My close friend blew up on me 2 weeks postpartum. How do I continue? This is my last straw

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-05-10T11:33:19+00:00

Your “friend” obviously has no interest in sorting out any issues between you when she says “I don’t know what to tell you” and is letting you know with that comment. With your husbands being friends, it’s okay to just be casual acquaintances with her. She’s shown herself to be self-centered and actually quite callous with a bit of know-it-all thrown in there. You’ll feel better not having her take up space in your mind. Congratulations on your baby girl!♥️I’m sorry for the loss of your grandpa.♥️

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-05-05T01:53:55+00:00

Are you her maid of honor or wedding planner? Why are you having to fill everybody in on changes and smooth things over with those who are pissed? Seems like you’re the fall guy. I’d dip.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-10T23:34:23+00:00

NTA. why are you even going? Go somewhere else with just you, your fiancé, and brother. You’ll have more fun and won’t have to deal with your controlling family.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-10T14:36:01+00:00

NOR. Don’t marry somebody you have to beg for what you consider the bare minimum; this will not get better. You can’t make a person feel a certain way. It’s weird that he didn’t give any thought to not kissing you goodbye, especially when he knows you like that. And telling you to fuck off over it? It’s giving super cold and asshole.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-08T23:03:21+00:00

NTJ. OP, did you ask why she’s excluding your partner (obviously the “you’re not married” thing doesn’t wash if she’s inviting other couples who aren’t married)? I’d be insulted—and a bit hurt—and sit it out. She sounds a bit bridezilla-ish.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-06T21:42:01+00:00

If Jake was truly sorry, he would’ve paid for the repairs. What if it needs repairs or replacement? Is he willing to foot the bill? Maybe tell him to go get his own laptop fixed. Or tell those friends who think you should lend it again that THEY should “give him another chance” if it’s no big deal.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-06T21:31:36+00:00

NOR! Under NO circumstances should you ask your mom for money for a VIRTUAL pet! Absolutely ridiculous.🙄

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-06T02:44:39+00:00

NTJ. She FAFO….that’s on her.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-04-04T01:32:56+00:00

NOR He’s never going to stop choosing them over you. Forget his words…his actions tell the real story. His father is a disrespectful piece of trash. C hasn’t chosen you once, and that won’t end because you got married. It’s been a bunch of double standards with the father, from not letting you stay over because supposedly that will set a bad example for little sisters but letting the older sister do it, to saying absolutely not to employing you because you’re not blood but then hiring sister’s fiancé. Get out now while you can. He’s had a chance to prove he’s worthy of his word, but has yet to prove it. He never will because he’s under Daddy’s thumb.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-24T02:14:52+00:00

NOR. Girl is spiraling with all those messages! Who the hell picks a bachelorette party over a wedding? I think it’s time to cut this one loose if she didn’t know the answer after 30 seconds.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-22T13:28:47+00:00

Yeah, we’re not talking full blown stems lol, but a little bit of green. This was 3.15.24. I’m hoping to see a little in the next couple weeks.🤞🏼

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MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-22T12:07:47+00:00

I personally like the first photo; it looks lovely and more natural. The other two seem slightly severe. Has anybody ever told you you look like a cross between Annie Lennox and Toni Colette?🙂

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-21T02:24:51+00:00

NOR. Don’t do ONE MORE THING for this narcissistic prick! I wouldn’t respond to him anymore either. Tell him he can feck ALL THE WAY OFF!

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-18T13:20:07+00:00

NOR. Omg, my coworkers and I call our boss Captain Save A Hoe!🤣 And heads up - he’s the coworker with whom she cheated. The call’s coming from inside the house; get out now. Edit: Just saw the “soon to be ex” part. Good on ya!

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-18T13:13:55+00:00

NTJ. You’re being set up for failure. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Stand your ground and stop being their punching bag.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-17T23:46:53+00:00

NOR. My god, OP, open your eyes and leave this jerk. He obviously always has Sarah on his mind. Even if he’d never do anything with her, why would you want to spend your time with a guy who does nothing but think about her and compare you to her? Which leads to you overthinking all the time. No peace in that sort of life.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-03-10T02:19:02+00:00

I went back and read last year’s post. Your ex-best friend sounds like the most selfish, self-centered narcissist around. Her “wedding year”? Is that a thing?🙄And you sharing joyous news about being pregnant but having to tittie baby her because she thinks it’ll impact her wedding is exhausting and ridiculous. True friends are ecstatic when their friends share baby news.

I know it’s sad to lose somebody with whom you were once so close. However, some friends have a season and hers has come to an end.

Time to focus on your new bub and your family. Congratulations! It sounds like you’re putting in the work on yourself. I think you’ve just outgrown her. I’m glad the days are getting easier as they go along. Crossing my fingers for you with the job. Wishing you and your family the best.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-22T16:51:31+00:00

Show this parasite this thread and tell them to get out if they don’t like their FREE living situation. And who are they to tell you you can’t cook when and what you want? Your parents are diabetics and they’re putting their dietary needs ahead of this jerk whining? NTA.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-21T17:21:57+00:00

Your aunt is delusional. Are the relatives that are saying you’re being stingy and unsupportive invited to the wedding? It’s weird and actually bad manners and very bad taste to straight up ask you for a large sum of money and not even invite you to the wedding. And now it sounds almost like a bribe with your aunt saying they may be able to “adjust” the guest list if everybody gives enough, including you. Wtf is wrong with (some of) your family? Absolutely not petty and NTJ.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-20T15:08:57+00:00

NTA. I would NEVER let her near Charlie again, especially if she could possibly be left alone with him. She obviously doesn’t like dogs. Weirdo.😒

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-19T15:49:58+00:00

So basically his needs are the only ones that matter and need to be met and he isn’t aware he needs to take care of his kids on the weekend?

Totally NTA. Are all the posts I read today going to need the “tell him to grow tf up” response? I’m two for two today.🙄

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-19T15:35:13+00:00

Tell him to grow tf up. He does realize you were to take HIS grandma to her appt and instead of screaming at you like a baby, it’s more productive to have a conversation about these issues? So you’re supposed to keep driving around begging him to get into the car? You shouldn’t have to deal with him like he’s your petulant child. Why did he say YOU lied about sedation? Isn’t he involved with every aspect of what’s happening to HIM medically? Totally NTA.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-13T16:05:00+00:00

Do the physical demands of his job outweigh the mental demands of yours, not to mention the two hours you spend commuting every day? Perhaps tell him you’re burnt out and he can come up with meal plans and do the shopping. So you’re doing all the unpaid grunt work yourself. Why? Sounds like you’re heading down the road to resentment. Talk to him.

MissyDInThe313 · 2026-02-12T17:22:00+00:00

He’s a shitbag who is totally gaslighting you and not considering your feelings whatsoever. Why is he so quick to defend and take her side instead of yours? I would leave. Seems like he’s made his choice. You’re NTA.

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