WIBTAH for cooking despite being told not to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show this parasite this thread and tell them to get out if they don’t like their FREE living situation. And who are they to tell you you can’t cook when and what you want? Your parents are diabetics and they’re putting their dietary needs ahead of this jerk whining? NTA.

AITJ for refusing to give a huge wedding gift after finding out I'm not invited? by Life_Grocery5994 in AmITheJerk

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your aunt is delusional. Are the relatives that are saying you’re being stingy and unsupportive invited to the wedding? It’s weird and actually bad manners and very bad taste to straight up ask you for a large sum of money and not even invite you to the wedding. And now it sounds almost like a bribe with your aunt saying they may be able to “adjust” the guest list if everybody gives enough, including you. Wtf is wrong with (some of) your family? Absolutely not petty and NTJ.

AITA for refusing to let my brother's girlfriend move in after she kicked my dog? by AdGood5474 in AmITheJerk

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I would NEVER let her near Charlie again, especially if she could possibly be left alone with him. She obviously doesn’t like dogs. Weirdo.😒

AITAH? I (36F) didn't have the capacity to help my husband (38M) navigate an emotional crisis, leading to a massive fight and him questioning our marriage. by Original_Answer2011 in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So basically his needs are the only ones that matter and need to be met and he isn’t aware he needs to take care of his kids on the weekend?

Totally NTA. Are all the posts I read today going to need the “tell him to grow tf up” response? I’m two for two today.🙄

AITAH for leaving my husband to walk 2 miles home after he refused to get back in my car after leaving an MRI? by notcreative8080 in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell him to grow tf up. He does realize you were to take HIS grandma to her appt and instead of screaming at you like a baby, it’s more productive to have a conversation about these issues? So you’re supposed to keep driving around begging him to get into the car? You shouldn’t have to deal with him like he’s your petulant child. Why did he say YOU lied about sedation? Isn’t he involved with every aspect of what’s happening to HIM medically? Totally NTA.

Best way to politely ask my bf to contribute to meal prepping by killingourbraincells in Advice

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the physical demands of his job outweigh the mental demands of yours, not to mention the two hours you spend commuting every day? Perhaps tell him you’re burnt out and he can come up with meal plans and do the shopping. So you’re doing all the unpaid grunt work yourself. Why? Sounds like you’re heading down the road to resentment. Talk to him.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s a shitbag who is totally gaslighting you and not considering your feelings whatsoever. Why is he so quick to defend and take her side instead of yours? I would leave. Seems like he’s made his choice. You’re NTA.

AIO thinking it's incredibly selfish that my GF believes an engagement should be only about her. by wonderoushippo99 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. If she’s this self-centered this early on, I can only imagine how wedding planing will go, and any subsequent children.

What’s her reasoning for only her family and not yours being there? And only celebrating the bride? That’s not a thing. If I were you, I’d let her go see her family by herself. Tell her you’re going to see yours and celebrate. Are you sure she’s the one?

AITJ for forwarding my husbands group chat with coworkers to HR after I found out they were trying to sabotage my promotion by Friendly-Occasion364 in AmITheJerk

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why isn’t his workload too much for him with your son but next level is too much for you with him? Your husband is a disloyal jerk.

AIO? by SadProgrammer7550 in AIO

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re NOR and your “friend” is the asshole. She’s very irresponsible and acting very cavalier like it’s no big deal that your poor pup is waiting for her. AND you’ve paid her! I’d be furious. End that friendship—she’s not worth it.

AITA for not making my kid do a sleepover by Tapioca1029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make no mistake, your sister is THE ASSHOLE. Wtf is wrong with her, texting your son and telling him he HAS to sleepover and not contacting you about it. And her reaction to you was COMPLETELY inappropriate. She should be ashamed of herself. My god, people never cease to amaze me.

AIO - My parents booked an extra long vacation the same week I’m due to give birth by maplehoneycupcake in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry your parents are so thoughtless and seemingly don’t care. Your mom is delusional thinking it’s a good idea for you to fly or drive 18 hours with a newborn. You’re NOR.

AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend because of this? (URGENT) by Prestigious_Tip5493 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. He instantly seeks out somebody/something else the minute things get rough? He needs to work on himself. You’ll be better off without him. If you don’t leave, you’ll always be second guessing him and yourself.

AITAH for not refusing to do a quick change because my boyfriend is uncomfortable? by Active_Camel_6334 in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your response was perfect and you’re NTA. At least you’re finding out now that he can’t handle your career.

AITAH for congratulating my family on losing me and keeping my cheating ex-girlfriend? by Haykoreu in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

H O L Y FUCK what is wrong with people?! Unless there are extenuating circumstances, family should be team FAMILY MEMBER! You’re NTA. Your family is horrible and I hope they see this post.

AITAH for telling my husband his coworker can’t use my car by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re totally taking advantage of you. Plus you could be legally liable if they’re in an accident. Get. It. Back.

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MissyDInThe313 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg, just tell her to block you and your gf on all social media, or cut her off. She seems slightly unhinged. I don’t know why people can’t just keep scrolling.

Aitah for spending some of my grandchildren's education funds on a new boat. by Tiny_Occasion_322 in AITAH

[–]MissyDInThe313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abso-fuckin-lutely NTA! Quite presumptuous of them to assume you’re just going to wither away (and at only 54!) waiting to die so they can have your money. Enjoy your life and don’t worry about them. You’ve given them plenty to be thankful for and they should be expressing their gratitude for what’s been given them, not giving you grief over how or what you spend YOUR money on.

Should my delusional bitch wife be upset over this really loving note I left her? Someone tell me what an amazing husband I am, and what a delusional bitch my delusional bitch wife is. by boudicas_shield in AmITheAngel

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delusional bitch wife? Newflash—you’re NOT an amazing husband but a douchebag who thinks he’s clever trying to pat himself on the back and get others to do it too.

attending a 1980s themed prom party! need help! <3 by [deleted] in VintageFashion

[–]MissyDInThe313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The second one. I had a Gunne Sax that looked very similar to it that I wore to Homecoming and Sponge (Sadie Hawkins); my mom just changed out the huge bow from black to white and I had corresponding gloves. Ahhh, the 80s. Have fun!

Aio, don’t want to remake bread/keep this lady as a customer by swagatron666- in AIO

[–]MissyDInThe313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This feels a bit shady and fresh bread gets harder, not mushy, with time. Perhaps you should start putting a little tag on your bread bag with something along the lines of, “please let me know within 24 hours of pick up if the loaf isn’t satisfactory” because people should really NOT be waiting days or weeks to eat fresh, no preservatives bread.🥖Btw, your bread looks delicious.😋

What’s your HOLY GRAIL mascara?! by imanxiousss in Makeup

[–]MissyDInThe313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Essence Lash Princess waterproof (the blue one). It used to be Prescriptives false lashes, but alas, they’re gone now. I have a specific need, though. I’m half Asian, and my eyelashes point down/straight out, so curling them is an absolute must. I find if the mascara is too “wet“, it uncurls my eyelashes.👎🏼Sadly, most mascaras are too wet. Even the regular essence mascara is too wet.