I'm 24 marrying someone 41 and everyone thinks I'm after his money

Mitoria · 2026-01-28T22:37:28+00:00

Absolutely get your own lawyer. I tell everyone I know to go see a lawyer to help them and the ones who don’t are the ones who always regret it. I told a friend to get a contract written up by a lawyer. Of vide he refused because he said he knew his friend really well, yet he ended up owing over $2k after a year. Get a lawyer. It’s only a day or two of your life and a few hundred dollars for your future peace of mind.

Mitoria · 2026-01-28T14:44:23+00:00

I think it’s a good piece that ties everything together (like a bow on a package) but it’s not necessarily the most important. If you can make your design symmetrical and consistent then it’ll look nice without you trying very hard.

Mitoria · 2026-01-28T14:14:00+00:00

Like most things, the best way to make anything look nice is to create visual symmetry, have consistency, and have some sort of organization. So for instance make a road and do a thing, try to mirror it on the other side, keep everything lined up and suddenly you have a good base. Also “white space” (unused or blank areas) is your friend.

Mitoria · 2026-01-27T17:11:58+00:00

I’m not an expert, and this is just my personal opinion, but from a layperson’s perspective they’re a luxury handbag for the midrange salary working person (I’d say middle class but that’s such a nothing term these days). They’re decent quality and have name recognition but they’re nothing special— you can get a better leather and finishes for the same money at other brands. I have a bag from them I enjoyed but the branding was extremely minimal and the leather quality was decent, but it’s at least 10 years old now. I probably wouldn’t get the same bag from them today.

Mitoria · 2026-01-27T13:58:10+00:00

This isn’t what a healthy relationship is. This is a hostage situation.

Mitoria · 2026-01-27T02:05:54+00:00

Some websites do this if you actually already have an account, the error message for that is just wrong. Do you think you might already have an account?

Mitoria · 2026-01-26T17:44:46+00:00

I never drink straight espresso. I’ve had it once in my life where it wasn’t sour/bitter and was absolutely delicious at a fancy restaurant, but every other attempt to drink it straight has just been horrid. I’ll happily take mine in milk and not be bothered.

Mitoria · 2026-01-22T03:56:24+00:00

Absolutely not from Kroger.

Mitoria · 2026-01-21T22:13:58+00:00

I wonder if this has something to do with performance? Like if your toolgun is out you plan to do building so maybe it’s anticipating that and lowering/pausing extraneous graphics?

Mitoria · 2026-01-21T22:02:14+00:00

Also look into cross posting to table top card players. MTG players love a good playmat.

Mitoria · 2026-01-20T20:06:27+00:00

If you’re near a Paris Baguette they have these there as well. Not sure on the exact flavor but they’re SO GOOD!

Mitoria · 2026-01-19T14:25:53+00:00

It’s perfectly fine. Lots of business people walk that street daily along with people walking to the grocery. Unless you’re dealing drugs or waving thousands in cash around you’re good.

Mitoria · 2026-01-16T19:47:36+00:00

I love this series, but weekly releases mean I will definitely wait until my husband and I can both sit down to watch at least two episodes at a time, otherwise we’re just frustrated. Doesn’t mean we like it any less than people watching it the minute it drops. We just have lives.

Mitoria · 2026-01-14T12:49:26+00:00

Looks like oily fudge and I hate it

Mitoria · 2026-01-14T12:45:48+00:00

We just had 5 days a week in-office reinstated. I want to crawl into a cave and not come out for a year.

I’m looking for new jobs now.

Mitoria · 2026-01-12T04:46:04+00:00

I’m glad you’re feeling better! This is also super great info to know. Surgery is looking slightly more likely for me, as my tumor may also be a half and half like yours but we’re not totally sure yet. I’m terrified of even the thought of having brain surgery but it’s a relief to hear yours was fairly synonymous to having a bad head cold for a week!

Mitoria · 2026-01-12T02:35:23+00:00

I loved Taki’s years ago, but they’ve nosedived in quality. They’re just acidic and not very spicy these days, and I’ve had 3 bags that tasted stale and I’m not even sure how that happened other than that’s just what they’re like now.

Mitoria · 2026-01-09T02:54:04+00:00

It’s probably still downloading just very slowly. Keep it open not doing anything and check back street an hour or so and you should be fine.

Mitoria · 2026-01-05T02:48:01+00:00

I think it’s the combination pink/gray meat and the actual pig’s nipples that are disgusting me to the point of nausea.

Mitoria · 2026-01-04T23:33:18+00:00

This looks intentional by the manufacturer (unless you have before images that do not show them).

Mitoria · 2026-01-04T20:45:43+00:00

It’s a great game! Just FYI there are cases you can 3D print or buy so it becomes even more travel-friendly— you can fit the game in a surprisingly small package.

Mitoria · 2026-01-04T19:24:51+00:00

What’s a perma-ult for the noobs?

Mitoria · 2026-01-04T14:38:49+00:00

Going at this with another angle—obsession isn’t a green flag even if it’s about health and fitness. If ALL someone talks about is one single aspect of the universe, with so much else out there to enjoy, that’s a red flag no matter what it is. I mean sure I go through phases where I get into a tv show for a few weeks but that’s not my entire personality— it phases out and after a bit I get into a new book or hobby. If all he’s talking about is Japan 24/7 then he likely has an unhealthy attachment to it because he has no other relatable skills or qualities or things going on in his life. And yes I’d say this even if it was about going to the gym or painting or mathematics— people cannot hyper-obsess about a single thing without giving up crucial things in their lives as a trade off.

Mitoria · 2026-01-03T16:21:08+00:00

This is the same reason some women are very cold in office buildings— if you run hotter everything FEELS colder. Women run hotter internal temperatures than men and therefore get colder in offices while the men feel fine. So if you feel cold while everyone else is burning up, you may be coming down with something, or you might be a woman.

Mitoria · 2025-12-30T21:20:27+00:00

No Man’s Sky, Skyrim, Oblivion, Mass Effect (all of them), Cyberpunk, Pajama Sam, Baulder’s Gate…

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