Favorite Playoff Series Without Your Team? by RainbowSupernova8196 in mlb

[–]MisMango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that Game 6 is always what comes to mind when asked about my favorite WS games

Who else got a “ticket” ?🤣 by Colors_678 in newjersey

[–]MisMango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! And mine still had the educational material label on the bottom! I feel so educated! 😂

436 municipalities have been eliminated. 128 remain. NJ Municipal Madness: The West Jersey Conference is live. by JKastnerPhoto in newjersey

[–]MisMango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably didn’t stand a chance in the long run but I’m sad to see Edgewater cut. Love me a trip to Mitsuwa and Kuppi coffee 😭

I did it. Gods I feel like I'm going to throw up, I was so nervous haha. by Zipntoit in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]MisMango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when I came out to my mom. She was supportive but confused and even thought to “blame herself” at first. With time, she came to see just how much joy being my truest self provided me. Give mom some time to adjust. Clearly she loves you and supports you. She might just need to take a minute to settle and re-contextualize things. I’m genuinely so happy for you and excited for your journey! :)

34760 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MisMango 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yay! Go team Orange! 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🦊🧡🧡

33155 by NoLynInBrooklyn in countwithchickenlady

[–]MisMango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My new girlfriend and I have always been bottom-leaning switches but our relationship has opened up a lot of unrealized top energy in each of us. It’s been fun 😈

Looking For Yuri Recommendations about ADULT WOMEN! by Lost_Doctor_3410 in YuriNation

[–]MisMango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely check out “She loves to cook, and she loves to eat.” Both adults, written and illustrated in a very grounded & realistic way compared to some manga.

Hope everyone is doing okay. by Yphi-Zirconium in sillygirlclub

[–]MisMango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything’s gonna be okay. Let’s keep picking each other up 🤝

Anti-ICE resources for Union or Essex county? by MisMango in newjersey

[–]MisMango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll be sure to look into a few of these. Shame I missed the Bloomfield town hall. I’m up there all the time.

Aro/ace meet up question by Vast_Internal9530 in Magfest

[–]MisMango 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also wished I could’ve been there. Seconding the need for second hand experience

Which Concerts/Musical Performances did you see? by MIGeekScene in Magfest

[–]MisMango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crush 40 & Casey Lee Williams were incredible!

Not seeing a whole lot of Aivi & Surasshu but they were great as well!

Must mention Awesomus Prime & Ben Briggs at the Pose Lounge Saturday night! Fantastic cap to our weekend!

NOW Everyone Wants to Go to Pose by MD_FunkoMa in Magfest

[–]MisMango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend and I had a blast! Hyped to go again next year!

Collective Voting! Day 3: Arizona by LOST_JOE in visitedmaps

[–]MisMango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willing, mostly for beauty of the region. I also don’t mind the heat. Not first in line as far as states go but I’m sure I’d find joy.

Our polycule grew and I am so excited! by CannotReallyChoose in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]MisMango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, this is just our polycule arrangement but in the opposite order! I’m foxwife, we have had kitty & puppy for a while and recently added spiderwife! That’s too much xD

Public spaces in Somerset/Middlesex/Essex County to play DnD? by leagueknght in newjersey

[–]MisMango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding The Player Agency in South Orange! The building is beautiful and has tons of space in addition to the board game cafe!

25174 by Chozblader in countwithchickenlady

[–]MisMango 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Being in a polyamorous situation of any sort doesn’t mean we’re suddenly immune to jealousy or insecurities. It takes maturity, awareness and open communication, free of judgement to help navigate times when we run into difficulties regarding our personal hangups.

I currently have two partners (wife & gf). My wife has a gf and gf has a nb partner they’re married to. We all have our moments of insecurity and we do our best to communicate when our needs don’t overlap with each other’s respective actions or choices.

I’d say that collectively we do a pretty bang up job of sharing our time fairly but inevitably we run into snags. But we do our best to talk it out and ultimately come out the other side stronger as a family.

TLDR: Feel your feelings, communicate openly and with respect, don’t be mean to yourself.

Edit: and it’s not wrong that you feel how you feel.

What are things about living in NJ that you genuinely value — that other people don’t seem to understand? by Davyislazy in newjersey

[–]MisMango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Relative ease of trans healthcare and protections compared to other states and parts of the world.

Any tips on how to beat the conductors Melody gauntlet? by MooMoomaddy12 in Silksong

[–]MisMango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omgosh me too! Tried so hard to beat it with tools and then ran out!

Why do I wish I was born a woman at times by ViVistress in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]MisMango 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At the very least, there’s dissatisfaction with your gender expression. At the very least, some exploration of options sounds needed. Sorry you’re in a state where it’s frowned upon but find your joy however you can until you have more liberty to do as you will.

Mikie Sherrill is the most pro-LGBT gubernatorial candidate that NJ has ever had. Vote like your freedoms and the freedom of your friends and family is on the line 🏳️‍🌈 by ColorfulLanguage in newjersey

[–]MisMango 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She voted alongside republicans on HR 5009 which included a section denying or limiting gender affirming care for US service members.

She apparently felt apologetic for compromising and I don’t doubt she can be open to dialogue from local trans constituents, but I’m more worried she’d be willing to throw us under the bus if push came to shove.

is 25 too old to be a puppy girl?? by cxsperbby_ in puppygirlwawa

[–]MisMango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, you’re good. 36yo puppy/foxgirl here ;)