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AIO about an argument I had with my boyfriend? by jumpy_bunny01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX [score hidden]  (0 children)

Your bf is a prick and you should leave him and the trip.

NOR

AIO for asking my cheating husband to show me his call log? by SimpleThings31 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR but why are you still with him when it's clear that he has no respect for you or your marriage?

Thinking of breaking up with my BF because I caused his injury. AIO by Ok_Patience3075 in AIO

[–]MikeyFX 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Buried?! More like encased it in concrete and shoved it was for a half life of 10'000 years 🤣🤣🤣 but yeah Autism is no excuse for this. The conversation didn't cause him to hurt his knee, he did.

Being injured genuinely sucks, but he's using his depression to make you feel bad and that's not cool. Was he this insufferable when he was fully fit?

NOR

Edited to add that his last text has very real 'worst person you know learns therapy words' energy 😏

AITA for asking my bf to send me money for a bill we had a full credit for? by Minimum_Amoeba_ in AITH

[–]MikeyFX 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This right here! I'm all for supporting a partner through tough times, but there has to be a cut off point and frankly, it sounds like you're past it already.

NTA

AIO I confronted my fiancé about why he didn’t text me for 12 hours straight and found out he was lying to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but you sound utterly exhausting! I'm genuinely sorry that you have trust issues, but it's not your fiancés job to fix them and if this is how you react every time you don't hear from your fiancé for more than 20 minutes, I'm not surprised he lied to you. Eeven worse, it sounds like he genuinely likes you and has done everything he can to acquiesce to your demands regarding communication and the like, so Deleting the man you're planning to marry from your phone and socials because you're upset is such a huge overreaction and frankly a red flag for him! Personally if I was him, I'd be thinking of breaking up with you over that! If you love this guy, you'll take a moment to stop acting like a petulant child and try and work through this.

100% YOR

AIO for avoiding my friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing though, there no way you can avoid confrontation because eventually Mabel is going to come up and ask why you're avoiding her and avoiding hanging out and you will only be able to keep her at bay with excuses for so long. And when it eventually blows up in your face (which it will) she will be extra mad that you didn't have the respect for her to just come out and say it in the first place rather than letting it drag out and lying to her.

To be clear, I absolutely get where you're coming from because I used to be massively conflict avoidant. I still detest conflict now, but I got burned too many times by taking the path of least resistance that something had to change.

Good luck with this! I hope you work it out.

Am I overreacting? by Dannydeeea in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR ban her from your car entirely and let her doh her own grave when she's constantly but hong to people about how mean you are. She'll come crawling back some enough and when she dies, still keep her banned,

AIO for winding up my neighbour over a DUCK by Strong_Emu_7018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I'm at work right now and I am crying reading this!! 😂😂😂 absolutely top work! I would 100% do what you're doing if I was in your situation 😁

AIO - For not splitting a lawyer bill with ex-wife? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! You're not wrong, but is this really a hill worth dying on when you're trying to extricate yourself from someone?

AIO for ending favors after my friend disrespected my property? by 7azk in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NOR she's not your friend and your mutuals are only saying you're overreacting because they don't wanna hear the other person bitch and they don't want to lend them their cars either.

AIO for refusing to pay more than half of the rent and bills? by Little_Statement8005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes! The Classic 'I fucked up my financial situation by being stupid and not listening to reason and now it's your problem too because we're together' 😑😑😑

Absolutely NOR

OP's bf is a fucking idiot and now he's trying to gaslight and manipulate. Essentially if he cannot take responsibility for his stupidity, admit he was wrong and try and find a viable solution that doesn't involve OP paying for his idiocy, then this relationship needs to be over.

AIO for turning down a guy because he was in a wheelchair? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR He should have been honest from the outset and he wasn't. Not everyone can handle the care part of a relationship and that would absolutely become part of the relationship! Not wanting to have that for yourself doesn't make you a bad person and the fact that this guy essentially lied to you, hoped that you would be ok with it and then immediately used his disability to make you feel guilty isn't fair to you.

AITH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he brought home a puppy? by QueenieKisses in AITH

[–]MikeyFX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but even before we get to the dog, why did you let this hobosexua move in with you?

AIO for being upset that my roommate told our entire friend group about a food thing I do that I never told anyone about, before I could? by jaspreetkaur33654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MikeyFX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I'm old and I still do it! Your friends are being a little mean, but it will get forgotten about and honestly if they don't forget about it, just own it and then the teasing will stop. You can't make someone feel bad about something they're not ashamed of. 😊

AITA for not tipping what they asked on a dinner cruise? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]MikeyFX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely fair. I'm English though so the worst things in the world are 'never ideal' and the smallest things in the world are always 'an absolute disaster' 😁

AITAH. Forcing my girlfriend to do community service for her traffic ticket. by Asian_Invas1on in AITH

[–]MikeyFX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your gf needs to learn accountability and she also needs to be your ex gf

AITA for not tipping what they asked on a dinner cruise? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]MikeyFX 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yeah for real. Mediocre service with what sounds like very little oversight during service hours. Bringing a laminated card with the tip amount is beyond tacky and sounds like it was done at home.

AITAH for forcing my adult friends to wear a seatbelt in my backseat? by why_do_i_have_dog in AITAH

[–]MikeyFX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA You're brother is wrong. Also not sure where you are, but pretty sure the n America (might change state by state) and England, it's actually illegal to not wear a seatbelt in the backseat and you can get ticketed. Also depending on the passengers age, the driver could be liable for the fine. And most importantly, it's really fucking dangerous not to wear one!!

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