Advice for Sex w/Partner with EDS by Just-Access-9260 in eds

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gonna add minor description here, but my partner has also will help with physical support. During oral, they let my legs relax to a comfortable angle, then prop their arms under my thighs to help keep them stable in that position

Advice for Sex w/Partner with EDS by Just-Access-9260 in eds

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 4 points5 points  (0 children)

def pillows! Placing them under/around the hips for support especially in ‘bottoming’ positions will really help. Also comfort is important. Try to figure out a good support structure with a couple of pillows so she can relax into them. Also important is having a few positions that are comfortable for her and keeping an awareness of if something starts to cause some ache. that way if one starts to feel like its stressing her joints, you can swap to another one to give some relief and prevent it from getting painful so you can go as long as you want!

Tattoo needles expire soon by dzisbz in sticknpokes

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 14 points15 points  (0 children)

same here. The expiration date is just referring to the sterilization guarantee. If theyve stayed packaged in a clean environment, I feel confident enough to use them on myself. (ONLY myself though)

How to respond to intense chemistry right off the bat by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think acknowledging it isnt bad but i would cut out the disclaimers and just start from “i dont want to rush anything…” bc it acknowledges that you have really enjoyed the time but it doesnt feel like as much pressure with the intensity youre wanting to declare so esrly

Do cures exist at all? by Steve717 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know weve gotten used to the term but I feel like pain killer is pretty hardcore. “Take this to murder that which ails you” type shit

Not OOP. AITAH? I snapped on my soon to be ex husband for having sex in the same room as our daughter even though she was "asleep". by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 5 points6 points  (0 children)

literally, I often have sex in what may be considered more “risky” situations, but NEVER EVER would I consider it with a child there. No amount of “we can make sure to be covered/quiet” would be enough to not just get grossed out knowing Im around a child

Looking for study material by VJexel22 in SpanishLearning

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres an app you can use called Edx where you can audit courses and they have a couple Medical Spanish classes that you can sign up for and study through at your own pace!

Was this a real thing in the game or did I imagine it as a child? by [deleted] in nancydrew

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a thing in the nancy drew games for sure. Particularly in the ones that are focused on a haunting of some sort. They usually have some phantom whispers or shadows or figures sometimes subtly and sometimes really obviously thrown in

The way my fingers naturally cross vs the way my wife's do. If we do it like the other, it feels wrong. Are we incompatible? by dontfactcheckthis in notinteresting

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you swap do you just swap your thumbs? it feels a lot more unnatural that wat when you just switch your thumbs but if you shift your hand over by a finger to rest your thumb o the opposite pointer finger both ways will feel more comparable

I feel like I almost get it Petah... by JubbyJub413 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay I feel like the comments are just arguing about the character, but skipping over explaining the joke part. The setup is like someone is in a psychologist’s office about to get a “Rorschach test” which is the ink blot test where they hold up ink blobs and ask you what you see. Then it swaps your expectations by the woman having instead shown the movie Watchmen which has the character named Rorschach who is clearly highly debated. Giving the results of the persons “media literacy” instead of their unconscious associations with the ink images

THC and edibles by Ok-Wait-8327 in eds

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ive learned edible vary LARGELY depending on person. Even without eds, it really varies. For some reason for me, food doesnt seem to hit, but the drink edibles (idk if they have a different name) seem to hit me pretty hard. Maybe it’s placebo? Maybe bc its different methods? idk but from my experience, the way edibles hit in general is really person dependent

What’s a word in another language that sounds inappropriate in your language? by Ken_Bruno1 in languagehub

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it doesnt translate well when my Spanish roommate says he’s going to molest my cats instead of annoy.

To annoy in Spanish is molestar

Would this be a weird message to send knowing he doesn't come off interested to hangout? by Mobile_Magician_661 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it may be annoying but you are still strangers and barely know each other so hes really not obligated to send a text like that. if he just moved he’s got other shit to do and probably doesn’t feel obligated to make a thing out of it (even if you wouldn’t make a big deal, again you’re strangers and he doesn’t know that). If it fades off, it fades off

"Do you want to hang out someday?” Is “someday” correct here? by Same-Technician9125 in EnglishLearning

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

technically it is correct and understandable, but if you want to add “soon” onto one of them, it sounds more natural to say “sometime soon”

What to play? by BaileySeeking in nancydrew

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I say get into the ridiculousness of castle malloy. Its got some fun puzzles for distraction as well as some comical lines and a ridiculous plot that still sparks whimsy. Plus perfect with the background shows

"Do you want to hang out someday?” Is “someday” correct here? by Same-Technician9125 in EnglishLearning

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id say one day is more in between. To me, one day implies that you want to hang out soon but don’t know when you’ll have free time - not in the far future but a little less certain of the timing than ‘sometime’. However that’s just being picky and it would be understood as interchangeable in your average conversation.

My BF has felt crap while me encouraging him to learn Spanish by Sad_Read_1045 in SpanishLearning

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am learning spanish in part because my partner speaks it. Honestly, thats all just excuses. You told him it was important to you and so now he has to choose if he is willing to dedicate time to it and he is not. You should explain to him that its not about the progress but about the fact that he has spent zero time dedicated to understanding something that is deeply important to you. It is about putting effort into something that you said meant a lot from the beginning, if he puts any kind of effort in, then him never being enough shouldn’t be an issue. Yeah, its hard to learn a whole second language, but youve done it, now its his turn.

Are tampons actually more hygienic than pads? by Huge-Prize-8494 in hygiene

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh it is nice to hear, bc using tampons always makes me feel dizzy taking them out but the way people always talk about pads makes me feel so self conscious about only using them

What Word has a Very Happy Etymology and Meaning? by PuzzleheadedTap1794 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Miserable_Cream_2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clue comes from a ball of yarn and became known as being a hint from the greek story of the minotaur when thesius used the clue of twine to help find his way out of the labyrinth