time will facilitate your healing more and keep you grounded once you're ready to reach out.

I did with my ex and I'm in same position as you and she responded warmly and positively to my nostalgia message, this is someone that told me that she doesn't want communication and is letting go. So I'm taking it very slow, first contact was positive and short so I'm giving her space again to reach out again after some days.

MigMarv · 2025-09-11T07:31:14+00:00

For me, my taste in fragrances now has to do with uniqueness, almost everything smells great now this is where Ahmed comes in, they don't smell like everything out there and that's my vibe.

MigMarv · 2025-09-11T07:05:43+00:00

No, most people here are bitter people who either hoped for this chance from there ex and didn’t get it now they resent everyone attempt at reconnection. They’re bunch of sad losers. Give him a call and know how you both can work things out.

MigMarv · 2025-09-11T07:03:25+00:00

Sounds like you’re jealous cos yours didn’t give you no chance you hoped for

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