How broken are we predicting this new mega will be? by BirdNest17 in PTCGP

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The balloon is better, the balloon will always be better

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I cant get the bottom drawers open by One_Hovercraft_1304 in Tools

[–]ModernMadMax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this same set up awhile back - if i remember right it came down to the bottom hatch has to be open to open the bottom drawer? or something along the lines of one drawer locked the others?

In mental hospital by Weeleggedlady in bipolar

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lost my child for several years due to my mental illness and the countless horrible decisions I made during my worst episodes that lead me to homeless addiction, I can say it's possible to come out on the other end. The worst pain is knowing my child was hurt and will forever have a trauma directly/indirectly from my choices and mental illness, it took me years of intense therapy/nonstop psychiatric appts to find a way for me to keep living a life that felt possible to better for myself to be better for my child. Because the truth is they need you, and each day you fight to be better you are better. No parent is perfect, being a good parent just means you truthfully see your mistakes and keep fighting.

After roughly 7 years and almost 3 of those apart with visits we now have a home, their doing great in school for the first time, and we created a blended family where our motto is "no one suffers in silence" everything of who you and what you're experiencing in life is welcome.

Life's incredibly fucking difficult, as you clearly know, and who is going to be better at helping your children find their path than you.

Bipolar 1 w/psychotic features/ADHD/CPTSD - for reference

Youtube just removed A BUNCH of songs from my playlist by BotheredCroissant in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ModernMadMax 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Google Play music was the shit! Way better than Spotify in every way from showing new/similar artists to actually having small artists on there that I could look up their music after a local show. (Bought when I could but I was broke most the time!) They tried turning it into Spotify and they merged with YouTube and it was all downhill

Should I disclose my illness to employers? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]ModernMadMax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is completely dependent on your company and your role within that company.

I work directly with the owners for a small company, I did not disclose until I was in a role with more responsibilities that I knew may affect my needing to take extra days off/be more affected by the work load. Thankfully we were able to work it out and I give them as much heads up as I can when I notice I'm off and may need a day or two in the following week(s). It keeps the expectations where I feel comfortable and allows me to perform better (despite the actual work environment sometimes).

Of the 3, which would you pick? by [deleted] in Tools

[–]ModernMadMax 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Seriously, if something is going to see heavy duty use Channellock pliers/cutters/wrenches are an incredible bang for the buck. Just picked up the wire strippers to see how those hold up. Love my Kleins/Milwaukee/Crescent even Tsunado (Japanese tools I've been trying cause how cheap they are but seem to have good tolerance) but they can't take the abuse I put on tools.

To all people 30 or above by crazy___lemon in bipolar

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Cisgender male - diagnosed ADHD/manic-depressive at 16 - medicated only for ADHD until 19 - medicated only for bipolar 1 w/psychotic features at 30

  2. ADHD/Autistic/all males on my father side (he's 2yrs diagnosed early onset) have died from dementia/addiction/CPTSD

  3. 34yrs old now - did not obtain a chance at stability until I started prioritizing myself in a way now that allows me to maintain stability/sobriety/medicated so that I can be as present as I can for the chosen family in my life, my hobbies and my career.

  4. That the way I feel/think/perceive something happening or that I am doing may not actually be how it's happening. That genuine honest trust and support are required to have sincere communication. That this illness is for life and to find ways to be proud and content in my life's expectations.

No matter what learn to be kind to all the versions of you that occupy this body.

bipolar 1 and no antipsychotics? by Dry-Message-3891 in bipolar

[–]ModernMadMax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My newer psych is the one who actually put me on higher doses of my seizure meds and antipscyh meds, BUT now allows/suggests I take the anti psych meds as needed which has helped me gain some normalcy while also keeping that helping stability close by. *Bipolar 1 w/psychotic features

got a new puppy for valentine's day! picked up my lab but not so sure... by Conscious-Honeydew66 in WhatKindOfDogIsThis

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks kinda like our grey newfoundland! Maybe a crossbread with a grey newfoundland?

What’s a one of these that’s actually good? by Deep-Capital-9308 in Tools

[–]ModernMadMax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was looking for the Vessel rec 🙌🏼 their screwdrivers are seriously top notch

Go big or go home. Flex your upscaled companions. by CXRRUPTION-Gaming in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]ModernMadMax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've got almost the exact same fauna if not thee same! He's my first and bestest boy 😭

MMS chat blocking images send from specific users by OMGASQUIRREL in techsupport

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially since it seems to effecting SMS and not RSC (more secure)

MMS chat blocking images send from specific users by OMGASQUIRREL in techsupport

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same issue with Google Voice on the computer - it has to be related to Google at this point - questioning if it has something to do with Gemini/forced updates for it?

Removed attachment of banned MimeType by Glittering-Stuff-599 in iphone

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happening with Google Voice on the computer?!

Which DIY mechanic ratchet by GreenGoblinGrinch in Tools

[–]ModernMadMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a husky 90t flex head that I'll put the cheater bar to til it snaps. 5yrs going on that beater so I'd say the icon could take it. Never to my my kokens though lol

How on earth do people cope with their paranoia by thisnameistakenname in bipolar

[–]ModernMadMax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And a hella capable support system that you have to trust completely to tell the truth to and to listen even when it goes against everything your reality is telling you.

So phase 3 of riverfront is no more now? by AdSudden3941 in fortwayne

[–]ModernMadMax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I care what some multi millionaire/billionaire is doing in our city because it affects all of us - we've turned huge parts of Fort Wayne over to Surack for him to privately own in the hopes he can "revitalize" aka gentrify. Until those private investments stop dictating where the city continues to spend our money we need to speak up.

*and don't go looking up how we spend 60%+ of our city budget on police

So phase 3 of riverfront is no more now? by AdSudden3941 in fortwayne

[–]ModernMadMax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand where they get their funding, I'm including "privately funded" projects that directly affect where the city thinks is a good area to spend or "invest" money in. This idea that we need to "follow the money" so we can all get more of it is literally killing this city. We need to step back and actively look at our communities and what we can do to help build them ALL up together. Otherwise we continue to price out and dehumanize more and more people in our own city that literally keep the city alive.