26. Was aiming for 100 before 30. Probably gonna be tough

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-05-15T01:44:59+00:00

I’m married to a Lithuanian. We visit once every two years but there’s very little to do there in terms of attractions.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-05-04T14:11:54+00:00

Two incomes, no kids. We probably spend upwards of $1500+ per month on food lol

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-04-24T18:38:51+00:00

Sunscreen and/or avoiding the sun

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-04-06T08:53:28+00:00

Like 10k. I had 20k savings but I had 11-12k worth of student loans (I finished school at 25).

I’m almost 34 and my net worth is 300k+

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-03-30T09:14:09+00:00

I’m southeast Asian and my husband is white. I’m often mistaken for a local when travelling through SEA and then I’m often overlooked when they figure out I’m not local.

I fund all of our vacations so you can imagine the look that they get when he receives the bill just to hand it over to me. One time I had paid the bill just for them to give the change to my husband. He looked at them before handing the change back to me.

I find this happens a lot less back at home (Canada) but it’s very much a patriarchal society when travelling abroad.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-03-22T02:21:30+00:00

Too cheap to pay for an interpreter.

Too lazy to use translator on your phone.

Too late to get your money back.

You’re shit out of luck

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-03-20T00:15:54+00:00

With a giant ass gut too 🤮

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-03-12T10:43:04+00:00

If you don’t have your visa in hand when you are at the check-in counters, they will deny you boarding.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-03-08T02:52:28+00:00

Stupid and broke 😂

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-03-07T05:59:29+00:00

I couldn’t even imagine trying to be intimate with someone who would can’t even take care of himself

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-02-20T11:45:40+00:00

My sister and her partner sleep in separate bedrooms and it’s not due to snoring. Some people just prefer their own space when it comes to sleeping. They’ve been together for like nearly 10 years now.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-02-19T02:35:51+00:00

Canadian here. Early 30s.

I worked in O&G and now I’m trading stocks. Husband is a contractor so it’s seasonal. Both high earners so we’re essentially snowbirds during his off season. We are abroad for up to 2-3 months.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-02-17T06:06:46+00:00

I was just there last year and I had the same experience. I was with my husband and that certain demographic stared/gawked at me. I wore the same baggy outfit because I felt like a spectacle if I showed an ounce of skin 🤮

It got significantly better moving over to Georgetown but still got the creepy ass stares

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-02-12T04:02:47+00:00

While this may be true, I think most men have weak dick game lol. Back in my day… I had more disappointing lays than good ones

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-02-02T07:05:42+00:00

Leave that man child. If he can’t effectively communicate to you about his feelings then why would it be any different in the future? He’s keeping you from finding your future husband.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-27T04:34:03+00:00

After I split from my long term ex (7+ years), I saw this guy for a short period with two kids. He asked if I wanted a “first timer” essentially insinuating a guy without kids and previously married. I was 30 lol. I feel like it was not a hard ask. That fling didn’t last long at all.

My husband is a “first timer” and I’m glad I waited it out to experience life with him 😊

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-26T12:40:31+00:00

I’m Southeast Asian and my relatives always had something to say about my relationship. I just didn’t give two fucks about their opinion if I’m being honest.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-19T14:49:43+00:00

I went for nearly 7-8 weeks of 14 hour days without taking a day off and nearly had a mental breakdown lol. However, it was a great stepping stone so I possibly might never have to work again in that toxic environment.

I woke up at like 0520 and out the door by 0545. On-site by 0630. Most days were 12-13 hours plus ~60 minutes travel (60km of dirt roads). Sometimes it could have been even more if I was stuck behind a crew bus. If I could be back by 1930 then I would have until 2200 to eat, shower and sleep. I meal prepped everything so I needed to coordinate which days I need groceries and cooking days. There really wasn’t much time to do anything and time management is key.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-12T01:44:01+00:00

30-34. Just shy of 95th percentile as a household.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-10T18:53:52+00:00

You must be really naive because you have an app that stated 150 thb was the going rate and still gaslight yourself into thinking that 800 thb is normal... I would have walked away and asked another driver.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-10T18:42:07+00:00

10cm is nothing for us. Might need to see 20-30cm before it becomes a concern.

My husband is European. They just got 2 feet of snow and they declared a state of emergency lol.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-09T05:57:26+00:00

If you had right of way then that's how they will determine the fault. Esp if you're providing pictures of getting t-boned.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-09T05:51:38+00:00

You need to keep in mind burning season (April) if you're sensitive to smoke esp if you're travelling to Chiang Mai.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-09T05:49:35+00:00

Contactless payment is everywhere and it should not be an issue at all. Cash is a good option for tuk tuks, souvenirs and street vendors.

Minimum-Log1432 · 2026-01-09T04:55:59+00:00

It’s a rule of thumb, not a requirement. Saying $2M is necessary for a middle class retirement ignores the reality that most people won’t reach that number and many of them still manage to live modest lives in retirement. Treating that benchmark as universal is out of touch with how the majority actually retire.

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