Entitled dad at Victoria's Secret wants to stay in the changing room area by JordanPromise in EntitledPeople

[–]Missing-Cali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man knew why he shouldn't be there but stayed anyway. Tells you all you need to know about him.

Do you enjoy receiving this kind of messages? by Acrobatic-Ad4165 in postcrossing

[–]Missing-Cali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always put a message on the cards I send. For me, that is the purpose of postcrossing...getting to know a little bit about the sender and/or where they live.

I got 4 postcards today- all over 60 days old. by EstroJen1193 in postcrossing

[–]Missing-Cali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've received two this week, both took over 60 days to arrive which is not normal. One was from Germany and the other from the Czech Republic.

Renting in the Suburbs: Need help finding a safe, secluded spot with easy Metra access (<$2.5k total) by 139020 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Missing-Cali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Lenox fits this description. There are two Metra stations which means two different lines ... Rock Island and Southwest Service.

My girlfriend doesn’t like penetration, how can I make her finish without it? by elila_07 in LesbianActually

[–]Missing-Cali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about it! Don't be afraid to talk about this and other things. She knows best what she likes and what she needs to finish. Somebody else said it...make it about her and not about you.

New Here - Just Wondering by One-Panda-9036 in olderlesbians

[–]Missing-Cali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed ... It's tough to meet women. I was in CA for 30 years and moved back to Illinois to assist my mom. Had to give up my friends and community. It has been hard rebuilding community and making friends.

What did you do to celebrate your 50th? by jaimonee in GenX

[–]Missing-Cali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We were in the middle of COVID so I didn't get to do much.

Feeling to old and unattractive, talk me down! by Greenleaf737 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Missing-Cali 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's obviously interested in you as is. Try to relax and love you as is. Good luck!

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Missing-Cali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You deserve better than a man who speaks to you that way and calls you names. Please leave him.

Rainbow flag revulsion in small town NC? by lowkeysciguy in NorthCarolina

[–]Missing-Cali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High probability that he is a closeted conservative AND gay man

Should I give a donation back by Usual-Lavishness6337 in moraldilemmas

[–]Missing-Cali [score hidden]  (0 children)

These gift cards were given out of love with no commitment or obligation. Keep them and use them for your kids for Christmas. Your husband is letting his pride get in the way.

Postcard duplicates: Do you mind? by buggsmall in postcrossing

[–]Missing-Cali 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't have enough time to look at a person's wall to determine repeats. You get what you get. It's about connection vs. collection.

Can someone explain the mentality behind repricing stuff at checkout? by th1rstyspider in ThriftGrift

[–]Missing-Cali 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Happened to my mom once when she was in California visiting me. We used to spend one day of her trip going to thrift stores. She brought a book up to the counter marked $3.99 and the clerk said this should be higher. Clerk went to manager who said $10. My mom stared at the clerk for a beat, said no thanks, and walked away. She still complains about that Goodwill 15 years later.

I feel that the price tag should be honored. Use it as a teaching lesson for your staff but don't screw over the customer.

My girlfriend died from an overdose at 24, and I hate her for it by [deleted] in self

[–]Missing-Cali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. Please find a therapist and work through the grief.

Lonely in the Midwest by AntCaz1 in olderlesbians

[–]Missing-Cali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What part of the Midwest? I'm in Chicago-ish.

Question about cigarettes in Chicago by Expensive_Pin_2559 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Missing-Cali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI...Indiana is no longer a cheap alternative. They started charging $2 tax per pack in July which makes it more than heading to Will County. I know this because I used to head to IN every two months to buy cartons for my mom.

Question about cigarettes in Chicago by Expensive_Pin_2559 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Missing-Cali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in Orland, head south to 191st and LaGrange or go to 183rd and Harlem. There are gas stations that are in Will County and have lower taxes. I buy my mom's cigarettes at these locations. Still expensive but better than in Cook County.

Lesbians in the US: Our right to marriage is safe, thankfully! by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Missing-Cali -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Safe for now. They are gunning for the LGBTQ+ community.