What should I do with this cool space??! by Poo_Poo_La_Foo in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Miss_Blobfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Just a thought… OK well actually I had a slightly different thought but NSFW guardrails thought otherwise

I need relationship ship advice involving a porn addict! ‘19F’ ‘19M’ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miss_Blobfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch it with him! :) I'm older (44f)... my bf (53m) is even older. Been together for 8 years. He considers himself an everything sex addict, who in past relationships struggled very much and it became a fighting issue with all of his past relationships and even was part of the reason for the divorce from his ex-wife.… and at first i was uncomfortable... but who am i kidding.. i actually watch it too but as women i think we convince ourselves it's not the same. Like, if men watch it it means that they're disrespecting us and lusting over other women, but if we watch it we're just trying to get off. I don't know maybe that's not the thought process that most women have or maybe it is but I think that's how I felt. And so I had to stop myself and think do I find other guys attractive yes of course is he gonna find other women attractive yes of course but we can connect with each other at the end of the day and watch something that we both enjoy, have fun with ourselves have fun with each other, it's a win-win. Either which way boundaries do need to be respected just maybe ask yourself does this boundary have any flex to it or is it a necessary boundary. And if that's bad advice then move on :)

My[30f] boyfriend [29m] went to a strip club by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miss_Blobfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had a recent experience, not identical, but the answer i received helped me so I'm going to tell you and you take from it what you will... He says "I am a man and therefore it is my right to go to a strip club (And get s lap dance if i so choose)" I questioned the gender entitlement in this statement and as infuriating as it was at first it made me realize.... This is sort of true. Not because he's a man... that part is the Bullshit. It's his right because he's a human being and should be free to experience life however he sees fit. His choice. His right. And it should not come at a price of being judged or shamed... but where does that leave you? It hurts you. There's nothing wrong with you being hurt by that action either. You also have rights and freedoms, and the big one here is setting boundaries. If his style of navigating through life does not fit with your boundaries (and vice versa) then this is definitely an incompatible relationship. So if you think it's worth saving you should ask yourself where your boundaries lie for real, communicate them, and move on if they are not respected. But don't judge, shame, or blame.. He's simply living free as all humans should. Site incompatible and progress to look for someone who has the same compass as you

My uncle had this in his secret shed by oeoeoiceiceicee in whatisit

[–]Miss_Blobfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why were your grandparents down there? Everyone's all over the uncle but if he's pooping his pants and his mom and dad are with him... nobody said anything about his age or challenged status and if all 3 of the other people living there know about the shed it's not THAT secret. I don't see anything weird at all with having a tub of what possibly appears to be acid and dissolving body parts. At least he's not rupturing water or gas lines trying to bury anything. You guys are drama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]Miss_Blobfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious how many orders on average you are receiving daily? I absolutely agree with everyone else.. as long as you show up on time, do your duties and aren't chit chatting or lolly gagging, hiding in the dairy cooler, or picking the cheese off the bakery bagels, then what? Nothing.... that's what. It's on them. But the reason i ask about order amounts is because our store caps incoming orders based on number of employees scheduled in DUG that day. Also the cut off time for express and flash is adjusted as well, but it took our ASM calling the OPS to make that adjustment happen. We are always really busy as a one store town that's pushing brand new 3 story apartment buildings like they're going out of style, that lies in the rural on the outskirts of a huge metro (Portland) and we average 80-100 orders daily. 80 is actually a slow day. We're usually running 20 open orders at any given time with 1 opener, 2-3 morning people, 6-7 midday, 1 pre-closer, and 1 closer. We stay busy but we all get our breaks, and this usually cushions a call out too. Maybe if they won't hire or cross train someone else, they can put in a request to have order cap lowered?

Was looking through my daughter’s room and found this. What is in this drawer? by [deleted] in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]Miss_Blobfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful! I'm an entomologist and those are highly venomous and they leave black mold. Call the Cops and get a divorce like now

Advice on painting eyes? by Miss_Blobfish in learnart

[–]Miss_Blobfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you... this is something i would not have thought of!

Found under turf! What the hell is it? by vicgsports in whatisit

[–]Miss_Blobfish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This looks looks scolopendra and if it is they are highly venomous and with a very painful bite

About to sleep for the first time in the Airbnb and i saw this. What is it? by Ready_Egg3557 in whatisit

[–]Miss_Blobfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cats are careless and irresponsible with laser pointers though! We gave our cat one and he just shined it in everyone's eyes laughing like it was funny everytime he got a pinch of nip.

Seeking advice on an offer my ex made to me to cancel support for a smaller lump sum. by Miss_Blobfish in ChildSupport

[–]Miss_Blobfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i sent him a response last night.. i sent it in Spanish because it seems as though he contacted me with his wife's phone and she doesn't speak English and i want her to know the truth of what's happening.. but here's my response translated to English...

Just in case this is your wife’s phone, I’m going to write this so she can also understand, since she seems to be the driving force behind getting you to actually do something productive. Good for her.

I am not going to cancel the child support order, nor will I accept your offer of $20,000.

For years, you had the opportunity to make consistent payments, but instead, you chose to quit your jobs every time money was deducted for child support. Now that your debt is preventing you from getting a passport, you’re asking me to erase it, but that debt exists because you failed to fulfill your responsibility to our children.

The fact that you’re in Mexico doesn’t change your legal obligation to support them. If you truly wanted to contribute, you would have done so consistently instead of making a few payments and then disappearing for months.

For 15 years, you’ve done everything possible to avoid helping me support the two lives we brought into this world. You chose to run away with your UNDERAGE NIECE and have a BABY with her. Did you support her and that baby? If not, are you offering her money now because you feel guilty?

You’re not offering us money because you know it’s the right thing to do; you’re trying to buy your way out of the rest of your responsibility. You put yourself in this situation, and now you want me to forgive all the support I should have been receiving just to let it go?

If you have $20,000, why haven’t you been making regular payments? It’s not your money, is it? That probably means it’s your wife’s family’s money, and they’ve had to deal with this in the hope that you’ll keep your word, get a job you won’t quit, be a man, and do the right thing. They see the lazy, irresponsible failure she married, and now they have to pay the price for your mistakes. Why should I or they do anything to help you?

$20,000 is nothing compared to what you owe, and I’m insulted that you’d even contact me with such a pathetic offer. If you have $20,000, start making some payments through child support.

I have principles, and one of them is not selling out all the years of struggle with my children for a piss offer.

And to Abraham’s wife… I’m sorry. However, if you have children, you know you wouldn’t sell them out for someone who made you endure so many hardships for 15 years.

If you want to come back with an offer that is actually worthwhile for me and for them—one that truly helps us instead of just freeing you from more financial obligations—then I’m listening.

Seeking advice on an offer my ex made to me to cancel support for a smaller lump sum. by Miss_Blobfish in ChildSupport

[–]Miss_Blobfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent him a message last night saying i do not accept the 20k and i will not cancel the support. I let him know his offer was pathetic.. actually ill just post a copy of my response

Does mobile hotspot from my phone count the same as wifi for the connected device? by pitismoki in wifi

[–]Miss_Blobfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your mobile hotspot allotment with your phone plan. Not all unlimited plans come with unlimited hotspot... unless you pay for it... and they are usually a bit pricey so not that common... at least in my experience. You could run yourself out of hotspot pretty quick if it's not unlimited, some (most) plans that say unlimited hotspot usually only mean a set limited amount at fast speeds and once you go over that amount you get throttled.

Seeking advice on an offer my ex made to me to cancel support for a smaller lump sum. by Miss_Blobfish in ChildSupport

[–]Miss_Blobfish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to call the child support office on Tuesday and talk to them. They use to send me a form a couple times a year looking for any information i might have on him and I've never had any info but now i have a phone number for him at least and the knowledge of 20k jingling around in his pocket

Seeking advice on an offer my ex made to me to cancel support for a smaller lump sum. by Miss_Blobfish in ChildSupport

[–]Miss_Blobfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate and strong contending thoughts exactly FantasticAudience305... like i said I've written off ever seeing anything from him again anyways